Just like doing housework, many parents feel that their children are reluctant at first, and gradually feel that their parents take housework for granted and stay out of it. But there are exceptions to everything. Recently, a little boy's spit on the Internet has aroused the response of many netizens. What's going on here?
It turns out that Cheng Cheng is on holiday at home now, and besides the necessary homework, he has to take care of his family's diet and various housework every day. Take care of my brother in the morning and make breakfast for the two brothers. After dinner, you should clean up and cook until noon, and wake up your mother who has been sleeping in the sun.
As she told her mother to get up, she muttered, "I can't sleep at 1 1 every day. Lunch is ready. Get up and eat, just like mom's holiday. " It's good to have such a worried son. "Although his mouth is spitting at his mother, Cheng Cheng still enjoys doing all this and insists on waking up his mother who hasn't eaten yet, which also reflects the concern of pairs of mothers.
At this time, the father who helped the children do housework could not help but be amused by the child's spit. By the way, he recorded a video and posted it online. In fact, this mother starts to prepare breakfast for her children before dawn every day when they go to school. After the children are sent to school after eating, they should start preparing lunch and cleaning up the housework. I don't even have time for myself all day. Fortunately, the child will be "free" when he is on holiday, which will give him a moment's leisure.
In fact, this mother's approach is not exaggerated. This indifference just exercises the child's self-care ability. In the future, children will also thank their mothers for "letting go". At the same time, parents should also be reminded not to spoil their children as "shop assistants", which will only make them more and more lazy. It is also a good habit for children to do housework properly. So how should parents train their children?
1. Parents should not stop their children when they are interested.
If a child has a special skill, it must first be the project he is interested in, so everything is cultivated from interest. When children see that their parents are also helping their parents with housework, parents should never think that their children are "helping" and refuse directly, which will only discourage their children from the beginning. If the child's enthusiasm is gone, how can he develop a good habit of doing housework in the future?
2. Parents can do it with their children to increase parent-child relationship.
Doing housework can also be a game. At a child's age, games should be the greatest pleasure. When parents accompany their children to do housework, they should not attribute this housework to fatigue, but to parent-child games, so that children's interest will be greatly increased, and this little accumulation can gradually cultivate children's good habits of doing housework, so parents should pay attention to the way of handling it.
3. When children are not perfect, we should encourage them more.
Children help their parents do what they can, mostly in the hope of getting their parents' encouragement. Children will be more motivated when encouraged. Just like sweeping the floor, parents see that their children are not clean after sweeping the floor, and they just accuse their children of not doing housework, so they might as well do it themselves.
Children are bound to be depressed when they hear such words, so they are unwilling to do the same thing in the future. When the child's work is not perfect, parents can do it again when the child can't see it, but there are still words to encourage the child.
In the process of learning, teachers always advocate the combination of work and rest. Therefore, in the childhood when children concentrate on learning, parents should also appropriately let their children "work and rest". In addition, we should take our children to some public welfare occasions to further improve their enthusiasm for doing things.
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