Kunzao: The Year of Gengwu, the Moon of Tortoise Tail, the Day of Woods, and the Time of Wuwu.
It doesn't matter if there are words that don't match, the key is your own eight characters. The conclusion is that these two people must have a solid emotional foundation together. Parents of both sides must meet, and in order to make up for each other emotionally in the future, they must have the ability to make up for each other.