There are two kinds of thrusts: heavenly stem thrust and earthly branch thrust. The focus is on two or five opposing fronts. On the basis of gram, the thrust is directional and has a much greater impact on bicycles.
Tiangan Xiang Chong
A Geng Chong, B Xin Chong, C Ren Chong and D Gui Chong.
Six reds of the earth
Woods Chong, Ugly Buchong, Shen Yinchong, Hayes Chong, You Mao Chong and Chen Xuchong.
There are four kinds of punishment: Zi Mao, Shen Yin, Wei San and Chen Wu.
Six evils: no harm to the child, ugly harm to the afternoon, yin harm, Chen harm, sea harm and unitary harm.
1, dried matter and
A combines with himself and turns to earth. A, Yang Mu Ye, whose nature is benevolent, ranks first among the ten dry, self-nature, dark soil, calm and clean, and has biological virtue, so A is righteous.
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2, the land branch Liuhe: ugly child, sea, scorpion, Chen, Shen, noon.
3, the triad of the ground branch.
Shen added water, afternoon fire, ugly alloy and unfinished wood. Trinity is the trinity of life, king and tomb.
In any of the above branches, one of the adopted parents meets the five elements. Sometimes, it is simplified, depending on whether there is any contradiction between adoptive parents. For example, Woods Chong means that the adoptive parents are rats, but the parents can't be horses. Conversely, the adoptive parents are rats, but the adopted son can't be horses. Other ugliness has not rushed to Yin, but also to Mao Youchong and Chen.
Due to the different geographical, ethnic and cultural backgrounds, the custom of "worshipping relatives" is also very different in etiquette and customs.
in Beijing
It is generally believed that recognizing michel platini as a dopted mother will be bad for her children, so she is not a close friend. People are generally afraid to ask Platini and Ma Yu, they are their own children. And worship the godmother, the two sides should exchange gifts and hold banquets. After that, every year, the godchildren will give gifts to michel platini and godmother, and michel platini and godmother will also give gifts back. Therefore, no wealthy family is difficult to socialize.
Since you want to "worship your relatives", you have to choose an auspicious day to hold the ceremony. At that time, parents should not only prepare a sumptuous banquet, but also prepare gifts for their children to pay tribute to michel platini and godmother. In this gift, the most important thing is the hat for michel platini and the shoes for dopted mother. In addition, items such as cloth should be provided. Of course, michel platini and dopted mother can't just go in and out. Michel platini and dopted mother must give their adopted sons and daughters rice bowls, chopsticks and a long life lock. In addition, they should also have a set of small clothes, such as shoes and socks, hats, bibs and stomachs. In the past, for these gifts, wealthy families would go to jewelry stores to order silver bowls and chopsticks, or go to Huguo Temple and Baita Temple to buy wooden bowls to prevent children from breaking them by mistake. It is considered unlucky to break the bowl in case.
In Henan
"Visiting relatives" is accomplished by "touching".
In Zhengzhou and Kaifeng, Henan Province, on the first morning of a baby's birth, the baby's father will go out and "touch" his surname. The first person "touches" the baby's father, regardless of sex, age, and child, will kneel and kowtow, and then explain to him that he has a baby at home and ask the other person to name the baby.
In the past, most people in rural areas were old scavengers. Some people were unprepared, but because of customs, it was inconvenient to shut them out, so they had to make up their minds. As a result, names such as "Dung Basket", "Rotou", "Dog Baby" and "Cat Baby" came out. Although these names are a bit indecent, they are just nicknames, which are people's favorite names for children. It doesn't matter much if they are called children. In some places, people who are "touched" not only give the baby a name, but also give the baby a gift and are recognized as godmothers.
In Shaanxi
Generally speaking, the "godmother recognition" is carried out by a grandmother or grandfather on the day of a child's "full moon", and the first adult he meets after going out is worshipped as godmother or michel platini.
Of course, this kind of "collision" is random, and most occasions are arranged in advance. The first person Bump meets is someone who has a good relationship with his family or status.
In Sichuan
Michel platini is called "Bao Bao" and dopted mother is called "Bao Niang". Generally, the children's uncles play the role to enhance the feelings of the two families. Some people are influenced by superstition and choose beggars and strangers as "insurance".
In addition, "adopted son" also means son-in-law in Sichuan custom. In ancient times, "adopted son" was a derogatory term in ancient times.
In Hangzhou
There is another custom for children to "worship their godparents". The godfather godmother they worship is not a real person, but a "ghost" often mentioned in Lu Xun's articles. There, "parents are afraid that their son will not live long, and they are afraid that it will cost a lot of money to worship their parents, so they don't give it to others, but to ghosts", commonly known as "worship Hu Ganye".
According to local legend, ghosts are ghosts specially sent by Yan Luowang to detain the souls of the dead. He sent his children to the ghost, hoping that it would not detain his son's soul to protect his longevity. In the past, the world didn't know the name of the ghost and mistakenly thought it was Hu's surname, so it was called "Hu Ganye". The way to pay homage to Hu Ganye is: the children's parents first make a brand-new white dress, then take it to the temple, change it into the old clothes on the statue of Hu Ganye, and burn it with soju, sesame seeds, incense sticks and silver ingots.
Finally, the messenger's son was named by the monks in the temple.
From then on, every July, the parents of the child will take him to the temple to celebrate his birthday to Grandpa Hu until the child grows to 16 years old.
Ethnic minorities
Besides the Han nationality, some ethnic minorities in China also have the custom of "visiting relatives", such as Tujia nationality, which is very representative. Tujia children not only give their children to people with other surnames as "godsons" or "goddaughters", but some families also give their children to trees, stones, wells, pigs, dogs, chickens and other things, and name them after things they worship. If it is a boy, it is generally called "rock protection", "water protection", "pig protection" and "chicken protection". If it's a girl, it's usually called "Yan Mei", "Shui Mei", "Dog Sister" and "Chicken Sister". Because in the eyes of Tujia people, only by sending children to others or things can we eliminate disasters and let children grow up smoothly.
But the ordinary ceremony of "recognizing dopted mother" is completed as long as the children formally kowtow to michel platini and dopted mother and change their names to michel platini and dopted mother. If the child is young and particularly delicate, when recognizing the dopted mother, the dopted mother will wear a particularly fat red trousers and sit on the kang, and others will take the child out of the crotch, indicating that the child is her own. Then dopted mother gives him (her) a long life lock, gives him a baby name, and eats bowls and chopsticks sent by father and dopted mother in the future. This means that children will become their children from now on, eat their family's food, and have nothing to do with their biological parents. From then on, children can borrow the blessings of michel platini and dopted mother to grow up smoothly and live a long and healthy life.