It depends on where Rugao comes from. Generally, there are a little more in the south. If one-time engagement is not counted, it is now basically 48, yuan, plus 4 gold (rings, necklaces, earrings and bracelets) and gifts for the elderly here. They need as many copies as there are elders in their family. Generally, there are two pounds of brown sugar and a case of wine for their parents-in-law, plus cigarettes and wedding candy for the woman. Generally, when you come over, you have to wrap sixteen bags, including eight pairs of brown sugar, lotus seeds, peanuts, stable seeds (that is, rice husks), tea, cakes, and red dates. There is also a door-to-door gift, which is a gift for visiting your elders in the coming year. Generally, it is also the four kinds. If the woman does not ask for it, she can use red envelopes instead, which is called a dry gift. Then, when you call your elders, you should give them towels, which is also bought by the man himself. There are also door-opening bags, that is, when you come to pick up the bride, you don't open the door until you give a red envelope. You should pack twenty-one less bags in one bag, and pack dozens until you open the door, so you must never pack more. If the mud is of a large generation, you will be asked for money. When you get married next year and send the Mid-Autumn Festival gift this year, you will send the good days and bride price. Generally, just write your birthdates and her birthdates on red paper when they will get married, and then wrap them together with 888 yuan, and just call the date and put it on another bag for the bride price.
If you are engaged, you will pay 18, yuan plus 4 gold, and then 28, yuan after you get married.
Oh, I forgot that I also want you to buy the bride's clothes. It will probably cost thousands to buy them before getting married. If you don't understand, ask me again. My fingers are exhausted. I don't think it will be too difficult for you. Generally, the money you come over will basically be returned to you, and the woman will also have a red envelope in the past. Don't care too much about the money. I can see that you love her very much, have everything you want, and promise everything you want. Everyone is happy, how good, and ask if you don't understand.
I wish you happiness!