In a family, mothers contribute a lot. After having children, many mothers will choose to become housewives, take care of the housework, and take care of everything for their husbands and children.
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Not only that, when the child goes to school, the mother also needs to worry about the child's learning issues, and the mother will be involved in the child's education issues.
Many people will say that they are not a qualified mother. However, there is no definition of a good mother. Everyone has different education methods. It is impossible to be a good mother.
However, mothers can learn from each other’s education methods, absorb the excellent points of others, and then improve some of their own problems, so that they can work harder to become a good mother.
Raising a little life is a very simple matter, but raising an excellent child is very difficult. Various things will happen to your child, and the way you handle them is likely to change your child's behavior. lifetime.
For example, if you see a puppy on the street, some mothers will encourage their children that dogs are very docile and you can pet them with the permission of their owners.
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If the mother says this, the child will become a child who is brave enough to be exposed to new things, very brave, and very loving. Whether it is dealing with small animals or other things, the child will be brave enough to try. < /p>
However, some mothers will take their children away immediately when they see a puppy on the street, telling their children that the small animals are aggressive and you must stay away from them.
Both of these education methods are formed based on the mother's personal views, but the children taught by these two education methods are also different.
Everyone should be very familiar with Huo Siyan. In everyone’s impression, Huo Siyan is still the gentle Seven Fairies, but Huo Siyan has become a mother.
Whether she is an actress or a mother, Huo Siyan is very successful. I believe that those who have watched variety shows such as "Where Are We Going, Dad" or "Mom Is Superman" will recognize Huo Siyan and Du Jiang's son "Hmm",
In the minds of many people , Uhm is a sweet little boy who dotes on his mother like a little princess, which makes many people want to give birth to a son as cute as Uhm in the future. However, Uhm is so outstanding, and it is also inseparable from Huo Siyan's education for Uhm. ,
I remember that in a program, Uhm was playing barefoot at home and accidentally stepped on a sharp toy. The pain made Uhm cry on the spot and frightened Huo Siyan,
Hearing her son crying and making a fuss, Huo Siyan hurried over and saw Uhm throwing the toy that had hit her. Huo Siyan did not reprimand Uhm for throwing things. You need to calm down your child's emotions first, and say "Huh, huh, it hurts" with empathy, it must be painful, right?
Feeling understood, Huh-huh’s crying was indeed much quieter, and then Huo Siyan also began to educate Huh-huh,
“Don’t throw it away in anger, or it will happen again if you throw it away. If you accidentally step on it, or your mother will step on it, if you come across such a dangerous thing, you must bring it to your mother or teacher."
Huo Siyan obviously stopped after hearing what he said. She cried, and Huo Siyan also demonstrated it in person. She stepped on the toy and said, "Huh, it hurts too much. I can completely understand your feelings."
That's it, in Huo Siyan's After being comforted, Huo Huan not only stopped crying, but also learned a skill. Many mothers also admire Huo Siyan's education method very much.
Many mothers will say that maybe their children step on this thing, and they will just take it away and tell their children to pay attention next time, so that there will be no other way to deal with it. It takes a long time to educate the child,
Moreover, it takes a long time to comfort the child, or just let the child cry in place, because the mother feels that there is nothing she can do to help the child,
But , Huo Siyan’s actions and education methods have been very useful to many mothers. They feel that this can not only comfort their children, but also help them grow their memory.
And Huo Siyan has gradually become an education for many mothers. " "Benchmark", from Huo Siyan, many mothers can learn some useful education methods, and they all look forward to raising a "warm man" one day.
Many mothers feel very confused when it comes to their children’s education. They feel that they don’t know what to do and want to educate their children, but they find that facts and imagination are always the opposite.
But mothers, please don’t be frustrated or feel that you are incompetent, because being a mother requires time and experience to help, and new mothers will feel confused. This is a normal situation,
Everyone When educating children, you can learn more from the experiences of other mothers to make up for your own shortcomings. In this way, you can learn from each other's strengths and implement better education methods on your children.