Fortune/Literature
Since ancient times, marriage is not smooth and emotional frustration is the most painful and helpless thing. When the marriage situation is not smooth, it not only affects physical and mental health, but also affects the career, and often there is nothing you can do. Some people often blame each other for their unhappy marriage, and even hate their guts. So whose fault is it that their marriage is unhappy?
In fact, the issue of marriage and affection is fundamentally a matter of fate, which is unavoidable. We will meet each other by chance, but never know each other. The fate is long, but the fate is shallow. This so-called fate seems to be invisible and intangible, but in fact, there are potential signs in their lives.
From a new perspective, this so-called fate was forged in a previous life. People often say that we spent a hundred years in the same boat and slept for a thousand years. They also say that looking back at the previous one 5 years ago, we met in this life, which shows how difficult this fate is. We can't see the past life, but we should cherish this life and cherish the fate. In birthdates, it is the moon column that represents this love, so there has been a saying since ancient times that the old moon leads the red line and makes a good marriage. This month's old age refers to the influence of the moon in the sky on people's emotions, that is, the emotional intelligence information that we inherited in the month when we were born.
Some people often say that the reason for breaking up is that they have different tempers and personalities, which also makes sense, because thousands of people have different tempers and different personalities. Some tempers and personalities are relatively harmonious, while others are quite conflicting, which causes some people to get along with each other affectionately, while others are indifferent. So how did this so-called temper character come into being?
this so-called temper character is actually determined by the date of birth, which is the natural information of the date of birth that this person inherits, that is, the five elements gas field. Because the sun is new every day, and it changes in turn throughout the year, the five-element aura of each day is also different. Therefore, being born on different days has inherited different five-element aura and formed a different temperament.
So, it follows from this that whether people born on the same day inherit the same five-element aura is more harmonious? In fact, this is not the case, because in nature, there is an important law, that is, the same sex repels each other, the opposite sex attracts each other, and the more similar people are, if they are at a certain distance, they can still live in harmony. If they are too close, they are prone to rebellious psychology and rejection, which will lead to conflicts.
So, is it easier to get along with people with completely opposite temper and personality? Not really. Because the personality difference is too big, there will also be contradictions and conflicts. So what kind of temper and personality are people who are easy to get along with?
to be precise, people with similar temper and personality are easy to get along with. This "congenial" is actually "consistent". In terms of numerology, only those people in birthdates who can combine the five elements, such as the earthly branch, the triad, the heavenly stem and the five branches, can get along with each other harmoniously and easily. Such people are more harmonious, happy and long-lasting when they are combined. And those in birthdates who support six red, six evils, three punishments or support each other are not easy to get along with. When such people are combined, contradictions and conflicts will continue, affecting their feelings, and the gas field will be difficult, and they will eventually have to go their separate ways.
Let's give some examples to see the differences of temper and personality. From a personal point of view, in marriage feelings, I am most afraid of encountering the wrong day, because when dealing with marriage problems, people are always "wrong", which leads to uncontrollable results; I am also afraid of "Sheep's Blade Day" and "Kui Gang Day", because people on Sheep's Blade Day or Kui Gang Day have extreme temper and personality, and it is difficult to handle problems calmly, so it will also lead to a bad ending. If you bring peach blossoms outside the wall, or multiple peach blossoms, it is easy to empathize with others, and your feelings are not specialized, which leads to repeated marriages, repeated love and repeated defeats.
From the perspective of marriage, if the years collide, harm each other or punish each other, it means that the foundation of marriage is not good; If the moon columns collide, harm each other, punish each other, or fall in the air, it means that the fate is not deep or long; If the Japanese column, especially the Japanese branch of the wedding palace, collides with each other, harms each other or punishes each other, it means that the temper and personality conflict are too heavy and the marriage situation is difficult to be harmonious; If the pillars collide, harm each other, punish each other or fail, it means that in the future, there will be many contradictions and conflicts, which will eventually lead to a bad ending.
from the above analysis, it is not difficult to see that it is not one person's fault that the marriage is not smooth, but that everyone is born with factors that are unfavorable to the marriage, or there are factors that cannot be harmonious in their marriage. If you realize this, you may not blame each other or complain about others.
so how to solve these problems?
First, when choosing a partner, don't be too rash. It's better to rationally combine the characters of the two to see if the marriage is true. Second, in the case of being in love or married, when encountering conflicts, don't be emotional, try to understand each other, seek common ground, put aside differences, take care of the overall situation, and don't break up rashly. Third, in the case of nowhere, don't just maintain it. Sometimes choosing to break up peacefully may be a kind of * * * for the two.
Of course, it may be a wise move if we can find out the reasons from the numerology of both parties and refer to the innate foundation, marriage, personality, future and other factors, so as to make a rational choice between continuation and suspension.
If, through the analysis of marriage, the two people have some conflicts, but they also have a lot in common, or the eight-character conflict, but their marriage luck is relatively consistent, which is not enough to break up, then it is necessary to make some necessary adjustments in terms of the problems existing in their marriage, the five elements, geomantic omen and so on, which can also resolve the contradiction of marriage and finish the marriage together.
of course, the above are all analyzed and discussed from the perspective of time, and time information sometimes changes. During this period, conflicts may not be smooth, but after these years, it may be more coordinated. So sometimes, the persistence of humiliation is not a passive way to solve the contradiction of marriage.
If we look at the geomantic omen in which they live, it is more valuable for reference. For example, the two people's marriage is not smooth, not only because their respective time information is not good, but also because the geomantic environment in which they are married or now is not auspicious. This geomantic space may have an unfavorable atmosphere for marriage, which leads to the contradiction between them. For example, some bad feng shui will affect the marital feelings of residents; Some residential feng shui is not good, which will also affect the marriage feelings of the residents. There are many older young people who can't marry their daughters-in-law or find a husband. Apart from their own life, there must be objective factors that are unfavorable to their marriage in their current geomantic environment, such as houses or bedrooms, which is also an important aspect that is often overlooked.
In reality, there are many such houses. After moving to a new area or moving into a new home, a couple who were originally in love with each other and suffered hardships and hardships constantly had conflicts, and finally had to divorce and break up. These are not only problems in their eight-character marriage, but also the geomantic environment in which they lived, which induced or triggered unfavorable factors in their marriage, resulting in various joys and sorrows.
Therefore, to solve the problem of unhappy marriage, we need to do some necessary survey and adjustment from geomantic omen, so as to fundamentally solve the problem of unhappy marriage.
(personal numerology prediction, WeChat Fuyuan said numerology)
The above is related to the conflict with the couple's palace, and it is about the sharing of Feng Shui. After watching the husband and wife palace and the monthly punishment, I hope this will help everyone!