First of all, men should pay more attention to their external image than women in social situations.
1. Hairstyle: it must be concise and smooth, and avoid fluffy and messy, greasy, dandruff and unconventional hairstyles.
2. Unless you are engaged in artistic work, avoid personal moustache.
3. Dress decently. T-shirts with jeans+sneakers, and white shirts with black trousers+black shoes are the eternal fashion for men. In formal social occasions, try to dress up. No matter what the economic conditions are, even if you get a loan, you should buy yourself a steamer. Try not to wear underwear in winter or shirts in summer for more than two days in a row.
4. Apart from watches and wedding platinum diamond rings, it is not recommended for men to wear other jewelry.
5. Every man should have a good belt, with black as the first choice and brown as the second choice. Leather shoes should be kept bright and dust-free at any time, and dark socks should be worn as far as possible unless personality needs are highlighted.
Secondly, we should pay attention to physical exercise (a man who has never been a soldier needs deliberate practice to form a habit).
the so-called sitting has a sitting posture, and standing has a standing posture.
When standing, avoid hunchback and leaning against the wall. The center of gravity of your legs naturally falls on your legs. Try to keep your head straight, your neck straight, your shoulders flat, your chest out, your waist up and your abdomen in. The image of paunchy is the standard of greasy uncle.
when walking, avoid the eight-character step and the s route.
In public, don't cross your legs, shake your legs, roll trouser legs, lie down with Ge You, take off your shoes and cross your feet, and scratch your ears.
finally, it is necessary to be able to speak.
1. In crowded situations, if you are not the protagonist, don't be the first to speak.
2. The principle of speaking is, don't talk nonsense if you don't understand, and speak slowly if you understand.
3. Usually read more books and watch more news. A well-informed person will never lack topics for chatting.
4. Don't spread rumors or gossip, and have reservations about other people's wrong remarks, and don't rush to defend them.
5. Listen and praise, and be a humble, courteous and cultured person.
6. Never talk in a corner. Facing the audience, it is easier to win applause.
7. Proper body language is more convincing for expressing your views.
8. When speaking, practice sinking into the abdomen. Even if you can't sound like Hong Zhong, your voice will be more magnetic.
conclusion: a person who pays attention to external image, can speak and is polite must be welcomed and respected. A generous and decent person who is calm must also have a strong gas field.