What should we pay attention to when choosing a name?
What should we pay attention to when choosing a name? In our lives, a child’s name is the first gift given by parents to their children, but often in life Choosing a name is also a lot of trouble. After all, a good name is a walking business card in a child's life. What are the things that should be paid attention to when choosing a name? What should you pay attention to when choosing a name? 1
Avoid using the word "platter"
Names should be carefully thought out, carefully selected, and composed of words, rather than randomly chosen. Piece it all together. Otherwise, the name chosen will be contrary to common sense or nondescript, with unclear relationship and unclear meaning. It will give people a simple "platter" without careful thinking, careful selection and deliberation.
Avoid using traditional Chinese characters
Some people only pay attention to the pronunciation and meaning of the characters in naming. The result is often that the names they give sound good, catchy, have far-reaching meanings, and give people warning and Encourage, but ignore the complexity and simplicity of glyphs, resulting in many people's names with too many strokes and complex structures, which are not only troublesome to write, but also unsightly.
Avoid using tongue twisters when naming.
Avoid using tongue twisters when naming. This mainly means not naming with double tones or overlapping rhymes. Some names are difficult to pronounce, easy to pronounce and sound, and difficult to pronounce or mishear. The reason is that the words used when naming are awkward and almost become "tongue twisters", such as Zhang Changgang, Zhu Shutu, Wei Ruihui, Lingzhoujiu, Shen Jiji, Sunzhouqiu, Xia Yayi, Jin Jingqing, Zhou Xiaochao, Hu Fufen, Geng Jingzhong, Zhang Chang Shang, Fu Zhufu, Hu Chufu, Zhou Chou, Hu Fu, etc.
People who are weak should not use words that are too soft
In the numerology of the eight-character numerology, those with a weak Sun, that is, those with a strong body, generally have a weak personality, lack of confidence, Weak temperament, etc. Therefore, it is generally not appropriate to use words that are too soft, too low-key, or too weak when naming.
Avoid using overly exaggerated words when naming.
Use excessive words when naming. Exaggerated vocabulary is not in line with our country's traditional virtues, is also disrespectful to others, and can easily arouse others' disgust. Put yourself in a disadvantageous situation, so you should pay attention to modest names when naming, and avoid using names such as dominance and invincibility. What should you pay attention to when choosing a name 2
1. Moderation is not derogatory
People cannot lose face, but they should not be bound by temporary face. The name should be moderate and the best. Many parents do not pay attention to many things when naming their babies. Some names are too exaggerated and appear to be nice, but in fact they are vain; some names are chosen to appear too modest and inferior. In fact, the name should be Moderate is best, and it is best to express a character, ambition and expectation.
2. Things have yin and yang
There are male and female people, and the names and words should have a sense of gender - especially now that there are many undesirable phenomena of neutralization. Names are originally a tool for people to communicate and get along with each other in daily life, but the impression a person's name gives is also very important. Some parents go too far in naming their babies. It is obvious that the baby is a boy, so they choose a girl's name. , not only will it not bring good luck to the baby
, but it will also have a negative impact. Boys’ names should be centered on perseverance and struggle, while girls’ names should be centered on gentleness, virtuousness, etc. In this way More suitable for basic gender roles; also conducive to basic social gender role differentiation.
3. It is best not to use the names of ancients or great people when choosing a name.
It suppresses success. Taking such a name will only make people feel that there is no innovation and there is nothing worthwhile. It also conceals one's original personality, making the name unable to express the difference between the relationship between the individual and the whole (society), and losing the most basic value of naming.
4. There should not be any negative words in the baby’s name.
People have psychological hints. The name will accompany the baby throughout his life. If there are negative words in the name, it will have a great impact on the baby subconsciously, making the baby become negative and lose confidence in life.
5. Live a simple life to be happy
The meaning of the name varies according to the person, the family and the environment. A baby's name should not be too superficial and simple. Although a name is a social "symbol" of a person, it will accompany the person throughout his life. If the name is too simple or superficial, such as "王一, auspicious, rich, etc." as soon as he hears these A name will not leave a good impression on people, and naturally it will not attract too many people's attention. It is like a glass of boiled water, which has value, but is not easy to be discovered and valued. People who are not valued will find it difficult to enter society. recognized.
6. The name should not be chosen blindly for glory, wealth, promotion, etc., because it is too cliché. There is a big age difference between the older generation and us now. In a large society, we can naturally understand the names they chose at that time, and their thoughts are different. However, we are now in a developing society in the 21st century. The times are constantly progressing, and our thoughts cannot remain in the past.
Modern people pay more attention to personal value and personal enjoyment in social groups, and people pay more attention to humanistic care and the realization of human nature.
7. If you use vulgar and weird words, the person will have a weird personality
It is best not to use a word that is too uncommon in your name. This can easily cause others to write the wrong name, thereby distorting the name. The name itself has its own meaning, and it is also very inconvenient in many situations, such as banks and other places.
8. Don’t choose a name that is too fashionable
If you are a person with a good appearance, it will be okay to choose such a name, but trendy things are long-lasting; arty, good No depth.
Everything has its limits. It is an ancestral tradition to choose a name based on the horoscope. If a person has no roots and no one to measure, his life will be confused and tiring. It is the pursuit of human nature to choose a name that suits you and gain more joy, freedom and happiness in your life. Therefore, a good name is one that suits your life expectations, is ordinary and true. What are the things that should be paid attention to when choosing a name 3
Principle 1. We must pay attention to the meaning of the words: If parents want to choose a name for their children, they must first understand the meaning of the words, because some words are uncommon or have other words. The radical "side" has little meaning, so it is best to check the Kangxi dictionary to determine the meaning before choosing a name.
Principle 2: Avoid homophonic sounds: If parents plan to choose a name for their baby, they should pay attention to whether there are any indecent homophonic sounds in the name to avoid confusion in the future. Such as: Wu Limao, Zeng Haoxiao, Yu Ling (Rain), Wei Cong (Feeding Worms). It is best to pronounce the name several times to see if it sounds smooth. Combine sound, form and meaning. It must be nice to listen to, easy to write, and aesthetically pleasing.
Principle 3: Combine the Bazi: that is, use the Bazi to understand the baby’s innate fate, such as whether the yin and yang are coordinated and the five elements are equal, and then use the name to reconcile and improve the baby’s fortune. When choosing a name, you can follow the eight-character horoscope, then refer to the pattern and strokes, and finally find the appropriate meaning.
Principle 4: Analyze the Three Talents and Five Elements: The five elements are calculated from the strokes of the name. The corresponding five elements can be calculated from the strokes of the five elements. Then you can understand the interdependence, good and bad luck between the five elements and the five elements, and choose When it comes to names, the most important thing is whether the five elements are coordinated, and the second is whether the strokes are good. The three elements refer to the combined relationship between heaven, personality and earth. When choosing a name, you can refer to the meanings and strokes of the Kangxi Dictionary, because some characters must be calculated by their radicals to get the correct strokes.
Principle 5: The five grids must be auspicious and the three talents must be smooth. Master Longyin reminds everyone to pay special attention to the following points:
1. We must choose to use God: perfect the combination of the five elements;
2. We must distinguish between civil and military affairs: civil life should be based on literature, and military life should be based on military power. Do not mess around;
3. We must distinguish between thickness and detail: bold and unrestrained people use grandeur.
4. It also depends on the status: people with high status use the hexagram of strength, and people with low status use the hexagram of good luck;
5. We look for good and bad luck: find disasters and resist them with hexagrams;
6. Match the font type: match the font type according to the structure of the owner’s surname, up and down, left and right, single, Traditional and simplified, etc.;
7. Match the meaning of the words: Check the life of the lord, and choose poetic and picturesque words.