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Lily and her ex-husband were originally the golden couple envied by everyone and lived an enviable life. But when they were married for almost seven years, Lily discovered the fact that her ex-husband was cheating on her. Lily can't stand this kind of thing, and her ex-husband can't hide it. She can only choose divorce. Fortunately, her ex-husband is a man with a conscience. She gave Lily two suites and a car, which is considered property.
By chance, Lili met Wu, who just graduated from college for three years and worked as a clerk in the company. Because she was very young, Lily felt a passion that she had never felt before when she was with him, as if she were young when she was with him. Finally, under Wu's fierce pursuit, Lily let go and agreed to be with him, and soon got the certificate.
When talking about marriage, Lily is most afraid of being blocked by the other family. As a result, my mother-in-law not only did not object, but also supported her. Her mother-in-law is only eight years older than Lily. There is no generation gap between the two people, and there is a special topic. The two get along like sisters, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is exactly the same, which makes Lily feel at ease and boldly married.
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After the marriage, she sold the two houses and replaced them with a school district with three bedrooms and two halls. The Wu family hardly spent a penny. They married Lily without giving a bride price or buying a house. Lily is well maintained and looks no older than her husband. But in fact, Lily is older than her husband 15 years old. Fortunately, they are very loving and have not been unhappy because of their age. Outsiders don't know this private matter.
Lily doesn't want children. In her previous marriage, she had no children. But after being with Wu, Lily felt that she should try to be a mother and fill her role in life, so she risked her elderly mother and gave birth to a daughter. After giving birth to her daughter, her mother-in-law was not very satisfied. She has a son, because she has a preference for boys. In order to solve their worries, the mother-in-law also gave birth to a son.
Lily has no idea, so she thinks all her children are the same. But seeing that her mother-in-law supported her to have another one, and her mother-in-law was so devoted, she also decided to fight for another son, and one son and one daughter could have a good one. But before the second child got pregnant, she got leukemia. She didn't buy social security or commercial insurance, and the medical expenses were really high. After discussing with her husband, she decided to sell the house to see a doctor.
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However, at this time, my mother-in-law said that she did not support them to sell the house. My mother-in-law thinks she has a school district room in her hand. If she sells it now, her children will have nowhere to go to school in the future. But Lily thinks this is the house she bought with her own money, and her name is on the property certificate. Why can't she sell it? Now that her life is in danger, what is more important than her life?
In order to prevent Lily from selling the house, her mother-in-law encouraged Lily to borrow money from her ex-husband, who was really rich, but Lily felt it was too shameful to borrow money from her ex-husband. I said so many big words during my divorce. Besides, it's my ex-husband's fault, and now I want her to grovel and borrow money. It is out of the question.
At this time, my little husband, who loves her, didn't stand by her. He didn't say a word after all that had happened. All this made Lily very disappointed. Only then did she realize that her mother-in-law treated her as a relative for money and made friends with her in various ways. As for her husband, he is a mother-in-law and his age is still young. To him, his mother's words are the imperial edict. At the critical moment, he has no opinion at all. This marriage was full of deception from the beginning.
【 Conclusion 】 Sister-in-law's love is the least optimistic love, because in this relationship, the woman is too mature and the man has not grown up. The woman thought she had found something to rely on, but she was actually a child. The man didn't realize what marriage meant to him at all. In this unequal situation, the only person who fully grasps the marital status is the mother-in-law. Because she is about the same age as her daughter-in-law, we can dispel her vigilance through those topics that can be talked about, and make her feel that this family can accept her completely. Of course, it is not impossible for us to live a quiet and prosperous life all the time, but as long as we encounter some difficulties, when the daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law have differences, the daughter-in-law will find herself in an isolated situation. A divorced woman should never trust others, lest she fall into a failed marriage again, let alone be deceived by a man's appearance and give everything foolishly.