After my mother died, my daughter's taboo. In our life, there are always relatives who will leave us. They are gone. Of course, as children, we should take care of the funeral and die for them. This is our way of saying goodbye to our loved ones. What about our daughter's taboos after her mother died? Let's get to know each other.
Taboo of Daughter after Mother's Death 1
First, it is not advisable to face west.
On the day when my daughter dies for the old man, it's best not to go to the west. On the day when the old man dies, the soul may just go west. Therefore, it is best for a daughter not to go west, otherwise it will be easy to bump into suffocation. Even if you miss your loved ones, you should seize the emotional opportunity in your heart and avoid going west, otherwise it will have a bad influence on your lost loved ones and yourself.
Two or three salutes
Their kindness to our upbringing is of great significance. Whether it is a married or unmarried daughter, if it is for the elderly, it must be remembered that three worships and one worship are not counted, which is a kindness to the elderly. The blessing of 200 gestures to the elderly is 300 sentences. I hope the old man will go all the way. In this regard, the daughter must follow the rules and not go beyond the rules, so as not to make the elderly feel uneasy.
Third, don't light incense.
When the old man is dying, we should also remember that it is very important not to burn incense in person, but to burn incense by the owner of the family. It is also a kind of crossing over to the soul of the elderly. I hope they will not be afraid of loneliness on their way to the grave, and it is also a comfort to their souls to have a good child in the afterlife. Therefore, it is impossible to have a daughter to play, otherwise this crossing effect will not be achieved.
After the death of the mother, the second taboo of the daughter is to avoid touching after death.
The old people in the family are all old. People over 60 should put on old clothes in advance, especially those with physical diseases. They should be prepared in advance, and it is best to take clothes with them wherever they go. Old people usually die in different ways when they are dying. If they leave in the hospital, they should get dressed before they die. When they are sober, they should make a statement in advance. Don't hide their illness. Be sure to tell them. Don't hide it. Some people don't tell them. When they died, they didn't know they were dead. When they woke up three days later, they suddenly knew that they were dead, and they fell into panic and terror. It is easy to make mistakes, or be turned into ready-made relatives by unjust relatives and creditors.
Ji Lingqian offered cigarettes, wine, meat and other offerings.
Some children know that their parents are willing to drink and eat some meat before they die, so they put a few bottles of wine and some meat in front of the spirit, which is the biggest taboo.
Avoid using ice coffins or refrigeration equipment to preserve corpses.
Some old people may die in hot summer, away from home or under other special circumstances, fearing that their bodies will rot and stink. So I used an ice coffin or sent it to an ice bank for the dead. You don't know that I just sent the dead to an ice hell, which is very painful. If you use an ice coffin, you must adjust the temperature to the lowest. As long as it lasts for three days, it is generally appropriate to be around 0 or 3 degrees.
Avoid playing funeral music
Before the farewell ceremony, we must tell the professionals that we don't play funeral music in our family. Relatives and people who come with us had better recite the Buddha for a week, and the Buddha's name will be useful as soon as it is heard in their ears. If sorrow and joy are played, the god of the deceased knows his departure, sees his former relatives and friends farewell, is reluctant to part, and is lured by the relatives who have realized his unjust relatives and creditors to rob the three evils.
Avoid wine and meat to entertain guests.
Some old people died, and many people came to mourn, so they booked a restaurant and killed fish and chickens. And entertain friends and relatives who come. They didn't know that it would increase their guilt for the deceased, because killing live fish was because the deceased died, and the deceased had another reason for guilt, so they were involved in sin, and they could have a good life after death, so they increased their karma and went to hell. When you set the table, you should set vegetarian food so that everyone can be vegetarian. Merit is very dead, get one or two points, 89 points for self-satisfaction of children and relatives and friends.