I would say that I was really "so stupid and naive" at that time.
My first job was as a labor dispatch employee in a state-owned enterprise. I had just graduated from college and didn't understand the importance of money at all.
Because I don’t understand the importance of money, I don’t know which positions offer better benefits. When the company first called more than a dozen of us new recruits to talk, the HR manager asked us one by one which position we had in mind.
I stupidly said that I have a strong sense of service and would be more suitable for logistics support. As a result, the company assigned me to the data processing department, a very unpopular department with no additional income.
As for another colleague, I still remember her answer: "I am very interested in copywriting planning. I have done planning several times in college, and I hope to work in the channel department."
p>So, she was assigned to the channel department with the best salary and the most promising development, and started copywriting planning.
God knows, her major is not planning at all, but e-commerce.
This colleague quickly stood out in the company. After working for a few years, he saved the down payment and bought a small house.
As for me, I stayed in the unpopular data processing department until I resigned.
At that time, I didn’t know that colleagues in the workplace rarely talked to each other. When he meets a colleague who is enthusiastic about him, he wants to tell her everything about his eight generations of ancestors.
As a result, the whole company knew about my ancestors’ affairs, which made me increasingly marginalized in the company, and I was often secretly laughed at by my colleagues.
After several jobs, I realized that the workplace is like a battlefield. There is competition between myself and any colleague, and it is a competition involving personal interests.
When facing competitors, can I tell them my private matters?
First, keep your mouth shut and never leak your private affairs to your colleagues.
The second is to learn business knowledge and perform well.
The third is to seriously improve your comprehensive abilities.
Only in this way can your abilities be continuously improved and your salary and benefits continuously improved.
Don’t act like someone else who doesn’t know how to work hard to make money. You must work hard and fight hard!
This happened in the spring and summer of 1982. It had been nearly a year since I graduated from high school. My parents wanted me to study hard and take the college entrance examination again, but I was tired of the never-ending classroom life. I was very anxious when I saw my friends and classmates around me either joining the army or going to work. By the way, at that time, it was very rare to get into a junior college or technical secondary school. It was even more difficult than it is today. So my relatives helped find a temporary construction site to work as a porter in a warehouse building a building. There were four people there including me. The three of them were older than me and had been working as temporary workers for many years. One was called Xiao Han, who was black, tall and strong, and the other two were Thirteen or four years old, I have a small pit on my face. One of them, Xiaoshizi, is strong and pretty even after getting married. The other, grandson Nianling, is similar to me, but they both work as part-time workers outside all year round and have gone through many hardships and accidents. I have just left school. The dull, weak scholar worked with them to carry long wooden boards under the scorching sun, carry cement to load trucks when there was a shortage of trucks, move ceramic tiles, and rub sand. In just less than a month, I worked with them together, and when conflicts arose, I watched them work together to get lazy. And playing tricks. They quarreled with each other from time to time. I came home tired from the day, my back was sore and my body was red and black from the sun, but my teeth were straight. I knew that I couldn't just eat at home at the age of 18. I cooperated with them to raise the issue, quarreled, fought for my right not to suffer, and fought back with words. Their attack and ridicule on themselves slowly merged into them. This is my first experience in going to society. I have experienced that society is cruel and people must be strong to face difficulties and pains. My university in Gao Er's writing suddenly made me feel that I gained the first experience in my life here. experience, social experience that can never be learned from books. Then I changed jobs several times. When I encountered difficult interpersonal confusions and heavy labor, I remembered my temporary career and my experience at the construction site of Changchun Changchun Textile Factory, and I told myself to have my own job. Ideas, your own opinions, and don’t rely on others for your responsibilities. You must stand up and don’t shout, it’s no big deal.
Time flies so fast. It will be one year since I joined the company in July this year. A year ago, I was still a teenager who had just graduated from school.
At that time, I just graduated from school and came to my current company. When I first graduated, I thought that although it was a state-owned enterprise, it was still young, energetic and had many opportunities when it was established. It was not like those old state-owned enterprises that were bloated and ranked based on seniority. I am complacent and only want to work hard. I simply think that as long as I have the ability, the leader will take notice. But "all the crows in the world are as black as black". I won't go into details. Now I am working on projects as an engineer and my salary is not bad. It's possible but I don't see a future.
If I were to use one sentence to describe it, it would be "the ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny".
We all relied on connections to enter the workplace at that time. I was so happy to have a job after graduating from school. No matter how tired or hard it was, I would persevere. It’s not like now where you can change jobs easily and just quit when you say you don’t want to do it.
My first job was to study technology in a state-owned enterprise in the north. I stayed there for half a year before returning to work in the south. Looking back, I found it really comfortable to work in a state-owned enterprise in the north. I went to the factory during working hours every day and returned home after get off work. , after entering the factory, I cleaned the workshop, boiled water, and made tea for 40 minutes. Before the end of the day, I changed my work clothes in advance and got ready to get off work. When I first came out, I just wanted to learn more skills, and I was also quite diligent. I would do whatever the master told me to do, but in fact I didn’t do much work. As a result, the company leaders said that the work I did was much better than that of their regular employees. The entire factory held a meeting of tens of thousands of people and insisted that I be the representative to speak on stage. The office director had prepared the speech draft. Hey, to be honest, I was in my heart at that time. It's really vain, I haven't done much work, and I can't bear so many honors. The leader said that the monthly salary is the same as that of their regular employees, the benefits are based on office benefits, and all food and accommodation are reimbursed. There were so many honors coming so quickly. I wasn’t ready yet, so I didn’t dare to take them at that time. As a result, the office director said that if you don't take it, you won't get it for free. This is what you deserve, so just take it with peace of mind. At that time, I thought that I would go to a state-owned enterprise when I started working... When I returned home after completing my studies, the factory even held a farewell party for me.
I want to say to myself: You were great at that time. Although you made the right move, you almost didn’t persist!
The first job had a profound impact. Looking back now, it is still worth pondering.
I had just returned to Beijing with my girlfriend at that time. I didn’t consider the distance for my first job and chose one near Chaoyang District. The interview was at Chaoyang Joy City.
The Blue Sky City on the top floor is particularly gorgeous. I thought to myself: Isn’t this the white-collar life I once dreamed of!
After walking around for a long time, a young man wearing a linen shirt, carrying a work badge, and walking with a slightly splayed foot came over.
After a few pleasantries, I found out that the other person was the manager and also my direct supervisor.
He spoke politely and was quite satisfied with my work. He also lied to me and said that HR had something to do. He was very interested in my resume, so he came directly to interview me.
He said that the company has a loft office, but it is not in Blue Sky City. The colleagues are very easy-going, the atmosphere is very harmonious, and the company is developing very well. As for the salary, what you want is definitely fine, as long as you can Make achievements and everything is flexible.
Now I think it was naive for me to believe it at that time, but at the time I thought how lucky I was to find such a good company right away.
At that time, I lived outside the 6th Ring Road, and it took 1 hour and 40 minutes to go to work by bus twice. With the headphones on, it looks like the picture above, it’s beautiful and I don’t feel tired at all.
It was raining heavily on the day I joined the company. After wandering around for a long time, I entered a community. It was a very life-oriented community. The floor merchants were all on foot. I had questions in my mind and called the manager. I told him. He was right about the landmark buildings around him.
I have a bad feeling in my heart.
But I still walked up according to the specific location, the top floor of the 15th floor. After waiting for a long time, I finally met a man with small eyes. When I told him, I knew that this was the boss.
When you enter the house, it looks like a family, but the upper and lower floors are connected. Is this still a so-called loft office?
While waiting for the manager to come, we put on our slippers and walked up to the second floor. The smell of our feet was pungent.
The manager told me that the place where we get on the elevator is Zhu Jun’s home, and that the script written by our leader has been on the Spring Festival Gala...
Finally, tell me, did you buy your desk yesterday? We haven't arrived yet, so you should sit on the table over there to familiarize yourself with the environment. It turns out that my seat is just two foam boards.
I am responsible for writing scripts and directing on-site, and I still have to do it when I have nothing to do. There was no WeChat at that time, and everyone was still in the era of blogging. I posted photos of children going out for activities, and published them like news reports. The boss with small eyes will definitely come over after get off work to review the manuscript.
Getting off work is usually delayed by 30-40 minutes, because the bus passes Sihui and is late, so the next few buses may not be able to get on.
I will get home around 9-10pm.
When I was shooting an outdoor scene for a child in Blue Harbor, I saw many people wearing sunglasses and Apple notebooks on the table. As they were typing little by little, I felt that these must be writing Script or novel.
This is the life I want!
I resigned decisively, but the path of writing was really difficult!
Although there were many bad things at that time, I could really learn something, especially related to my major.
Now new media, content operations, copywriting, sales copywriting...
Hey, what a dream!
After graduating from college in 2002, I boarded the green train from Shanghai to Xiamen in the hot July, preparing to report to the 31st Jun. What is hotter than the hot weather is my mood. Although 17 years have passed, I still remember that at that time I was wearing light blue jeans cut into shorts and a tight white sleeveless T-shirt. I was 175cm tall and weighed 80 kilograms, with tight muscles all over his body, with a longing for the future, and a sunny smile. The carry-on luggage was a black suitcase, which was empty except for a thin red nylon waterproof jacket, two pairs of underwear, two pairs of socks, a towel, toothpaste and toothbrush, and only 600 yuan in cash.
The train at that time was from Yingtan, which took thirty-two hours. I didn’t have a seat. I looked around and couldn’t find an empty seat. I saw three or four girls wearing Lu Xia short-sleeves in the carriage. They told me they were from the Dalian Naval Academy. Yes, I was also assigned to the Xiamen Garrison Area Coast Guard Brigade after graduation. There was a slightly fat girl who was very nice to me and said that the three of them sat in a row and it was very loose, so we could squeeze in together. I remember it was 16 degrees cold in the air-conditioned car at night, so I had to put on my thin coats and huddle together, chatting happily all the way, and then we parted ways when we arrived at the station. I was really stupid at that time, and I didn’t have a mobile phone, WeChat, or any contact information. I thought I would meet him again in a city, but I never saw him again.
I haven’t written for a long time, and I’m really tired of writing on my phone. The night before yesterday, I watched the movie "Hello Teacher" starring Yu Qian, which reminded me of my past, so I wrote today’s article.
Finally, I would like to share with you a few sentences from the movie: "Since ancient times, all the sages have been poor and humble, let alone our generation, which is lonely and upright." Happy reunions again and again, mixed with sad partings again and again."
Who
When I meet you, I meet my you
Written in the same late night I wrote the same diary
I looked at you and I looked at you
Asking the same questions at the same time
Who is waiting for you? Who am I waiting for?
Who is waiting for me? Who am I waiting for?
I forgot about you and I forgot about you
Forgetting at different times The same self
I miss you and I miss you
I also ask myself in different years
Who is loving you and who are you loving?
Who is loving me? Who am I loving?
Who is waiting for you? Who are you waiting for?
Who is waiting for me? Who am I waiting for?
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Who is waiting for you? Who are you waiting for?
Who is loving you? A formal job was to enter the express delivery industry.
When I first came into contact with this job, I felt very fresh. I was curious about everything. I did whatever the leader assigned me, and I was not picky or complaining.
I remember that a loading and unloading + delivery job was arranged for me at that time. I thought it was a very good job. Now that I think about it, it was really hard at that time. I had to deliver the parcels outside in windy or rainy weather. When I was collecting business, I had to sort, load and unload when I returned to the company at night. I felt very fulfilled and at ease at that time.
If I were to choose this job again now, I believe many people, not just me, would not do this kind of job, because time and experience have changed who we were at the beginning! It has made us understand the harshness of the world and the worldly ways of people!
It can be described as "a newborn calf is not afraid of a tiger, a young man is not afraid of his ambition". In the second half of the third year of graduate school, I started a technology business and received millions of investments and millions of government talent introduction funds. When things were going well, I was high-spirited and determined to do something big. But the road to success is always very narrow, and we must also pay attention to the right time, place and people. Subsequent financing failed, and he was also deeply hurt by the multi-party game among the management, and even his fiancee broke up.
I felt depressed for a while, then I cleaned myself up and started over. Slowly, through my own efforts, I made some achievements for the company. I also joined a technology start-up company as a co-founder midway. Unfortunately, I didn’t take the right time. When I entered the industry, I had already missed the best opportunity. So the boss decided to cut his losses and switch to other projects, but to no avail. But this time I am more mature mentally and have not suffered too much financial and psychological trauma.
So after these two entrepreneurial failures, I reflected on my shortcomings, learned and accumulated in the enterprise, and got ready to make up for my shortcomings, consolidate my advantages, and constantly improve myself to meet the next challenge. Let's charge a second time.
I remember when I was interning outside in my junior year, the unit where I interned was the counterpart of our major. After the internship, I silently swore in my heart that I would never come here again. The environment was so bad. . Maybe God is kidding me. The job I signed after graduation happened to be the unit where I was doing my internship, haha.
What you pay now is the cause of your achievements three years later, and what you get is the result of what you paid three years ago.