1. Parents and elders should not be called by their first names, let alone impolite words, but should be addressed accurately, such as father, grandmother, teacher and uncle.
2. Some people take nicknames.
Second, greeting etiquette.
Greet parents and elders with different greetings according to different times, occasions and festivals.
1, say good morning to mom and dad after getting up early.
2. wish mom and dad good night before going to bed.
3. Parents come home from work: Mom and Dad are back.
4. Birthday: I wish my elders a happy birthday and good health.
5. Chinese New Year: I wish my elders, relatives and friends a happy New Year.
6. When mom and dad went out, they said, I wish mom and dad a safe journey and a smooth work.
7. Mom and Dad went out and said, "Mom and Dad are back. It's hard work.
8. When I say goodbye to my family: Don't worry, I will take good care of myself. If you are away from home for a long time, you should write or call to greet your family.
9. Greet your parents and elders when you go home.
Third, table manners.
(1) At home:
1, please sit down first.
2. After the elder takes the bowl chopsticks first, he takes the bowl chopsticks himself.
3. When drinking soup, swallow your mouth, shut up and chew, chew slowly and try not to make a sound.
When eating, hold chopsticks in one hand and bowl in the other.
5, do not knock on the bowl, do not pee, do not pick vegetables.
6. When others add food to themselves, they should say "thank you". Say "thank you, I really don't need it" when you don't need it.
7. Take the initiative to add dishes to the elders.
8. Eat first and then "eat slowly".
9. After eating, help parents clean up the dishes and scrub the dining table.
(2) At school:
1, don't run, enter the restaurant in an orderly way.
2, sitting in the designated seat, feet together naturally, legs naturally flat, natural sitting posture, straight back.
When eating, take a spoon in one hand and a bowl in the other. Don't knock on the rice basin, eat quietly and civilly.
4. Eat rice, vegetables and soup completely (except in special circumstances); Not partial eclipse, not picky eaters.
5. After dinner, put the stool neatly under the dining table.
Fourth, hospitality etiquette
1. Guests should prepare in advance and tidy up their rooms when visiting. Warm reception, help parents arrange seats, hand over tea, then leave and say "goodbye" when seeing the guests off. If your parents are not at home, you should receive guests as a host.
When your classmates and friends visit, you should warmly welcome them. When you visit for the first time, you should introduce them to your parents one by one, and then give the best seats to the guests. You can entertain them with tea, fruit and books.
3. Parents' friends bring their children to play with them, or tell them stories, read books, listen to music and watch TV.
4. When eating, when classmates and friends visit, take the initiative to invite them to have dinner together. If the guest claims to have eaten, arrange a friend to sit down first and find some books, newspapers or magazines for him to read before eating.
5, the reception teacher should be as warm and solemn as the reception of the elders.
6. Fujian will deliver it to your door. Welcome guests to come again next time.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) guest etiquette
1. When visiting relatives and friends, be punctual, clean and tidy, and try to bring some small gifts to show respect for the host.
2. At the home of relatives and friends, don't talk loudly, but be civilized.
Don't use the things in the owner's house without the owner's permission. Even close relatives and friends should say hello first and ask the owner's permission before using it.
4. If you eat in the host's house, you should pay attention to the dining etiquette, and you should not sit down first, let alone touch the food first.
When saying goodbye, say some words of thanks, such as "I am very happy today" and "Welcome to my home".
Sixth, dress etiquette
1. Don't wear fancy clothes, and wear the prescribed school uniform for important gatherings.
2. Keep yourself clean and tidy, dress neatly, be simple and generous, don't tie your coat around your waist, and don't wear clothes and buttons.
3. Don't wear vest, slippers and underwear to walk on campus or enter the classroom.
Don't take off your clothes and shoes in class.
5. Students should not compete with each other (such as not wearing famous brands, etc.). ), don't wear high heels, don't wear platform shoes. It is best to wear sports shoes or flat shoes.
6. Do not wear necklaces, earrings (pins), rings, bracelets, bracelets and other accessories.
7. Trim your hair as required, do not dye your hair, do not perm your hair, boys do not leave long hair, and girls do not leave long hair.
Seven, walking etiquette
1, when walking, hold your head high, look forward, swing your shoulders and arms naturally, with moderate steps, and avoid splayed feet, swaying and twisting.
2. Go upstairs and downstairs and slowly cross the corridor on the right. Don't slide down on the railing. Access to classrooms, offices, meeting places, etc. According to the designated route, it is not crowded, and it is easy to enter and leave each function room without affecting others.
3, meet acquaintances to say hello, exchange greetings, can not turn a blind eye; If you need to talk, you should lean on the side of the road or talk in the corner. You shouldn't stand in the middle of the road or in crowded places.
4. Pedestrians avoid each other, take the initiative to make way for the elderly, and take the initiative to make way for the disabled and those in need.
5. When asking someone for directions, say hello in polite language, such as "Excuse me" and "Excuse me". When young people ask for directions, they should choose appropriate names, such as "grandpa", "aunt" and "uncle", and then ask for directions. After listening to the answer, be sure to say "thank you!" "If you are asked by a stranger, you should answer carefully. If you don't know, you should say, "Sorry, I don't know. Ask someone else. "
Eight, respect for teachers and filial piety etiquette
1. See the teacher ask "hello teacher", see the guest ask "hello guest teacher" with a smile, and say "goodbye" respectively.
2. Go up and down the stairs to the right in and out of school to make way for the teacher.
3. If you are late for class (including self-study class), you should shout "report" first, and then enter the classroom with the permission of the teacher. When speaking in class, you should stand at attention and look directly at the teacher.
4, into the office to shout "report", hear "please come in" before entering; Please use "I'm sorry", thank you after the teacher answers, and say "goodbye" before leaving; Don't just rummage through the things in the teacher's office; Don't turn on the teacher's computer without permission. If the office is empty, students can't enter at will.
Point out the teacher's mistakes, be polite and pay attention to the occasion.
6. Listen to the teacher's teachings with an open mind, accept the teacher's education and have a correct attitude.
7. Tell the truth to the teacher, tell the truth, and don't lie to the teacher.
8. Cherish the achievements of teachers' labor, and earnestly complete the tasks assigned by teachers on time.
9. Obey the teacher's management and don't contradict the teacher. If you have your own views and opinions, you should choose appropriate methods and exchange views with teachers sincerely.
10. When you meet a teacher on the way to school, stop and bow slightly or nod to say hello. When you meet more than two teachers, ask "Hello teacher".
1 1. When talking to the teacher, stand up and give your seat to the teacher.
12. When the teacher is doing something or talking to others, he should not disturb the teacher at will. They should bend down and stand aside until the teacher has finished or spoken (except in an emergency).
13. When parents are out for a long time, they should often report their recent study and life to their parents by phone, text message or letter. Listen to the correct teaching of parents, be modest and willful.
14. If you have any questions about your elders, ask them politely, don't lose your temper, and don't refute them.
15. Don't go home late, don't go out and spend the night without your parents' permission.
16. Don't disturb the elders when they are resting. The elderly are unwell, so be careful and considerate.
17, when watching TV programs, don't make noise and don't compete with your elders for program channels.
Nine, classmate etiquette
1. Students should greet each other with "good morning" and "hello" and nod and wave.
2. Talk to your classmates sincerely and modestly, with a calm tone. Listen attentively to your classmates, look straight at them, and don't interrupt others easily.
Students should speak Mandarin and use polite language in communication. Ask your classmates questions. Before you ask, you should use modest words such as "I'm sorry", "I'm sorry", "Excuse me" and "Let me ask you a question". After you ask, you should express your gratitude. Students can't answer, saying "Never mind, this question is more difficult to answer, which has delayed your time, thank you" and so on.
4. Respect your classmates, don't give them insulting nicknames, or call them insulting nicknames, and don't say anything that makes others sad and ashamed.
5. Students help each other and take the initiative to help students with difficulties. Choose an appropriate way to sincerely point out the shortcomings of classmates or affirm their advantages.
6. Boys and girls respect each other, take care of each other and don't bully each other.
If you want to borrow something from your classmates, you must ask their permission first. Take special care of your classmates' things and return them on time. Once it is lost, you should apologize and compensate immediately.
8. Don't gossip in front of or behind your classmates, gossip and laugh at your classmates.
9, don't haggle over every ounce, be generous to classmates' mistakes or offenses. Apologize when disturbing classmates.
10, pay attention to credit, try your best to do what you promised your classmates and apologize if you can't, without violating the school rules.
Ten-liter flag etiquette
1, in and out orderly, generally wear school uniforms as required.
2. Stand at attention and keep quiet. Don't look back and look around.
3. Eye-catching ceremony (Young Pioneers Parade Ceremony).
4. Listen carefully to the speech under the national flag.
5. Sing the national anthem seriously and loudly.
Xi。 Assembly etiquette
1, when assembling, arrive ahead of time, enter the assembly place on time, queue up quickly, quietly and neatly, and do well at the designated location.
2, concentrate on listening to the report, keep quiet, sit upright, don't talk nonsense, don't walk.
3. Don't eat snacks at the venue, and don't throw scraps of paper.
4. At the end of the report or performance, applaud and thank you; The highlight is moderate applause, no booing, no whistling and no loud noise.
5. When students speak on stage, they should bow to the leaders of the rostrum and the students at the venue, and the young pioneers should salute the team. Thank you after the speech.
6. When taking the stage to receive the prize, you should smile and bow to the recipient, and then thank the recipient with certificates (certificates and prizes) in both hands.
7. During the meeting or performance, you are not allowed to leave the venue without authorization; After the performance, wait for the actors to come on stage and then leave in an orderly way.
8. If there are special circumstances that need to leave the meeting place, you can leave only after obtaining the consent of the teacher.
Twelve, ride etiquette
1, consciously queue up after school, pay attention to keep the waiting area clean and get off in an orderly manner.
2, don't eat in the school bus, civilized ride, consciously keep the car clean and tidy.
Don't grab your seat on the school bus, and give your seat to the younger students and those who have difficulties. Offer your seat to the old, the young, the sick, the disabled, the pregnant and the teachers when you take the bus or the boat.
4, don't do dangerous actions in the car, pay attention to the safety inside the car.
Thirteen. social etiquette
1. Say "please" or "trouble you" when you need help from others, and say "thank you" when you get help from others.
2. Say "I'm sorry" and "Please forgive me" when you accidentally affect others' rest or work; Others are not careful.
When I have influenced you and sincerely apologize to you, be tolerant and say "it doesn't matter".
When talking with people, be sincere and speak kindly. When listening to other people's speeches or speeches, we should face each other squarely, and we should not casually interrupt them.
4. In public, don't talk loudly, spit, litter, pick your ears, pick your nose, shave your teeth, cut your nails, etc.
5. Obey the traffic laws, don't ride a bike illegally, and cross the road and take the crosswalk.
6. Observe public order, queue up to buy tickets, and be polite to the staff.
7. Take care of public facilities, cultural relics, crops, flowers and trees, and protect beneficial animals and ecological environment.
8. When expressing condolences to patients, say "Have a good rest." Bring condolences or flowers.