In fact, the main reason is that they did not communicate well with each other. Some reluctance factors before marriage were also indirect reasons for the separation.
Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang have been separated for some time, but the discussion about their marriage still cannot be settled for a long time. This also reminds me of an interview with Li Xiaolu, she said at the time The thing is? Actually, I didn’t plan to get married at the beginning, just because of some special reasons. In fact, it can be seen from these words that there were already certain cracks in their marriage at that time. It was too forced and they did not really want to accompany each other for life, which was very dangerous.
At this time, we may think, since we don’t want to be together, can a reluctant marriage be happy? , actually it is possible. It's just that it's not that simple to run a marriage well. This requires two people to understand, care, and love each other. Just like doing business, there are many aspects that need to be considered.
Especially after we ordinary people have children, many complicated things will appear. Often at this stage, the couple needs to plan and manage them reasonably. If it is managed well, then the family will live a very happy life. On the contrary, it will cause many conflicts and unsatisfactory things, which will lead to the end of the marriage.
In fact, when faced with these trivial marriage details, we need to treat them calmly when they arise. At the same time, we also need to think more about each other's past at this critical moment, and think about the happy and happy moments together. We cannot say that we should use the current troubles to negate all the good things about each other before.
Of course, we also need to strengthen communication with each other, sit down and have a good conversation, explain everything that needs to be said clearly, and solve the problems that can be solved one by one. At the same time, you must remember that marriage also has a painful running-in period. During this period, it is best for two people not to give up lightly, because maybe happiness is waiting for you not far away.