First of all, the little problem of engagement
1. Is the engagement ceremony necessary? As long as the two sides discuss it well, it is also possible. If time is tight or the budget is low, the awareness of engagement can be simplified. When parents have dinner, boys can send the hostess a bunch of flowers and a diamond ring.
2. When did you get engaged? Usually one year or six months before the wedding.
Do we have to have an engagement party at the hotel? Not necessarily. It can be changed according to the specific conditions of both parties. If the number is small, it can be held at home and the ceremony can be completed under the witness of the elders.
4. Who will be in charge of the engagement party? Generally speaking, it is held at the woman's house, and the man needs to take the bride-to-be back with the bride price witnessed by his elders and matchmaker.
5. Does the engagement party need to be decorated? Newcomers with adequate budget and a sense of ceremony, of course, do the layout, do it themselves, or ask professionals to arrange it.
Second, the engagement list
1. letter of appointment: find your favorite style in advance and customize it. On that day, both of them will sign their names and press their handprints, which can be kept as a souvenir.
2. Bouquet: You can choose a good bouquet.
3. Cake: Before the banquet, two people cut the cake together. Yes, man, you'd better prepare a double cake.
4. Tea tray: In some places, it is customary to offer tea to parents when they are engaged. You can ask your elders for advice before you make preparations.
5. Happy items: happy candy/cake/cigarette/wine/melon seeds/peanuts, etc. I was already happy when I got engaged.
6. The man's bride price and jewelry: remember to discuss in advance to avoid conflict.
Third, the engagement dress
1. Brides and grooms should not choose white or black dresses. It is recommended to consider a red dress, which is decent and photogenic.
2. Newcomers who pursue a sense of ceremony prefer suits and ties. Looking clean and refreshing is the handsome standard for boys.
3. Mom and dad on both sides can wear long skirts or cheongsam to highlight elegance, and dads will look handsome in shirts! Be sure to iron your clothes in advance ~
Fourth, the engagement process.
1. The man went to the woman's house to propose marriage with his dowry.
The engagement ceremony begins, and the couple reads and signs the marriage certificate.
3. Newcomers make simple speeches to express their appreciation for each other.
4. Parents of both sides made simple speeches, expressing their blessings and thanking the guests.
The couple raised their glasses to celebrate, and held ceremonies such as cutting cakes and pouring champagne towers together.
Many brides-to-be will have questions! Do you need to hold an engagement party? What is the engagement process? What do you need to do at the engagement party? I have prepared a detailed description of the engagement process, which the bride who intends to engage in the engagement ceremony must read.
1. Determine the engagement time. Some places will be chosen according to the date of birth and Huang Dynasty. Everyone can do it according to their own customs.
2. Determine the location of the betrothed party according to the local customs and the negotiation results of the two companies.
3. Draw up an engagement party list, usually 6, 8, 10, 12 people, even numbers are appropriate.
4. Gift list on the day of engagement.
5. Preparation of engagement clothes.
6. Specific process.