Especially some old lai may have done some business and seen some markets in their early years. What a great boss do you think he is when he boasts to you? Know everything and dare to say anything.
There is an old lai in the village next door to us. When he didn't owe so much money to others in his early years, he went to other people's homes to eat and drink every year when he came back for the New Year. After he finished rubbing, he began to brag. I didn't even know he thought he had made hundreds of millions outside!
Moreover, these people like to play family cards. When you ask them for money, they start to complain more about you. Said he was old and young and really needed to borrow money.
Then let you tolerate them for a while, because their mouths can say that you feel that if you don't give him a period of time, you are a heinous bad person.
These old lai are usually lazy, as they were when they were young. They don't have a serious job when they are old, and even their family and friends look down on them and stay away from them.
An old lai can bring down several families. Relatives and friends must have been borrowed by him, and they would hide when they saw him.
And these old lai generally have some bad hobbies. Some like gambling, some like smoking, some like playing games, some like going out for whoring, and some are even involved in drugs.
Once you have money, you must first satisfy your own desires, make yourself comfortable, and then consider others. Therefore, don't expect Lao Lai to take the initiative to pay back the money, because they will always have something more important than paying back the money.