Everyone has a "self"-body, mind, property, reputation, status and so on. If you are a smart person, you should not only live for yourself, but also think of others. "After putting yourself in the body first, live outside the body." If we overemphasize the word "I", it will become a curse.
Second, if you care too much about other people's eyes, you will lose yourself.
Everyone is unique, but many people just like to live according to other people's eyes and opinions. Just like a toddler in the fable of Handan, this kind of person will lose himself, his personality and everything he can bring. True colors are the most beautiful. "Go your own way and let others talk!"
Third, people who indulge in lust are shallow.
If you are tired of playing with things, greed will inevitably lose. At all times and in all countries, there are too many things to humiliate and mourn the family with hobbies and greed. The world is changing with each passing day, and new things emerge one after another. If you don't pay attention to your career and cultivation, you will fall into a terrible crisis at any time.
Fourth, pride, like a full moon, is becoming increasingly scarce; Modesty is like a new moon, getting rounder and rounder.
Proud people always think they have knowledge and ability, but the real reason for pride is ignorance. Please remember lev tolstoy's clever metaphor: "If a person's real ability is compared to a fractional value, then his self-evaluation is the denominator;" The larger the denominator, the smaller the fractional value. "
5. A good soldier is invincible.
Everyone is eager for success and a happy life. However, it is wise to participate in the competition only on the basis of improving your own quality.
Sixth, lack of self-control, 100%.
Dare you dance in chains? Mr. Wen Yiduo compared poetry to dancing in chains, which is intriguing. You can't imagine a game without rules, nor can you imagine words and deeds without control. Only under the control of rules and regulations can everything be beautiful.
Seven, you can't surpass yourself, and you can't surpass others.
"If people are right, the world will not be wrong." Whether a person can beat his opponent and win a place in the fierce competition for survival depends on whether he can beat himself; Overcoming yourself is a bigger problem than defeating others.
Making friends is the most important thing in life, which is related to the success or failure of life.
The importance of friendship to life cannot be overemphasized. There are too many people whose lives are decided by their friends. It is precisely this that makes the topic of choosing friends and making friends often new.
Nine, people who send flowers are surrounded by flowers, and people who plant thorns are surrounded by thorns.
This is a question of how to treat others better for yourself. The answer is simple. Being kind to others will ultimately benefit you, and being evil to others will put you in a hopeless situation. "The person who surpasses you is the person who surpasses you." Whether your life path is covered with flowers or thorns depends on you.
10. Without sufficient measurement, there is no scale for doing great things.
Don't ask for understanding, just ask for forgiveness. Instead of haggling over every ounce, laugh it off, especially don't try to change others. With the net open, you may come back from all directions; Cut through thorns, it is better to go around. Why not?
Eleven, be good at grasping human nature, in order to win people's hearts.
"Those who win people's hearts win the world, those who lose people's hearts lose the world", "People's hearts belong to destiny". To win people's hearts, we must be good at grasping human nature, especially its weaknesses. Human nature is like heaven, those who follow it prosper, and those who oppose it die.
12. The power of language is enough to topple the world.
"In the past, all mass movements in the calendar were due to the power of language. Although this statement is hard to agree with, it tells the fact that this is the role of language. It enlightens us that language is power, enough to conquer people's hearts and even everything.
Thirteen, it is difficult to use the world independently.
We live in a world dominated by the majority. Power is given by the majority, stars are famous by the majority, and the rich are fattened by the majority. The essence of "majority" is ordinary. In the case that the "majority" can veto everything, let us become one with you like light and dust!
Fourteen, capricious people, rebellious and close.
In the changeable modern society, the opportunities to change followers or partners are greatly increased. People in China value loyalty very much. People who change jobs are often regarded as traitors, and people who have two feet on both sides are also regarded as capricious people. Loyalty doesn't mean clinging to residue. What should we do?
Fifteen, everything can be positive, and nothing can be negative.
There are only three situations in the world, impossible, impossible and possible. Most cases fall into the third category. Therefore, whether it is positive or negative has become the decisive factor for the success or failure of a career. If God is in charge, then your mind is God's will.
Sixteen, lying in bed can't go on the road.
Plans can be perfected in implementation, conditions can be matured through creation, and waiting for everything can only make plans stillborn. It is impossible to sail without risk. Maybe the risk is waiting, and the safest way is to do it.
Seventeen, good at using external forces, the cause has a fulcrum.
Remember the words of the ancient Greek philosopher Archimedes? "Give me a fulcrum, and I can pry up the earth." Any cause needs a fulcrum, and this fulcrum depends on external forces. Although human nature is selfish, it is also helpful. As long as you have a beautiful blueprint, he is a cash cow.
Eighteen, the piano does not allow the third hand.
Although ten fingers must move when playing the piano, a third hand is absolutely not allowed to intervene. Similarly, you must make your own decisions. One is to be careful to prevent the third hand from failing, and the other is to solemnly warn. Cut it decisively if you don't take it back!
Nineteen, the focus of work is directly proportional to the success of the cause.
It is an iron law that "industrious people are diligent and thrifty, while wasteful people enjoy themselves". Only those who concentrate on their work can succeed. The more they concentrate, the greater their success. As Xunzi said: "Earthworms have no claws and strong bones and muscles. They concentrate on eating land and drinking yellow water. " The crab kneels six times and pinches twice. Those caves that are not snake food, people who have no sustenance are also anxious. "
20. Fatal failure depends on weakness.
Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? There is actually only a little difference between a glorious winner and a pathetic loser. The score of a ball is to lose a game, and one percent of the defective products are enough to ruin a game. Therefore, we must never ignore the weak disadvantages, but strive for decisive advantages.
2 1. Being defeated by failure is the real failure.
Everyone will experience failure sooner or later. This is not an ominous prophecy. God's school doesn't allow truancy. Nothing is smooth sailing in the world, and repeated defeats and wars are the only way to success. Therefore, the real winners can only be those who can't stand the classics and are in good spirits.
The secret of success lies in being smarter, not working harder.
People always emphasize hard work, "no pains, no gains". Why do you have to suffer? Why don't you try to win ten points with one or two points? In the era of knowledge economy, that is, the era of wisdom economy, wisdom is more valuable than hard work.
Twenty-three, the prospect of people who come to the end of a road is dark.
There is no "all roads lead to Rome" and there is no right road forever. "A tiny difference is a thousand miles away." People who don't know how to adjust their direction, the faster they move forward, the farther they will be from success. It is to explore while advancing, find mistakes, resolutely correct them, and never take one more step on the wrong road.
Twenty-four, do big things can't be caught.
People who travel far should not let vines entangle their feet, and people who do great things should not stop because of leverage. If you are confined to a small area, you will ruin a great event. When there is a conflict between the whole and the part, between interests and morality, between reason and emotion, we should not only know the general situation, but also be as decisive and tenacious as the strong.
Twenty-five, decisive weapons, don't show it to people.
A soldier's sword can only be seen in blood. Once the decisive weapon is exposed, you will fall down before the sword is drawn, and you will always fall in a pool of regret.
Twenty-six, an excellent soldier, must seek potential.
Wise men pay attention to the use of force, fools only know how to use it. You can move a thousand pounds with four or two moves, and it is even harder to compete with the force of one thousand pounds. The so-called "heroes create the situation" is only possible under the premise of making good use of the situation, so Sun Tzu's art of war says: "A good fighter seeks the situation without complaining."
Twenty-seven, challenge the limit, beware of extremes meet.
Can limits be challenged? Don't! No one has ever broken the real limit. Those successful challengers just broke through some obstacles of Jiao Da University, and the real limit is insurmountable. The impulse to challenge the limit hides great danger, so enough is enough.
Twenty-eight, the wise don't dance "double-edged sword"
All winning weapons are in danger of hurting themselves. However, under the temptation of interests, some people are reluctant to leave this "double-edged sword", so their feet are deep and shallow, their hearts are bright and their hearts are dark, and their future becomes confusing. A wise man never dances a double-edged sword.