If men want to train their own etiquette, they must start from the most basic ones. So do you know what men’s etiquette is? Below is the men’s etiquette training I have compiled for you. I hope it can help you!
Men’s etiquette training
Personal appearance
The so-called appearance refers to a A person's appearance and appearance include a person's appearance, posture, clothing and personal hygiene. It is the appearance of a person's mental outlook.
Grooming
Personal grooming includes the beauty of hairstyle, face, hands and neck
Personal grooming requirements for hairstyle: neat, clean and generous hairstyle , Not weird is the most basic requirement;
Everyone should choose a hairstyle according to their face shape, skin color, and body shape. This is the first level; men’s hair should not exceed the collar; the chosen hairstyle It is consistent with your own temperament, career, and identity; the real function of a good hairstyle is to promote your strengths and avoid your weaknesses.
The requirements of personal appearance on the face
The face is the first appearance. It is the part of the human body that is exposed to the outside for the longest time, and it is also the most moving part. What is particularly important in facial modification is the difference between men and women. How to groom a man's appearance. The most important thing about men's appearance is cleanliness. Although men do not need to wear makeup every day like women, they should also maintain a healthy and neat appearance. Men should also pay attention to their own "face issues".
Men’s appearance should be clean and tidy, and should meet the following three aspects: (1) Clean, tidy and generous. No one likes to associate with slovenly and unhygienic people.
(2)The overall style is healthy and comfortable. That refers to factors such as beard and hair that have an impact on appearance. Men should try not to have beards or long hair, and the ends of their hair should not exceed the roots of their ears. The hairstyle should be simple, smooth, and natural, giving people a healthy and comfortable feeling.
(3) Develop a sense of self-care. The specific requirements are as follows:
Eyes: No eye mucus, no drowsiness, no congestion, no strabismus. The glasses are straight, clean and bright. Do not wear sunglasses or tinted glasses. Women don’t wear heavy eye shadow and don’t use artificial eyelashes. Ears: Clean inside and out, no earwax. Women don't wear earrings. Nose: Nostrils clean and no runny nose. Nose hair is exposed.
Beard: clean shaven or neatly trimmed, no long beards, mustaches or other strange beards.
Mouth: The teeth are neat and white, there is no odor in the mouth, there is no foam at the corners of the mouth, and no chewing gum or other food is allowed when receiving guests. Face: clean, no obvious acne. For women, apply powder appropriately and leave no trace.
Grooming? Taboos"
① Pick your nose, pick your nails, pick your teeth, yawn, and eat snacks in business situations; ② Bite your nails, hum a tune, whistle, and mutter to yourself ③ Talking loudly, swearing, and chatting; ④ Coughing, sneezing, and spitting; ⑤ Talking on mobile phones and looking at watches constantly;
Men's dressing knowledge
< p> In today’s business activities, men generally wear suits and leather shoes, which will make you look solemn and formal. Among all men’s clothing, suits are the most important clothing. Wearing a decent suit will make you look elegant and connotative. Rich and extraordinary.1. Suit.
When choosing a suit, the most important thing is not the price and brand, but the many details including fabric, cutting and processing technology. . In terms of style, it should be simple and pay attention to materials, tailoring and craftsmanship.
The color should be monochromatic, and at least one dark blue suit should be used to show elegance, rationality and stability. It is relatively moderate, peaceful and solemn, decent and extraordinary; brown is a natural and simple color, which looks friendly and unique; dark navy is more generous, stable, and a more common color, more suitable for oriental people with yellow skin .
In addition, when wearing a suit, you should also pay attention to the matching with other accessories. For example, the length of the trousers should just touch the upper.
Men who know how to package themselves pay great attention to the decorative effect of their tie, because the tie is the finishing touch. In addition to the color matching with his suit and shirt, it must be clean, smooth and wrinkle-free. In addition, the tie must be of appropriate length. , the tip of the tied tie should just touch the belt buckle, and the width of the tie should be consistent with the width of the suit.
The collar shape, texture and style must be consistent. Coordinate with the jacket and tie, and the color should match your personality. Generally, pure white and sky blue shirts are necessary for business people. At the same time, pay attention to whether the collar and cuffs are clean.
4 , Socks.
Socks should be long rather than short, so that your calves are not exposed when you sit down. The color of the socks should be coordinated with the suit. Dark colors are safer, because light-colored socks can only be worn with light-colored suits. Match a dark suit.
5. Shoes.
The style and texture of the shoes also directly affect the overall image of the man. In terms of color, it is recommended to choose black or dark. Brown leather shoes, because this color of leather shoes is a timeless classic. Light-colored leather shoes can only be paired with light-colored suits. If worn with dark-colored suits, it will make people feel top-heavy. Casual-style leather shoes are best paired with a single casual suit. .
No matter what kind of shoes you wear, you should pay attention to keeping them bright and clean. Smooth leather shoes will give people a professional and neat impression.
Only when a man has three Qi can he be a man.
Ambition
When women look at men, what they often value most is their ambition; when men look at men, what they often value most is ambition; one is spirit, the other is ambition, the combination is ?ambition?. Men have to do a career, and no matter what career they do, they are inseparable from the word ambition. Just as Shen Juyun said in the Qing Dynasty: Without ambition, nothing can be done; Lu Kun in the Ming Dynasty said: If you work hard enough, what can't be done?
Therefore, a real man should be like the old man Wan Song said : A tiger is thin and ambitious, but a poor man is full of ambition. As Liu Guo said in the Southern Song Dynasty: The sea can be filled and the mountains can be moved, and a man's ambition should be like this. As said in "Water Margin": With a broad chest, he has the majesty that is difficult for ten thousand people to defeat; his words are majestic, and his ambition is so high that it can reach thousands of feet.
Ambition is the direction of a man, and Qi is the driving force of a man. If you have direction and motivation, why worry about not reaching your goal?
Ambition
Ambition is the firm will in the heart, and lofty ideals are the surging pride in the chest. There is ambition but no arrogance. Even if you are making great progress in life, there is always a feeling and interest missing. A real man is always full of pride. The meaning is just as Xin Qiji said in the poem: a golden sword and an iron horse, swallowing thousands of miles like a tiger. Another example is what Lu You said in his poem: Drunkly beheading a long whale relying on the heavenly sword, smiling while riding the terrifying waves to support the Sichuan boat.
Where does the pride come from? From the strong self-confidence of "Looking up to the sky and laughing when we go out. How can we be the people of Penghao"? It comes from the vast vision of not being afraid of the clouds covering our eyes and being at the highest level. It comes from the proud and upright character of "An Neng who can crush the powerful and powerful, making me unhappy", and the firm will of "The wind is rustling and the water is cold, and the strong man will never return once he is gone".
Heroism is not just emotion, but also mind, quality and wisdom.
Confidence
A man must have his own accumulation in his life. This is where a man’s confidence lies. The first is the accumulation of reality, being able to build a career where you can settle down and take care of your relatives and friends, so that you can be sustainable throughout your life. As it is said in "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms": If a man lives in society and cannot make contributions, he is almost as rotten as the grass and trees?
What is more important is the accumulation of inner qualities, because this is related to the quality of a man's life. It is also the foundation on which men build their careers. Although literacy also needs to be honed in work, when doing business, literacy must be ahead of the things to be done.
These necessary qualities include being able to look at the overall situation. In the Western Han Dynasty, a strong man did not do anything small; to know the way forward and retreat. In the late Qing Dynasty, Li Baojia said: a man can bend and stretch; to have firm principles and ethics, " "Book of the Northern Qi Dynasty" said: It is better to have broken jade than to make it whole; strong practical ability, rather than being too ambitious and rhetorical. "Book of the Later Han Dynasty" said: How can you sweep the world if you don't sweep one house? Li Yu of the Ming Dynasty also said: A man should do things vigorously and resolutely!< /p>
If you have confidence, you will have confidence in your heart, your career, and your life.
Men’s etiquette taboos
1. Men’s appearance
1) Men’s facial appearance:
Shave and shave every day, and often Trim and maintain hygiene. Whether you have a beard or a mustache, being neat and tidy is the most important thing. (Hair style: Neat and elegant; the mousse should not be sprayed too much, as long as it has a slight setting effect)
2) Men’s dress etiquette:
Men’s clothing should not be too demanding. Gorgeous and bright, the clothing should not have too many color changes. Generally speaking, the principle should be no more than three colors. Normally, it is not impossible to wear some casual clothes, which is also a good choice. However, when participating in formal and grand occasions, you should wear a dress or suit.
Suits are considered to be a man’s face. There are six taboos that need to be paid attention to:
One taboo is that the trousers are too short (the standard length is that the trousers are long enough to cover the leather shoes);
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The second taboo is to put the shirt outside the trousers;
The third taboo is to not button the shirt;
The fourth taboo is to have bulging bags inside the clothes and trouser pockets of the suit;
Five taboos: a tie that is too short (generally the length should be such that the tip of the tie covers the belt buckle);
Six taboos (socks: not white, must be coordinated with the color of pants and shoes)