If you forget the eight characters, you can get along for a hundred years, but can you get along for a hundred years without cherishing each other and taking marriage seriously? On the other hand, if the eight characters don't match, can you give up your feelings for this illusory statement?
If you really believe, according to the eight characters, can you marry a dinosaur who is super-matched but doesn't love him? You know how difficult it is to meet someone who knows each other and loves each other for life in this world! As long as they sincerely and patiently contribute to the marriage, they will be happy.
Please take the real thing seriously! Is your other half worth getting married? Are you ready to spend your life for him? Did you get married just to get married, or did you meet someone who couldn't give up anyway? If it is the latter, you don't have to count eight characters!