Some people think that people's life is doomed, and what happened in this life has long been doomed. But in my opinion, you can still choose what happened and your own life path. If you blindly believe in fate, it will only make your life very bumpy. Therefore, under certain circumstances, people can still choose by themselves, at least they can choose their own lifestyle and the people they meet. This has a great influence on your life. As the saying goes, there must be a teacher in a threesome. If you are surrounded by people who can influence you, you will gradually become as wise as them. This is the role of influence. In ancient times, there was such a person who saw through the world and left a lot of philosophy. Even some theories can still be applied today, and the character mentioned by the author is Guiguzi. He once said that if you memorize the three formulas and stay away from these three kinds of people, life will be smoother and smoother. Come and see if there is such a person around you!
1, lack of knowledge, and worry.
The first of the three kinds of people mentioned by Guiguzi mainly refers to people who don't have much knowledge but are willing to worry more. Because they know too little, their fear of the unknown will gradually emerge, which is likely to affect your relationship. Even when you do something, he will think it is harmful to himself. In fact, on the other hand, it is not good for such people to hide around, and they are likely to re-examine your relationship with him because of some small things. If you have such people around you, you'd better stay away!
2, the less prestige, the more angry.
The second kind of person mentioned by Gui Guzi mainly talks about people who are not dignified enough, but are still willing to be angry with others. Such people often pretend to be arrogant and think they are very capable. So when others don't value themselves, they often get angry with others. But I don't know, I'm not really an important person. If you have such people around you, you will often be in a state of being ordered. So if you have such people around you, you'd better stay away, because in their eyes, they never take anyone seriously except themselves.
3. I don't have enough letters, but I am willing to talk more.
Guiguzi mentioned that the last person is actually very hateful. Such people habitually talk nonsense, but they are willing to promise others even if they can't finish it. This kind of person is hateful in life, but it is also very common. Everyone will forgive him at first, but gradually the trust has disappeared, which will only make the feelings more and more fragile. Associating with such people will make you very tired, so if there are people around you who are willing to talk nonsense, it is better to stay away!
These are three kinds of people summed up by saints, and I recited three formulas. If I stay away from these three kinds of people, my life will be smoother and smoother. I hope it is useful to everyone!