How to clearly understand your love brain?

A sober love brain means being very clear about the current emotional state, knowing that two people may not be suitable, and knowing that feelings have no results. At the same time, I also paid too much unilaterally, but I still put all my energy into this relationship and got involved in a love affair soberly. I can't extricate myself and know a lot of truth, but I still can't manage this relationship well.

A clear love brain, once it begins to fall in love, puts all its thoughts and energy on the lover and thinks about how to maintain this relationship every day. This touching behavior often brings great pressure to the other half, and also creates an unrealistic fantasy for oneself, turning what originally belonged to two people into their own inner play.

Another manifestation of the sober love brain is that it relies too much on each other and feels inexplicably inferior to itself, so it will cycle in the mood of hard work but no return-self-doubt. Once you enter a relationship, you will be eager to be with each other at any time and constantly confirm each other's feelings in some way.

Because of fear of being abandoned or emotional changes, I constantly put down my principles to please each other, so I gradually became cautious in this relationship, never relaxed inside, and was in a state of tension at any time. This seemingly uncomfortable intimate relationship is a real problem that many people are facing.

How to wake up quickly in the mind of love

1. Pay attention to your own needs and build a sense of self-esteem.

2, learn to correctly understand their own advantages.

Learn to live a rich and wonderful life when you are alone.