In this world, there are many women with princess disease, but few women know how to manage marriage. The so-called princess disease is that I would rather give up my marriage than my inherent way of life.
In the marriage between Big S and Wang Xiaofei, we only saw Wang Xiaofei running around, while Big S just stayed at home and waited. How long can such a marriage last? However, Rene Liu is different. She insists on the marriage mode of getting along alone. She never lost herself in marriage and always knew what she wanted.
20 10 big s and, known as "Jing Shao", only met four times on a friend's birthday, and became lifelong partners. At first, the outside world was not optimistic about their combination because it was too hasty. But Big S said, "I knew I was going to marry him the first time I saw him, because I was willing to give up everything for him to go to the kitchen. He dared to propose to me less than three times."
Most people don't believe in love at first sight, but Big S and Wang Xiaofei did fall in love at first sight, and their love lasted 10 years.
As the saying goes, marry a chicken with a chicken and marry a dog with a dog. Although this is not pleasant to hear, it tells a truth that a wife should listen to her husband. Big S just married Wang Xiaofei a few years ago, and she does live in Beijing with her husband. She has a lot of personal discomfort with Beijing's climate, customs and humanities. Coupled with a strong mother-in-law, Big S had to go home and go back where she came from.
From 2065438 to 2007, Big S returned to Taiwan to live with her children. Since then, her husband Wang Xiaofei has started running on both sides. Because most of his business is in the mainland, so is his mother Zhang Lan. In four years, Wang Xiaofei traveled to and from the mainland more than 700 times.
During the epidemic, the mainland of Taiwan Province Province will be quarantined for 14 days. Wang Xiaofei complained a lot, and he was much older, but he never wanted to give up his marriage. On the contrary, Big S's decision is famous in the circle. Whether in love or marriage, she always breaks up and never drags her feet.
I believe this time I divorced Wang Xiaofei after careful consideration. According to her, Rome was not built in a day. Once my sister Xiao S asked her brother-in-law, "Your mother and my sister fell into the water at the same time. Which one do you save first? " Wang Xiaofei was silent for a long time and replied to save her mother first. Perhaps this answer pushed their marriage to the bottom.
Big S is a very cautious person, but Wang Xiaofei's character is contrary to big S, he is irritable and impulsive. Such two people, love is complementary in character, but not love is mutual hatred.
After the divorce, Big S invited herself to eat a big meal of more than 2,000 yuan, which shows that divorce is a relief for her. On the other hand, Wang Xiaofei tried his best to maintain his marriage. He was drunk and complained in Weibo, but when he was sober, he deleted it. When he ran from Taiwan Province Province to China and made himself look like a trapeze artist, it was enough to prove that he wanted to stay married. But in the end, it was not satisfactory. Their relationship still ended in divorce.
Big S: Let's raise our children together. Phillips likes children very much. At present, the children will live with me first, but it is possible to live anywhere according to their wishes in the future. The implication of big S is that children will not leave themselves for the time being and will live and go to school in Taipei. In other words, she can accept that her children will leave her in the future, and she doesn't want to live in Taiwan Province Province.
On the other hand, Rene Liu, also a Taiwan Province woman, has been married to her husband Zhong Xiaojiang for ten years. They only knew each other for half a year before they got married. Rene Liu's marriage is very happy. Because she knows how to be alone and get along.
At the age of 20 1 1 4 1, Rene Liu and registered marriage. So far 10 years of marriage, living in separate houses for nine years. The two have independent space and do not interfere with each other. The relationship is mutual expectation and independence.
True love is not love at first sight, but companionship for a long time. Zhong Xiaojiang's love for Rene Liu is reflected in every detail of life.
When getting married, Rene Liu made three conditions to Zhong Xiaojiang. They are 1. Don't be a full-time wife, 2. Do not do housework, 3. Live in different rooms. Zhong Xiaojiang agreed to all three conditions.
In order to make Rene Liu feel at home in Beijing, Zhong Xiaojiang specially transformed his quadrangle into a library. It's very cold in winter in Beijing, so Zhong Xiaojiang specially made thousands of pairs of cotton shoes for Rene Liu.
Zhong Xiaojiang was born in a family of traditional Chinese medicine. After he knew Rene Liu, he took good care of Rene Liu. From drinking boiled water to blushing and making up, he made it specially for Rene Liu. His meticulous care made Rene Liu feel warm and at ease.
20 15 when Rene Liu gave birth to a baby, Rene Liu constantly exposed photos of playing with his son on the Weibo. She said, "I can hold the bottle in my left hand and the spatula in my right. I have poetry in my eyes and a distance. "
Now their son Hong Yu is 6 years old. On his son's birthday, Rene Liu sent Weibo a message saying, "Cherish, be kind ..."
Rene Liu sang Crazy for Love all the way. It was Zhong Xiaojiang who fulfilled her love and gave her a warm home, so that she was no longer lonely.
Big S and Rene Liu are both women in Taiwan Province Province, but they have different attitudes towards marriage and family. Big S has a strong personality and is not easy to tolerate others. Rene Liu, on the other hand, is a gentle woman with a gentle personality like water. On the tenth anniversary of her marriage to her husband, Zhong Xiaojiang sent Weibo, saying, "Thank you for your tolerance." Visible Rene Liu is a tolerant woman.
Let's learn tolerance and understanding in marriage, understand empathy, consider problems from each other's point of view, and let go of self-obsession, and we will certainly gain a beautiful and harmonious family.