People often ask questions about seeking children. I'll give a unified reply here. This issue is too complex. Why do some people pray for children as soon as they recite sutras, and some people also recite sutras and donate money, even giving more money, but they cannot get children. Also lost confidence. Or they think Buddha and Bodhisattva are just drama. So I need to analyze this issue carefully for everyone.
First of all, you must understand that it is indeed very simple for ordinary people to have children if they do not do bad things. Because God has the virtue of good life. You don’t have to ask, you will have children. But unless you do something bad. This bad thing includes the following points.
The first one is the reason for abortion. Some people have abortions after they have children, thinking that they will have more money later, but they end up having money, but they can no longer have children. Therefore, the abortion phenomenon is particularly serious. There are even doctors and nurses who perform abortions, and even hospitals that have abortion programs. The shareholders of the hospital will all suffer a retribution.
Second, it is due to having too much money. I used to say that people whose wealth exceeds their own blessings are often more likely to have daughters. It's not that I look down on women, but if you want to ask for a boy. It will be useful if you remember this statement of mine. If money is given away, it will be easier to find a son. Because of his wife's wealth and his son's salary. A son is also wealth. If you have too much money, you will naturally lack the wealth of your son. If the money is given away, the wealth will become a son for you.
This cause and effect is for everyone to observe. As the saying goes, cause and effect are not for sale. So it is actually very bad to say that all people, including women, are going to make money. But there is no way now, the *** industry of the times.
About saying that having too much money will result in not being able to find a boy. Some people wonder, thinking that compared to many people, they have less money. How could it be because they have too much money? This actually requires understanding numerology. Every life is different, and the weight of every life is different. But if you want to have a child, especially if you have difficulty finding a child for a long time, you must first give up the blessings of money.
I saw a person who asked the Bodhisattva to get rich very easily, but it was particularly difficult for him to ask for a son. It is estimated that those who are destined to have more wealth and fewer children should give up the blessings of money in exchange for the blessings of children. But it is not easy to give up money. The Medicine Master Sutra says that when we give alms, it is like cutting off our own flesh. This kind of problem is not simple.
Some people live a good life, but they cannot have children. Such people will give up money and blessings. Your blessings are concentrated in money, everyone must remember. I guess this is also the industry of this era. In the past, people thought that having more children meant blessings, and sons were a blessing. Nowadays, it is a blessing for people to have money. So the concept is different and it is caused by karma.
Contribute money to temples, or build pagodas and temples, build Buddha statues, and worship monks. Then he prayed to Bodhisattva and said, "I want a son, not money or blessings." At this time, it will be faster for you to ask for a child. But when it comes to the issue of money, it is not simple. But this offering is not as simple as a small offering, but a big offering. Even more to support. Money represents the energy blessing of your life, and now you have to turn this energy blessing into the blessing of your children. So you have to provide.
This is not because the Bodhisattva wants your wealth, but that you must use this method to transfer the blessings of money into the blessings of your children. This is what it looks like. So everyone needs to understand this. You see in the Ksitigarbha Sutra, a Brahmin woman is going to sell her house to make an offering to the Buddha. Everyone recited the Ksitigarbha Sutra and it was easy to pass. What is selling a house? Can this be done? The same goes for seeking a child, you must have great courage.
How does karma come about? Karma comes from one’s own greed. There are too many karma inspired by money now. Giving is difficult, why is it so. We fail to recognize the problem of harm caused by money. We only see that money brings us a comfortable life.
When we talk about transforming life, we actually mean changing the direction of blessing energy. If a person values ??wealth, the direction of his blessings will be toward money, and he will become richer and richer. If you don't value your children and your blessings don't go to your children, your descendants will not prosper. That's bad. The most important thing for Chinese people is to have prosperous children and grandchildren.
In the past few years, everyone’s blessings have been transferred to money, so the economy has developed suddenly. But many people don’t like having children, and the divorce rate is also very high. It can be seen that in the entire society, there are many blessings in terms of money, but there is a shortage of blessings in these four categories: marriage, children, health, and wisdom. Nowadays, many women cannot give birth naturally and have to have caesarean section. This is due to poor physical fitness. So we need to have this awakening.