Li Yan, now 12 years old, has grown slim. After many operations, she looks no different from ordinary people. The most important thing is that the child has a sound mind. She often participates in various activities and associates with all kinds of people. She also taught netizens to make up live on the Internet. Li Yan confidently said to everyone: "In fact, sometimes I feel really perfect, because I am better at dressing up!" " A word infected many netizens, and everyone turned to Li Yanlu. As we all know, it is very difficult for a child with congenital defects to have a confident heart. Li Yan's success is due to his father Li's concern and good teaching. Over the years, Li experienced a marriage failure with Faye Wong and a major blow to his career, but his concern for Li Yan has never changed.
Being so troubled by the media, you can imagine how sad the life of the Li family is in Faye Wong. Even now, there are still many people who cast discriminatory eyes on Li Yan: "Ugly! You don't need makeup to play the old lady, haha. " Li Yan didn't know what ridicule was when she was young, but as she grew older, she became more and more aware of the difference between herself and others.
When Li Yan was in elementary school, she curiously asked her grandmother, "Why is my mouth different from others?"? "At that time, my grandmother told her that everyone was different and didn't care. But now, Li Yan must understand the meaning of grandma's sentence "different" She looks very sunny. Will she hide and wipe her tears? As a child of a public figure, Li Yan is under greater pressure than the average rabbit-lipped child!
Then the question is, why did Faye Wong and Li have to give birth to Li Yan? Haven't they seriously thought about what it means to bring Li Yan into this world? Interestingly, when making this decision with Faye Wong, Li only said three short sentences. In an interview, Li revealed that after his wife Faye Wong finished the pregnancy test, both of them suffered heavy losses and remained silent on the way back. Later, Li took the lead in asking: "What do you think?" Faye Wong was obviously not disappointed: "What do you mean!" The implication is that he doesn't want to give up the child. As soon as Li heard it, he understood: "Okay, I understand." So Faye Wong took risks and gave birth to Li Yan by caesarean section. This is a great mother.
We can see that Li fully respects Faye Wong's opinion when deciding whether to have children. If Faye Wong hadn't insisted at that time, there might not be Li Yan now. As for why he made that decision, Faye Wong's explanation is actually because of his faith! As we all know, Faye Wong has been a devout believer in Buddhism for many years and a vegetarian. Buddhism advocates compassion, compassion for all beings, and awe of all beings. So Faye Wong decided to have children, because abortion is undoubtedly a blasphemy against life.
Here, some netizens interpret Faye Wong's behavior as selfish. They think that Faye Wong gave birth to Li Yan because of his faith. Without this belief, Faye Wong should not have a daughter. Bian Xiao thinks that netizens' ideas are black and white, which is a bit boring. Who says maternal love can't coexist with faith? Faye Wong insisted on giving birth to Li Yan, in fact, a large part of it was because of maternal love, but Faye Wong didn't say it.
As for Li Yan, Faye Wong persuaded himself to accept from the perspective of Buddhism: "There will be shortcomings in life, and every life has them, whether physically or psychologically. We must accept them completely. Since I have faith, I think we should look at the problem this way. I never thought about making another decision. " So Faye Wong insisted on giving birth to Li Yan, not so much because of her faith as because she just did what a mother would do.
At the same time, Faye Wong's answer also shows the helplessness of life. There are many things in life that we can't control. It is better to try to accept it than to fight needlessly. Faye Wong himself actually had a miserable childhood. She grew up under the compulsory education of a strong mother, and was often obstructed by her mother in the process of growing up. When Faye Wong was in high school, she fell in love with her classmates. Her mother learned Faye Wong's secret by reading her diary, and went directly to the school to find the head teacher, making a fuss about things without considering her daughter's feelings.
In addition, Faye Wong's singing hobby was also denied by her mother. When she was a student, her mother prevented Faye Wong from developing her hobbies. Later, Faye Wong became famous in Hongkong and needed to go to the United States to study vocal music, which was also blocked by his mother ... This growing experience made Faye Wong a person who longed for freedom and hated bondage. She didn't like being controlled, so she gradually became a Buddhist.
Faye Wong and Li Yan are the same. She knew that the baby was harelip, but she still wanted to give birth to her. Because Faye Wong, who believes in Buddhism, knows that he should not decide the life and death of a child. What's wrong with rabbit lips? Try to accept it. It has been said that Faye Wong doesn't love Li Yan and is not responsible for Li Yan, but in fact, you see that Faye Wong and Li Yan have a good relationship, which shows that she is a responsible mother. Faye Wong also didn't use her mother's compulsory education on Li Yan. Her way of education is to encourage and recognize children and build their self-confidence.
When outsiders discussed Li Yan's appearance, Faye Wong made it clear: "Li Yan is very beautiful, and I don't think she has any problems at all." It is unfortunate that Li Yan was born with harelip, but having excellent parents like Faye Wong and Li is the greatest blessing. I hope Li Yan can understand Faye Wong's painstaking efforts in the future, try to accept the helplessness of life, and know that it is perfect to truly accept imperfect talents.