Attachment: the old "wedding list" style (red paper is listed in strips)
Wedding list
On the one hand, it faces a certain party at a certain moment; on the other hand, it faces a certain party at a certain moment; on the other hand, it faces a certain party; on the other hand, it faces a certain party; on the other hand, it avoids three phases; on the other hand, it faces a certain party; on the other hand, it avoids three phases
Note.
② wearing a crown: the moment when wearing a rockhopper and "welcoming clothes" ("welcoming" is commonly pronounced as "ning" here);
③ avoid the three phases: every relative should avoid the three phases that contradict each other in the relevant year, which is an old folk custom. When a new person gets on or off the sedan chair or carries a dowry, the relative he avoids, otherwise, it will be bad for both parties. The general precepts are: snake, chicken and cow in the year of Shen Zichen, tiger, horse and dog in the year of ugliness, pig, rabbit and sheep in the year of Yinwu, and dragon, mouse and monkey in the year of Haimao. When you know, you should consciously avoid it.
5. send a good day: after the man chooses the wedding date, he should choose an auspicious day to send it to the woman's house, which is commonly called "send a good day". In the past, it was all done in the form of "exchanging posts", indicating that both parties agreed, and if there was no objection, they could prepare separately and get married as scheduled. This form has long been abolished, and later it was only verbally told to the woman and agreed.
At present, the local folk custom of "depending on the date" is still passed down, but many superstitious and complicated rules and regulations have been broken. Many people get married on major festivals such as May Day, National Day and New Year's Day.