Chinese culture master Nan Huanjin once said this:
When he was giving a lecture, an entrepreneur came to the lecture every day, but then suddenly stopped coming.
Later, a classmate who was attending the class told him that the reason why the entrepreneur did not come was because Teacher Nan Huanjin scolded him every day during class.
Teacher Nan Huaijin was confused: "Why?"
Because when Teacher Nan Huanjin was talking about giving, he said that people should give more, so the entrepreneur felt that Nan Huanjin The teacher is saying that he has money but does not give.
People often seek trouble like this: putting things on their own that are not their own.
There is nothing wrong with the world, and it is only for mediocre people to disturb themselves.
No matter when and where we are, we must pay attention to the thing or event itself and let go of "I" in order to gain a good mood.
One year, when Master Nan Huanjin was practicing calligraphy, a friend saw him and said:
"You will definitely achieve success in calligraphy in the future!"
Listen After a friend said this, Nan Huanjin stopped practicing calligraphy. He said:
"I don't want to be restricted by this bamboo tube. Like Yu Youren, writing for people every day is really " The word "was trapped."
Later, Master Nan Huaijin also said that no matter what he was doing, he would remind himself not to be obsessed too much, even when he was reading. Same.
Nan Huaijin said these things to tell us that no matter what we are asked to do, we must be able to take it and let it go.
He later said, It is wrong to say that a person has given up when he has done nothing.
Because you haven’t picked it up yet, how can you start talking about putting it down? It's like letting go of something you haven't grasped yet.
Ability needs to grow and skills need to be learned, but don’t overindulge in anything. There is a limit to everything.
For example, this over-studied poem:
"The articles in the world are in Sanjiang, the articles in Sanjiang are in my hometown, the articles in my hometown belong to my brother, and my brother learns articles from me."< /p>
Most people fail to do many planned things, not because of lack of time, but because of laziness.
Master Nan Huaijin said that everyone covets the comfort brought by comfort.
One day, a student came to his office at seven o'clock in the morning. Seeing him working there, he said:
"Teacher, you got up so early!"
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Nan Huaijin later told the students that he had not gotten up so early, but that he had been reading and doing things all night yesterday. Just don't sleep anymore.
He also said that if he let himself go to sleep, he would sleep in total darkness. If he didn't go to sleep, he would not feel lack of energy by three o'clock in the afternoon.
His purpose in talking about this is not to make everyone stay awake and work and study day and night.
I just want everyone to know that you can let go of the comfort you covet every day and ask yourself to be more diligent.
Make a little more effort every day, and you will never regret it when you grow old!
If you are not diligent, you may be scolded without even knowing it.
Kou Zhun, a minister of the Song Dynasty, wanted his friend to evaluate him one day. The friend asked him to go back and read the "Biography of Huo Guang" from the Han Dynasty.
After Kou Zhun went back and read "The Biography of Huo Guang", he realized that his friend said that he was ignorant and incompetent.
When I went for a massage, the massage technician gently beat my body, and I felt very comfortable.
Master Nan Huaijin said:
"People are often like this, taking slight pain as the highest enjoyment."
If the masseur is stronger, Then you will feel pain.
People have to experience all kinds of pain in their lives. Only those who learn to enjoy hardship are the ones who can enjoy life.
A friend was diagnosed with a terminal illness by the doctor. When Nan Huaijin went to visit him, he smiled and said to him:
"This doctor doesn't understand anything. Don't believe him. I looked at your face and felt your pulse. You must live to be over 90 years old." Later, his friend really recovered.
Master Nan Huaijin also said that if a person is in poverty and goes to borrow money, you say to him: "Don't worry, the worst case is that you owe a debt, I will pay it for you."
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In fact, you may be poorer than him, but your words saved him and helped him survive the crisis.
Menander in ancient Greece also said:
"For people, language is a doctor who heals troubles. Because only it has the incredible power to heal the soul. And Ancient sages called language 'magic medicine'.
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When we have no financial resources, we cannot give money;
When we have no material resources, we cannot give materials;
When we have no power, we cannot give money. Strength;
But words can, no matter what the circumstances, in any place, at any time, you can give.
Good words to people are warmer than cloth.