Is Wangfu married or living together?
My sister-in-law and my brother had a child out of wedlock. It was not until before we got married that my sister-in-law told my parents. We had a shocking secret, and my mother instantly collapsed and refused to let her in.
At that time, our whole family looked down upon her. Now I am very happy to marry her. She has changed our family's difficult situation. She is the most prosperous woman I have ever seen.
Although my family is from a rural area, each of our families has very little land and cannot make a living by farming, so we mainly rely on young people to go out to work to support our family.
My brother is the same. After graduating from high school, he did not go to college, so he went to the construction site with my uncle to learn carpentry. My parents always say that as long as you have a skill, you don’t have to worry about making a living.
My brother studied the trade with my uncle for three years. Although he didn’t make much money, he was basically a master. But in our remote rural area, it is difficult to find work. We basically spend three days fishing and two days sunbathing.
Seeing that the young people around me are going to work in other places to earn money, every family is starting to build new houses. My parents also started to get married because there were no two-story new houses in the countryside and they couldn't get a wife. So I asked my brother to go out to work.
When one of my brothers went to work outside the city, he was already 27 years old. He was considered an older man in the countryside. The matter of him marrying a wife has basically become a worry for my parents.
At that time, there were several young men in our village who brought wives back from other places. My parents also hoped that my brother would find a wife when he went out to work, because most of the girls in the village had married into better places. , few marry locally.
In the third year when my brother went out to work, when he went home to celebrate the New Year, he came back with a girl from the same village. The girl was only 19 years old and unmarried, but she was holding one in her hand.
My brother sent her home, but her grandparents stopped her at the door and refused to let her go home. They asked her who the child was and scolded her for being shameless and disgraceful.
In rural areas at that time, everyone's ideas were still very conservative. It was very shameful for a girl to have a child out of wedlock, so her grandparents could not accept it at all.
My brother came out quickly and said that the child was his and they would get married soon, so the grandparents reluctantly let them into the house. But rumors quickly spread in the village about anything. My parents were very happy when they found out. Suddenly they had grandchildren and a daughter-in-law, and they all recovered from their illnesses in an instant.
In fact, my sister-in-law is really a poor person. When she was very young, her mother died of illness. When she was 6 years old, she remarried again. She took her stepmother and their children to work outside all year round and rarely came back.
She has lived with her grandparents since she was a child. She is like an orphan without a father and a mother, and her life is very difficult. My sister-in-law had very good grades when she was a child. She worked very hard and wanted to change her destiny through reading.
When she graduated from junior high school, she was admitted to a better high school in the city, but her stepmother would not agree to let her go to school, because going to school in the city not only requires tuition, but also living expenses.
She once cried and begged to let her go to school, but she just said that girls don’t need to read so many books and hung up. People in the village said that she must have a stepfather, and they all felt sorry for her, but everyone was very poor in those years and no one could help her.
No way, she dropped out of school just after graduating from junior high school. After staying at home for a year, her grandparents asked her to go out to work with the villagers. She was only 16 years old at that time.
Three years later, she came back with my brother in her arms. In fact, his grandparents look down on my family, because my family is relatively poor in the village, and my brother has no future. But the rice has already been cooked, so she can only agree to the marriage.
My parents were very happy and immediately said that even though they already had a child, they would still have a grand wedding and marry her, and they would have the proper etiquette and not wrong my sister-in-law.
My parents used all their savings to give my sister-in-law’s grandparents a gift of 30,000 yuan. At that time, the price of gifts there was usually only 10,000 to 20,000 yuan. I had wronged my sister-in-law by giving birth to a child out of wedlock, so I devoted everything I had to giving her something better.
My sister-in-law was very touched by this wedding. She has been thanking my parents all the time. But unexpectedly, on the night after the wedding, which was supposed to be a beautiful moment for the bride and groom, my sister-in-law suddenly cried in front of my parents.
Her words shocked our whole family. She said that her child was not my brother’s, and that my brother said this just to help her.
My mother was holding the child in her arms and coaxing her happily. After hearing what my sister-in-law said, her eyes suddenly changed. She immediately put the child into her hand, and then pushed her and the child out of the door.
My parents collapsed on the spot and couldn't accept it at all, saying that they never wanted her to come into my house again.
My brother tried his best to stop me, and the family became a mess. I was very afraid that something would happen, so I yelled: "Stop arguing! Sit down and explain clearly first." My parents calmed down a little and sat down to listen to my brother and sister-in-law's explanation.
It turns out that the child is indeed not my brother’s. My sister-in-law, like my brother, both works in Guangdong. My sister-in-law has been working on the factory assembly line. In the second year after she went to work, a boy from out of town pursued her and was very kind to her.
My sister-in-law has lacked love since she was a child. She was very touched when others treated her better, so she soon lived with the man. Because I have not received relevant education since I was a child, I have no sense of self-protection at all.
She didn’t know she was pregnant until she was 6 months pregnant and her belly was very big. The man initially said that he would be responsible for her, but two months later, the man quietly quit his job and disappeared.
At that time, the child was already 8 months old and could only be born. My sister-in-law was very helpless and desperate at the time, so she asked my brother for help. My brother sympathized with her and we were from the same village. So I have been helping to take care of her.
After getting along for a period of time, they also developed a good impression of each other. Because she couldn't work with her children, her sister-in-law could only take her children back to her hometown to live with her grandparents, but she didn't expect that her grandparents would not let her in once she got home.
This suddenly aroused my brother's protective desire, and he said that the child was his. In fact, he was originally interested in his sister-in-law, and she also liked him, but because he had a child, he was afraid that my brother would not accept it. she.
My sister-in-law said that our family was too kind to her and she was unwilling to live with us with lies, so she chose to be honest. She knew that she had taken the wrong path before because of her ignorance. But if our family can accept her, she will treat my brother wholeheartedly and live a good life.
My brother also said that the child has not had a father since he was a child. As long as no one tells him, he is our child, just like a biological father. Besides, he is already 30. If he misses his sister-in-law, he will probably be single for the rest of his life.
My brother’s last words touched my parents. They were most afraid that my brother would remain a bachelor. My mother didn't even raise her head, stared at the floor, and said angrily: "It's okay to stay, but I have to give my son another child. If you don't live a good life, I will still kick you out." After saying this, she wiped her tears. I followed my father into the house.
The only sound left in the room was the child's crying. The child may have felt that his family was not welcoming him, so he cried very sadly. I was very, but actually very sympathetic to my sister-in-law's experience. I comforted her a few words and then went into my room. I didn't know how my brother-in-law and sister-in-law spent that night.
I originally thought that their marriage would not last long because my parents could not accept this child.
Unexpectedly, since my sister-in-law was born, our family has been cheating. Life has gotten better and better, from being the poorest family in the village to being the envy of everyone in the village.
I think my sister-in-law is the most "prosperous" woman I have ever seen. How did she manage to become a good person?
My sister-in-law is very generous to her family and never cares about her
Ever since my parents found out that the child was not my brother’s, their attitude changed completely. I like children very much and often show them off everywhere. But after that, I basically stopped hugging her, and my sister-in-law took care of it myself.
Moreover, my mother was very unpleasant to listen to. One night, the child kept crying and my brother and sister-in-law kept coaxing her in the bedroom to no avail. The whole family was so noisy that they couldn’t have any peace. My brother had no choice but to ask me for help. mom.
My mother actually cares about her children, but she just can’t get over the hurdle in her heart. She reluctantly helped to lull her to sleep, and my mother was experienced enough to put him to sleep quickly. But before she left, she complained: This little bastard is really noisy.
I saw my sister-in-law's face turn red instantly and her eyes were filled with tears. My brother held her shoulders and looked at her apologetically, missing her. I felt that there would be a fierce fight at my house that night. My mother said this, which is hard for any mother to accept.
Unexpectedly, my sister-in-law just turned around and silently entered the bathroom. After a few minutes, when she came out, her face had returned to her usual smile.
I know that my sister-in-law has been wronged a lot and I feel very guilty. The next day, I saw my sister-in-law holding her child and sunbathing at the door, so I went over to comfort her. I said, "Sister-in-law, I'm sorry. My mother's words are so unpleasant. Don't take it to heart."
< p> Unexpectedly, my sister-in-law said that she didn't mind. It was normal for the old man to be angry and say some unpleasant things. She believed that as long as she was kind to her parents, the family would definitely get better and better in the future. For her, the most difficult thing was The days have passed and she is not afraid of anything.What I didn’t expect was that my sister-in-law still prepared the food that day and called her parents to eat every day, as if what happened last night had never happened. I really felt sorry for her.
Later, I told my parents privately that since my brothers are married, they should accept my sister-in-law and their children. The children have been in our family since they were young. As long as we treat them well, they will be able to live with their biological children when they grow up. No difference.
Besides, everything is going well for the family and my sister-in-law. She has been working hard. It is hard to find such a diligent and generous girl now. If my parents make my sister-in-law angry and leave, my brother will really be a bachelor for the rest of his life.
Later, my parents’ attitude towards my sister-in-law and children gradually changed, and the family became more and more happy and laughing.
I'm thinking that if my sister-in-law hadn't been so generous, she and my brother might have broken up long ago. What my sister-in-law said the most was that everything would be fine with our family.
My sister-in-law is very motivated and smart
Before marrying my sister-in-law, my brother had been working outside and rarely stayed at home. I can't take care of my family, and I don't make much money in a year.
My brother has no ambition. In today’s terms, he is a “flat-footed” young man. As long as he has some money in his pocket, he has never thought about working hard to change the status quo.
This is also the reason why he likes to work outside. Even if he accomplishes nothing, he doesn't have to listen to his parents' nagging, let alone the opinions of the people in the village.
But since he married his sister-in-law, he felt a burden on himself and wanted to work hard to make money. But I couldn't find a way out. I was very impatient every day. I wanted to go out to work but I was worried that my sister-in-law would be at home. I was afraid that I would not be able to support her if I took her out.
At that time, our village happened to have subsidies for demolishing old houses and building new ones, so all the families who still lived in houses with mud walls were preparing to build new houses.
My sister-in-law saw the opportunity. She said that my brother was a carpenter and every household in the village now needed an architect. She asked my brother to find a few people to form a professional house-building team to take care of the house-building work in the village. If we hire them all, we won't have to worry about having no work to do in the next few years.
My brother thinks what his sister-in-law says makes sense, but he is not confident. He is afraid that others will not want to follow her, and he is also afraid that the villagers will not contract the house repairs to him.
My sister-in-law was very confident and did what she said. She soon took my brother to find all the construction workers. Then they used all their savings to buy basic construction land and equipment.
Soon everyone in the village knew that my brother and the others had formed a house-building team, and they all came to visit us. During that time, my sister-in-law not only had to follow the management team, but was also responsible for finding customers, so she was very busy.
My parents saw that my sister-in-law was so capable, so they became better and better to her. They also took the initiative to take on the responsibility of raising the child, and gradually regarded the child as their own grandson.
In that wave of house construction, the houses of dozens of households in our village were basically built by my brother’s team, because they were not only fast, but also affordable, which was much more cost-effective than hiring workers from outside. .
Our family suddenly had money, and we built a big house, which was a better house in our village. Because I have the money and the team is my own, the cost of building a house is much lower.
My parents said that they never thought that one day they would be able to live in such a big house. They were so happy and cheerful all day long.
Now my brother is working as a contractor in our county with his team, and his income is getting higher and higher.
My sister-in-law was not idle either. She asked my brother to build a storefront on a piece of land on the roadside of our house and opened one of the village supermarkets. She usually manages the supermarket.
My eldest nephew is in junior high school this year, and my younger nephew is almost three years old. It is really because of my sister-in-law that my brother has become more and more motivated, and our family has become richer and richer.
My sister-in-law is very good at handling the relationship between husband and wife, and the husband and wife are harmonious
Although my sister-in-law is a very strong person, she is very gentle to my brother. Unlike other women in the village, other women are married After that, I would always get very grumpy because I was too tired.
But my sister-in-law always smiles, and my brother can’t bear to say a harsh word to her.
Not only that, my sister-in-law also pays great attention to skin care. Although she often goes out to work, she always wears a hat to protect herself from the sun. She often pulls me to apply facial masks together at home.
So, even though I have two children now, I still dress up like an unmarried girl, very beautiful. My brother has always doted on her and liked to take her with him wherever he went because others praised his wife for her beauty.
It is said that when a husband and wife are of the same mind, they can break through metal. It is precisely because of the relationship between husband and wife that they can work together to make their lives better and better.
Therefore, from my sister-in-law’s point of view, a woman with a prosperous husband should generally have these characteristics:
1. Tolerant, very tolerant to her family, and never care about anything. Because she understands that everything will be prosperous when the family is harmonious, and only when the family is harmonious can life get better and better;
2. Be independent-minded, optimistic and positive, and motivated. She is always optimistic and motivated, and can easily drive her husband to become a good man.
3. She is very gentle to her husband, good at maintaining the relationship between husband and wife, and also pays attention to self-care, never letting herself become sloppy. As the relationship between husband and wife improves, the family will become more and more harmonious.
Wangfu, in the final analysis, is: a woman is wiser, not only good at maintaining family relationships and husband-wife relationships, but also able to influence her husband through herself, making her husband better and better, and the family getting better and better.
I would like to praise my dear sister-in-law here. I think she is the most "prosperous" woman.
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