I am a cancer, and I like Aries.
The key lies in the feelings, tacit understanding and understanding with two people. Of course, it is also important to get the support of people around you in getting married!
Your mother is a superstitious person. You should pay attention to the great age gap between you and your boyfriend, which is good for both of you. At least you and he will understand and accommodate you.
Will be poor, will be rich, no longer there, but making money Arguing with your mother only means that you didn't reassure your parents, didn't communicate well with your boyfriend, and didn't try to find a Taoist or monk to help you show it to people who like superstition. Nothing can't be solved, only things that don't work hard to solve!