1. Growth takes time. The only thing you have to do is, after you have set your sights on the goal, move forward with patience and perseverance. This is the process of our growth.
2. There are two ways of life for us people: the first is to live like grass. Although you are alive and growing every year, you are still a grass after all. You absorb rain, dew and sunshine, but You don’t grow up, people can step on you, but people will not feel pain because of your pain, people will not pity you because you are stepped on, because people themselves have not seen you! So each of us We should all grow like trees. Even if we are nothing now, as long as you have the seeds of the tree, even if you are stepped into the middle of the soil, you can still absorb the nutrients of the soil and grow by yourself. Maybe you will grow in two or three years. Not big, but you will definitely grow into a towering tree in ten, eight, or twenty years. When you grow into a towering tree, people in distant places will be able to see you. When they approach you, you can give people a piece of green. A piece of shade, you can help others. Even after people leave you, looking back, you are still a beautiful scenery on the horizon. A tree is a beautiful scenery when it is alive. It is still a pillar of talent after death. It is useful whether alive or dead. This It is the standard for each of us to be a human being and the standard for growth.
3. Anyone who wants to accomplish one thing at once, even if he accomplishes it, he has no foundation, because it is like a house built on the beach, and it will eventually be destroyed. Will collapse. Only those who slowly get things done step by step, lay a solid foundation for themselves with each step, give themselves a good explanation with each step, and then take a step higher towards the future can they Able to really make things happen.
4. What do you like most and what should you do? After you decide what you want to do for the rest of your life, you must do it unswervingly and don’t change it casually. You can be like a river. , the more it flows, the wider it gets, but don’t ever think about turning into another river or a mountain.
5. The most important ability in our future life is the ability to bear humiliation and bear burdens. Many celebrities will encounter many things that you can't stand, but you have to endure it. If you don't tolerate it, you can't succeed. , why? Because if you don’t endure the humiliation, you won’t have time, you won’t have space, and there will be no room for the future. If you want to move toward the future and eventually become stronger and more prosperous, you must do a good job leaving enough for yourself. Time and space, when it is our turn to strive for a great goal in our own lives, you must eliminate and must eliminate all trivial interference in your life, so you must endure the humiliation! The same is true for individuals, you must want to To achieve great development, you have to fight for yourself time, space, and future. One of the most important prerequisites for fighting for time, space, and future is that you have ideals! But you dare to endure everything that happens in life. Unfair, or everything that you think you can’t bear!
6. I have a metaphor. Every river has its own different life curve. The curves of the Yangtze River and the Yellow River are absolutely different. Yes, but every river has its own dream, which is to run to the sea! So no matter how twists and turns the Yellow River is and how many obstacles it has bypassed, the Yangtze River does not have as many turns as the Yellow River, but it breaks through the cliffs in the same way. It was different, but in the end we reached the sea.
When we encounter difficulties, whether we rush over or go around, as long as we can get over it, I hope everyone can make their lives flow towards their dreams, like the Yangtze and Yellow Rivers, to the end of their dreams and into the broad The ocean broadens your life and your career, but it does not mean that you can flow through it if you want. In fact, there is a spirit in it. There is no doubt that this is the spirit of water. Spirit! Sometimes our lives can be like sand. Although you will flow forward with the water, due to your personality flaws, retreat or timidity in the face of difficulties, you may slowly become like sand. It has settled down. Once you have settled down, you may no longer have to work hard to move forward, but you will never see the sun. Once you have settled down, the sediment above will continue to hold you down, and finally you will There is no daylight, so I suggest everyone, no matter what your life is like now, you must have the spirit of water. Even if you are polluted, you can clean yourself. Like water, you can continue to accumulate your own strength and break through obstacles. When When you find that the opportunity does not come, accumulate your strength. When one day the opportunity comes, you will be able to gallop into the sea and achieve your own life!
7. Everyone knows that in Western mythology , there is a story called Sisyphus. Because he was punished by Zeus, he had to push a stone from the foot of the mountain to the top of the mountain. When he pushed the big stone to the top of the mountain, the stone would automatically roll down to the foot of the mountain. He then I have to push the stone from scratch, so it’s very annoying! Think about it for a moment, is our daily life and work a process like this? When he pushes the stone and treats it as a kind of punishment, he will feel very uncomfortable. , pushing rocks with resentment and resentment every day, just like many of us working with resentment and resentment, you will never do a good job, but when he later realized this, he pushed the stone through the spring, summer, autumn and winter. , pushed through thunder and lightning, wind and frost, when he pushed to the top of the mountain and saw the blue sky higher and more beautiful, he felt that pushing the stone was also a kind of beauty of life, and life was actually sublimated. What does it mean to live a worthwhile life? When we look back at the days we have passed, we have some days that can move us to tears. So what do we mean by days that make you burst into tears? You have made some sacrifices. Something you thought you couldn’t do, but you did.
8. My own personal experience is that there are several key points on how to make your business more successful if it is reprinted from 100%.com, please keep this mark: The first point is how to maximize your long-term success. To combine goals and short-term goals, we must first distinguish clearly which things we want to do for the rest of our lives and which things we can do without doing once we finish them all at once. There is a saying in China that says, do urgent things slowly. The more urgent you are, the more carefully and conscientiously you do it, the better you can do it. However, the more urgent you are, the faster you do it, but the more messy you do it. I also call this urgent matter a big deal. For example, if you want to master a high level of English throughout your life, if you say it will take me three months to study twelve hours a day, it is absolutely impossible for you. Three months, your Your English level will be greatly improved, but after three months you will stop learning, and after another three months, your English level will be forgotten. The second element is to decide what you want to do with your life. Then another thing that I think is very important is the planning of time when doing things. A person is very proactive. I was a New Oriental employee more than ten years ago. Sometimes, I feel like I don’t have enough time. I’m so busy that I end up finding that I can’t get anything done. The things I do now in 24 hours are the same as the things I did more than ten years ago in a hurry. , are totally different.
So why are you still so busy? The reason is very simple, because when you are too busy, you know how to plan your time. One thing to remember is that the time for anything must be enough If you squeeze it out, then there is another very important thing, which is that success requires self-discipline. I learned to ski five years ago. When I first started skiing, I would fall on the snow. Later, I I found that it didn't work. I had to learn to stop. Everyone knows that there are two ways to stop in skiing. Beginners use the figure-eight stopping method. But when the slope of the ski reaches a certain slope, the figure-eight stop method is completely useless. You must have two skis coming sideways to stop, so I spent a whole week not practicing skiing, but just practicing stopping. When I found that my stopping was already very good, I I just carried my skis on the advanced trail. I have a friend who thinks that if you can go up, I can also go up. His ski trail has slopes on one side and cliffs on the other. When he went down, he couldn't stop because he couldn't stop. So he rushed directly towards the cliff. Wasn't he afraid when he rushed over? After he was afraid, he started to twist around forcefully. When he twisted around, one foot was twisted over, but the other foot was not twisted over, and the two feet suddenly turned around. The ligament was torn open and the ligament was completely severed. At any time, when you are faced with a huge temptation or any other temptation that may arise, if you feel that you cannot stop, you Don't chase that thing, because if you chase that thing and can't stop, you will definitely be the one who stumbles in the end!
9. The difference between greatness and ordinary people is that an ordinary person lives his life every day. He lives a trivial life, but when he piles up the trivial things, it is still a pile of trivial life! The so-called great person is a pile of trivial things, through a great goal, accumulated every day, and turned into a great cause!
10. There are two sentences that I appreciate: life is a process; career is a result. Each of us lives every day. If you are unhappy every day, if you combine all the days, you will be unhappy for the rest of your life. But if you are happy every day, you will actually be happy for the rest of your life. Happy! One time when I was walking to the Yellow River, I filled a bottle of water with a mineral water bottle. Everyone knows that the water in the Yellow River is very muddy. Then I left it on the roadside for about an hour. To my great surprise, I found that three-quarters of it had turned into a very clear bottle of water, while only one-quarter was settled sediment. So if we compare the clear water part of this bottle of water to our happiness and joy, and compare the turbid mud and precipitated sand to our pain, you will understand that after you shake it, your life will change. The whole body is filled with turbidity, that is, it is filled with pain and troubles. But when you calm down your mind, even though the total weight of the sediment has not decreased at all, it settles in your heart because your heart is relatively calm. So
it will never be mixed up again, so three-quarters of your life must be happiness and joy. What is a career? It is a result. As we all know, as a matter of fact, it is indeed ruthless. If I had failed in New Oriental, I would never have had the opportunity to come here to speak to you. The reason Because the final result is here, so as long as you are doing anything, it cannot be considered a success. For example, if we say that Cao Xueqin is successful, whether it is socialism or capitalism, we must admit that Cao Xueqin is the most important person in Chinese history. One of the greatest writers, we say Newton is successful. No matter which country, everyone will admit that he is one of the greatest scientists in the world. I consider myself successful. If I am not successful, how much will I do in New Oriental? , it doesn’t depend on how much money I have or how many friends I have. I think my success lies in my mentality. I have fallen down thousands of times in the past, and I may fall down thousands of times in the future, but I can still do it. Get up.
For you to do things, the results of the things are the only criterion for success in the eyes of society!
11. What I want to tell you is that the path of human life is actually It’s very uneven. You can’t make it all by yourself. This world can only be accomplished if you are with others and work together for the same goal. One person is very powerful. It is limited, but the power of a group of people is unlimited. When five fingers are stretched out, it is five fingers, but when you hold the five fingers together, it is a fist!
They are all Yu Minhong's own combination. I think many of his words are quite interesting