2. People who are proactive will be happier.
3, perfectionists, execution will be almost.
The more people like to show off, the smaller their hearts are.
People who like to brag are mostly caused by inferiority.
6. People who speak methodically generally do things in a planned way.
7. Handsome guys are often not very beautiful.
8. Impulsive people may be extremely sensitive and even fragile.
9. Parents do small business at home, and children like to haggle over every ounce.
10, the bigger the handwriting when signing, the more narcissistic it is, and most of them love to brag.
1 1, high academic qualifications do not mean high self-cultivation, but may just be good in exams.
12, people who always like to criticize are generally selfish people.
13, the more people who can't find the key points, they are generally not good at listening.
14. People who have always had a peaceful voice are very strong inside.
15, the stronger the inferiority complex, the easier it is to do things beyond imagination.
16. People everyone likes are either extremely emotional or live too tired.
17, people who like green are peaceful and straightforward, and their hearts are often suspicious.
18, people who are still calm at the peak of their emotions are really strong and really cruel.
19, the cruel words a person says when he is angry are often his true feelings.
20. People who don't promise easily and can do it once they promise are usually more reliable.
2 1. People who often talk about money either have no money or remain poor.
22. People who are full of complaints are generally incapable, and those who are capable have no time to complain.
23. People who lose their temper easily may be fragile and have unknown weaknesses.
24. If you encounter a traffic jam, don't blame your mother, or you have a good temper, or you are very forbearing and don't easily expose your emotions.
If a boy often complains about his girlfriend with others, it means that he will break up sooner or later.
26. People who like to laugh at themselves and themselves are actually more confident. People are humorous.
27. A person repeatedly says that he doesn't want anything, probably because he has no ability at all.
28. People who often say "I have heard, said and seemed to have heard" have a wide range of knowledge, but lack self-confidence.
29. If you hear someone coughing loudly, he must be warning something.
30. There is one kind of people who need to be vigilant. As soon as you say something, you start to refute it. Chances are you have a problem.
3 1, a reasonable person who likes examples, the logic will be clearer and more acceptable.
32. Liars will tell more than usual. Because he wants you to believe that you are not lying, he will always explain and try to cover up the truth.
34. Fear often turns into anger. You have to see who growls at the sky. He must be scared to death.
35. People who often please their superiors or elders often like to bully people who are weaker than themselves.
36. People who love swearing are afraid inside, and animals with horns are not carnivores.
37. Girls who don't wear makeup don't care much about what others think of them, or they don't meet people who like them.
38. A man who likes to highlight the sense of existence can't mix anything big. For example, if he wants to come and say something, he is afraid that others will treat him as a mute.
39. A successful man's wife looks mean without looks. Therefore, this kind of thing, Wang Fuxiang, is not only pulled by ancestors.
40. If a man with obvious defects (such as short head and ugly intuitive shortcomings) is still confident, then this man must be something.
4 1. If you feel someone is watching you, you can look at your watch. If that person is looking at you, he will subconsciously look at his wrist/watch.
42. In the domestic violence, I hit you once, even though I cried and told my mother to kneel and apologize. The second time is like a shadow. Addiction.
43. When pursuing girls, the offensive is fierce. Don't accept a man who loves to cry, make trouble and hang. The truth that water can carry a boat and overturn it is applicable everywhere.
44. People who can control their emotions are very powerful, but those who are not good at controlling their emotions are relatively safe. The former is the person you need to be and the latter is the person you can associate with.
45. It hurts to be with others when you meet them for the first time. In fact, this is not because I met a bosom friend, but because I haven't communicated with others for a long time, and my heart is very lonely.
46. People who have no strength, like to brag and love to show off in an ostentatious manner should stay away. When such people are often unlucky, they like to pull people around them together.
47. People with closed mouths and drooping corners of their mouths are mostly dignified and somewhat charismatic in their own fields.
48. People who like to use facial expressions frequently when chatting are mostly sensitive and even insecure.
49. Most people who like to keep cats are good-looking; Most people who like to keep dogs have love in their hearts.
50. What can best reflect a person's true thoughts and personality is not language, but tone (only tone can feel emotions).
There are many skills in observing people in life, and there are also many skills in understanding people. As long as you are wise and willing to do details, you can know people.
Phenomenon can reflect essence, and essence needs the reflection of phenomenon. Through phenomenal, careful, experienced and intelligent methods, we can know the inner essence. By looking at the appearance, color temperament, words and deeds, dress and so on, we can see the inner essence from the phenomenon. You can know about people from their appearance; Look at temperament, you can know the quality of taste; Look at your words and deeds, you can know your inner activities; Listen to the conversation, you can know your personality habits; Looking at dress can also give insight into people's inner world; By looking at people's personality habits, we can know whether people are good or bad; You can learn a lot about people by observing their hobbies. People's appearance temperament, words and deeds, every move, all show people's characteristics and inner temperament. As long as you carefully observe and think about the meaning of words, you can know people, and even if you are afraid of deliberately covering up the disguise, you can distinguish between true and false.
The eyes are the windows to the soul. By looking at the changes in people's eyes, we can know their hearts and identify their personality, knowledge, sentiment and character. Open-minded, honest, Ming Che frank; A narrow-minded and hypocritical person has sly and gloomy eyes. People with persistent eyes are ambitious; Everything with erratic eyes is frivolous. Introverted eyes show that people are selfish; Eyes exposed, indicating greed. Confident people have firm and deep eyes; People with inferiority have dim eyes. People's eyes can reveal their secrets.
This question and answer is a bit interesting. I'll try to answer. In daily life, when we meet strangers, the first impression is very important. As the saying goes, "women look at their heads, men look at their feet." In other words, a woman's hard work and shrewdness can be seen from her head. As soon as you see her with long hair and clouds of hair, you will definitely think that she is a beauty. On the contrary, a girl who is unkempt will have no taste. And men look at their feet, which is probably why. We can see from our daily life that a person who walks easily must be a healthy and happy person, not from a photo album. Of course, these are superficial first impressions. If you really want to understand a person's connotation, you can't just observe it by appearance. You can't judge a book by its cover. You still have to get along with him for a long time before you can find out his temper and character.
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "all that glitters is not gold, and the sea is immeasurable". In other words, no matter how good-looking a person is, he may not be talented. Some people even have donkey dung eggs with a bag of grass in them. And when you see that some people are particularly ugly, but carrots are mixed with peppers, you can't tell them apart. Although ugly, he is brilliant and can do whatever he wants. In other words, people without tails are harder to know than donkeys. Without communication and in-depth understanding of some things and constant observation, it is impossible to see whether a person is good or bad. No one can estimate the capacity of seawater, only scientists can measure it with instruments.
But since ancient times, there has been a saying in society, which is also a book circulated by the people. "After seeing the linen portrait, I dare not look up." In other words, it is a portrait of Mayi, which uses people's heads to express people's five views and judges a person's ugly face by their five views. For example, a person's long day covers everything, that is, if a person's lower mouth is closed and then covered with his upper mouth, it means that this person likes to talk long and gossip. If a person's forehead is narrow, his mouth is pointed and there is no meat on his forehead, it shows that this person is treacherous and cunning. If a person's Tang Yin is black, it means that this person has a disaster. If a person's face is beaming and beaming, it shows that this person's knowledge of mutual learning, such as happy events, is still of certain reference value. After reading the book Ma Yixiang, under the guidance of an old man, through individual observation and constant communication, I basically have some experience in treating a person, but it is still very important to observe a person's behavior.
So we look at a person, and the knowledge in books can only be used for our own reference. Only by observing a person correctly, or through the interaction of things, can we truly understand the essential dynamics of this person. A gentleman is generous in doing things, never pestering himself about chicken skin and garlic skin, and never tarnishing his reputation for harming others and benefiting himself. If he is a villain, he will haggle over every ounce for one thing, make a big fuss about trivial matters, and specialize in those crooked things. This is that people only look at the appearance, not the inside. Only in-depth contact can we really understand a person.
2. People who don't show their emotions need to pay attention.
3. Show off what is missing or missing.
4. Beware of those who are good to everyone and those who are good to everyone.
To see a person clearly, you need to observe his attitude in handling things, his hobbies, his friends and girlfriends around him, as well as his clothing style, walking posture, or his photos or work style, which will all be part of him. Don't be fooled by appearances, although appearances can really confuse people.
6. The person who agrees to your request immediately may want something from you.
7. People who are very popular with people around you are often not simple.
8. Looking at his room or desk, all the neat people around him are calm and clear-headed.
9. No matter how smart people are, they are stupid. People who look smart are not necessarily smart. Some seemingly practical and even stupid behaviors may be the best way. 10. Don't look at what he said, what his circle of friends sent, but what he did and what his ultimate goal was.
1 1. People who can inadvertently remember what you said care more about you.
12. Most people with happy families generally have few bad ideas and nothing bad in their bellies, and they know how to love others better. Some people who work hard step by step on their own are not necessarily smart, but they must be smart.
13. People who are cold outside and hot inside may get along better than those who are cold outside and cold inside. Seemingly indifferent people are only enthusiastic about the people or things they are interested in, while those who are hot outside and cold inside are bound by the label of' warmth' and will be very tired.
14. People who are too narcissistic generally don't love others.
15. Clear water is always better than nutritious but turbid drinks, and so are people, but many people will be confused by the beautiful packaging and delicious taste of drinks. This drink is sweet and exciting, but it is harmful. The first sip of tea may give people a bitter feeling, and only those who know tea can taste its fragrance.
16. Don't be confused by superficial phenomena, don't kill him with a stick, but feel his heart. Everyone has many faces. A boy who looks strong and refreshing may be very sensitive and lacking in love; Although dressing style endows a person with personality, many of them are only a small part of the judging standard; People who look generous and cheerful may only be good to themselves.
17. People who always talk nonsense or ask irrelevant questions are generally not smart or have no aura.
18. People who know what they don't know are always better than pretentious people. People with fear and awe are more self-aware.
19. People who are obsessed with dead ends may be more affectionate and sometimes it is difficult to get out. People with more spare tires are generally heartless and only fall in love.
20. Most people who won't make you feel real have places to play.
2 1. Most people who can't see through at a glance have stories.
22. Make friends with boyfriends and girlfriends with your heart. Pure people will think you are impure, and it's no use trying again.
23. Some people are complex fools. Although they are complicated, they can't hide their stupidity. Some people are jade with aura, but they are concise and keen.
24. Artists are mostly pure, love themselves and live with emotions. People like sales are very particular about their way of speaking.
25. A friend will say nothing when you are too busy to spend time with her, but a playmate will not.
26. People who are not strong inside are more likely to be angered.
27. A really smart person will not argue with a stupid person, but will only let the stupid person bump his head.
28. People who have done many things that hurt others without feeling guilty must stay away.
29. Beauty is not necessarily natural beauty, but aesthetic feeling.
3 1. People who have a sense of mystery probably just have reservations about you.
Finally, I wish you all the best in the new year, and the person you like likes you.
Thank you Wukong for inviting me to answer this question. What skills do you have to look at people in your life? In fact, I think the skill of reading people here is to read people's faces. When we see someone unhappy, they will show it on their faces, and when they are happy, they will laugh. Many times we just look at the superficial image and seldom know what others are thinking. As the saying goes, "You know people, but you don't know your heart."
It takes a long time to know whether a person's moral character is noble or not. Sometimes time will tell you what this person is like. The moral quality of life can't be easily understood at a glance. It is very difficult to understand people, especially those on the internet, through work, study and progress.
What you need to know about a person is to treat him sincerely, but there are many superficial words. Some people talk the same way and do the same thing, letting you know that life is dangerous. Only you know that you have been with him for a long time, and naturally you know what kind of person this person is. I only know the word "serious". People will live up to me and I will never live up to others. Just be myself. Little is known about face recognition. Observe people.
I remember when I went to pick up my car two years ago, my salesman also shared with me a method to judge people by the color of the car. It may not be accurate, but it is very interesting. He said:
People who like red cars are more confident, enthusiastic and talkative;
People who like black and white cars will be a little picky and pursue perfection (I bought a white car ...);
People who like dark blue cars are calm and determined;
People who like silver cars choose the most popular, safe and unobtrusive colors, which shows that this person is calm and moderate;
People who like non-mainstream colors such as bright yellow, green and bright purple probably have the heart to buy a sports car. ...
Let me share a few practical skills of looking at people.
First, don't trust "first impressions" easily. Everyone knows that the first impression is very important, and because of this, many people will deliberately decorate themselves for other purposes. So we'd better not be preconceived and look at people with first impressions. I don't know the rest. Anyway, in the summer in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, many men on the street are dressed in T-shirts+shorts+flip-flops. Maybe he is actually a big boss with a net worth of tens of millions. ...
Second, keep a proper distance. Psychological research shows that a person's understanding of another person does not mean that the longer the time, the closer the relationship and the deeper the understanding. It is most likely that there is a curve relationship between parameters such as the length of time and the closeness of the relationship. In other words, friendship is too shallow, friendship is too deep, but at a just right distance.
If you want to know a person well, you must draw the most reliable conclusion when you haven't known him long enough and the relationship is not particularly close.
Third, look at the people around him/her. We say "birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups". A quiet person is unlikely to get along with a noisy person all day, and a calm person is unlikely to make friends with a frivolous person. Although sometimes, we have to get in touch with people we hate, from the inside, we still like people who are similar to ourselves most of the time and can talk to them.
Fourth, don't make extreme judgments or "label" easily. Because man is the most complicated and unpredictable animal in the world, a person can be kind to his family or sinister to others. It is normal for two opposite behaviors to appear in the same person. A person's personality is multifaceted, and what you see is probably only one side of him.
So don't label others easily, whether it is based on the first impression or the blood type zodiac, it is not very reliable. The most important thing is to collect more samples of this person's behavior in actual contact, and the final conclusion is relatively reliable.
For example, I am a Sagittarius, and the first reaction of people I just met is "I must be a playboy!" It was an explosion. I am very dedicated and can order the same lunch from the same takeaway shop for two months in a row. ...
The ancients said: "The mind, at the end of the line, examines the heart and sees good and evil; Walker, the surface of the heart, watch his actions, and know his blessings and disasters. "
It can be seen that "mind" and "behavior" are the basis of looking at people.
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Xie Wukong took care of the invitation.
Everyday dealing with people is just a trivial personal experience, and there is no technical talk.
Through years of personal life experience, I think that in all kinds of social activities in life, interpersonal communication is the main content of human life, which will accompany me all my life. The subject of social communication is people, and the beginning of communication with people is to observe people. With the basis of observing people, we must know people, which is the main body of social life. On this issue, my personal approach is to practice and explore from three aspects.
First, look at people from their faces. Each of us has a face given by God and parents, and this face is one hundred people. Although everyone's face is very different, only two faces are shown to the world, good luck and evil.
Ji Xiang's face is hazy, whether familiar or unfamiliar, you can see it from Ji Xiang's face. If his (her) voice is in contact with his (her) language, it will be very soft and pleasant to hear, and it will make you feel comfortable from the heart. Even if there is nothing to do, a few simple words will give you a pleasant feeling like spring breeze. If he (she) comes to serve, he (she) is definitely a person who provides both mouth and heart. Speak simply, do things readily, be selfless and fair. Over time, you will naturally make him (her) your adult confidant. Lucky men and women, they all have a loving heart, and they all have selfless, fair and honest good deeds. Making friends with such people will make you satisfied all your life, just like brothers.
Another lost face, when people first see it, will produce a reluctance and fear. If your answer is immortal, it is very speculative. Either coldness or rhetoric will make your mood dissipate instantly. If you really try to communicate, you will pass it by.
It is a common social interaction to see good and bad and know good and evil. There are also good-hearted and evil-hearted faces in reality, but this is only a regular accidental phenomenon.
Looking back from personal experience, judging people by their appearances is still very accurate. I have worked personally for decades, and I have many friends, but my true confidants are all kind faces. Credible, trustworthy, like a buddy, like a brother.
Buddha said that the face is the heart. Credible!
Second, listen to him. After understanding from the surface, we can go further and explore with language. Although language is expressed by the mouth, it is essentially the messenger of the brain, and the mouth is sent by the brain to express pronunciation. Words are confessions of the soul.
There is no cunning nerve in an honest man's head, so whenever and wherever he speaks on behalf of his brain, he is sincere and landed. Even if you meet for the first time, his words can make you feel really objective, without embellishment, fancy, twists and turns, straight to the point and earnest. The first time I saw him and heard his words, I thought I was very happy. Next time, I can invite him out. If his words are as loyal as last time, you know it. Then we can meet and chat for the third time. If the chat after three meetings can make you feel sincere, you can conclude that this person is loyal, honest and reliable. You can rest assured that you will have more feelings and talk about everything. If you are in trouble and temporarily helpless, you can open your heart and he will do his best.
On the contrary, if you are wily and haggle over every ounce, people with deep talent, no matter whether they are raw or cooked, will talk eloquently, so that you won't listen and will leave soon.
Listen to his words, observe his people, know his people, very direct, very fast, more than a sentence. In a few words, you will know. Most people in society also use this method in their daily life, and they are often birds of a feather.
Third, observe its actions. Look at the face, divide it into good and bad, divide it into good and evil, listen to what it says, realize honesty and cunning, and know loyalty.
The most important thing is to show your true colors by doing things. Kindness is better than honesty, and honesty is better than doing things well.
Ordinary people often use a simple language to say good people and bad people. This is a mule. This is a horse. If you are sincere, the best discrimination is doing things. Truth is practice and the only criterion for testing truth. A truly honest and kind person works hard, everything is settled and everything makes you satisfied. Those selfish, heartless people always talk, listen to their words, make a fuss, fight for their words, and do things every day. Don't trust, don't entrust, one thing is popular.
Knowing people in the above three aspects is only a personal matter, for reference and sincere advice.
Walk in a figure of eight, white face, gentleness, long stride and lively eyes. This kind of person is withdrawn, can talk a lot but can't express it, doesn't get close to women, drinks a lot of money and can become a climate. Reject competitors and spare no effort to attack them. After that, as if nothing had happened, it was very calm, and the victim was willing to give in and walk around everything. One day, the workshop director changed, the new director took office and the old director stepped down. They are all young people in their thirties and still keep in touch with each other. The workshop production of inductors, TV accessories and chemical materials needs to be distributed in proportion. The new director didn't master the proportion of raw materials, and tens of thousands of raw materials were mixed together and turned into stones. He just became the director, and he was scared and didn't know what to do. At this time, the old director who avoided the eight characters came and said, nothing, throw it into the river. But when they met a rescuer, they never stopped. They carried the stone to the edge of the fence, stood on a stool and threw it into the river. Who knows what I don't know Everything is fine. The next day, the director yelled at him to fish out the stone for me. You are the workshop director. He fished for stones in the cold river alone. Naoko became a director again. When he saw him moving stones, he said. Show the stone to the director. Coptis chinensis bitter he swallowed.
Observing people's art has summed up a lot in past dynasties. Zhi Changrong believes that every art of observing people must have a right heart, and if the heart is not right, its art will be evil. As the saying goes, the cloud Buddha treats people like Buddha and people like people. Your heart is open and aboveboard, whether it is a gentleman or a villain, it is clear at a glance. If you have selfish distractions, others will take advantage of it, even if you study and observe people's art for a long time, it is useless, because you can't see people, only see the interests you want.
Some people say that knowing people knows their faces but not their hearts. In fact, knowing someone can be very close. The key lies in the details, not the object.
First, identify two lovers in love, the man pursues the girl, and the girl is most afraid that the boy is pretending. How come?
When pursuing, boys naturally give girls everything they want. So girls can't watch what boys do to themselves. It depends on his attitude towards others. For example, whether to be filial to parents, whether to be loyal to friends, whether to help the weak, how to treat money and so on. From these details, we can judge whether this person is worth entrusting for life.
If you only see how kind, romantic and coquettish he is to you, then you may really not understand people.
Second, identify the sage Bai Gui as a famous businessman in the Warring States Period, known as the "ancestor of Shang Dynasty". He came to Sun Yat-sen State and Qi State, and the monarchs of these two vassal States kept him, hoping that he could stay and help. As a result, Bai Gui refused.
This is a good opportunity. Why give it up? You know, it's hard to get the appreciation of the monarch.
Bai Gui said: I don't see people praising, trusting and loving their monarch. Moreover, the people even had a hard life, and the monarch himself did not repent or appoint sages.
The above is Bai Gui's judgment on the monarch's ability. He thinks that such a monarch belongs to the "Five Musts". Similarly, Bai Gui judges people not by the monarch's attitude and importance to himself, but by his level of governing the country to speculate whether the monarch should help.
Third, identify it. Liezi's friend is very poor, because he is hungry because he doesn't have enough to eat. At this time, someone told Zheng Xiang Ziyang about it. The man said Liezi was a celebrity. He is so hungry in your state of Zheng that others will say that you don't value sages. Ziyang sent him hundreds of stones of grain as soon as he heard it.
As a result, Liezi knew about it and told the messenger that he didn't need food. His wife is puzzled and hates Liezi.
Liezi said Ziyang helped me not for me but for his own reputation. If he says that killing me one day will increase his reputation, he can do it without hesitation.
Friends should help themselves from the heart and take the initiative to help, rather than have other purposes and values to help. This is why a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.
Some people said I was in trouble, so I went to them and no one helped me. After the disaster, it was a friend who offered to help. Since there is no one to help, Thorne's initiative to find a high probability is just a shame.
This is also the reason why the ancients said that a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.
Fourth, determine the subordinate Qi Huangong and ask Guan Zhong who will take over after your death. Guan Zhong said that he would like to stay away from Yi Ya, Shu Dao, Master Heng and Wei Gongzi.
Qi Huangong didn't understand how good Yi Ya was to me. He cooked his own son to satisfy my taste. Can such a person still doubt?
Guan Zhong said that even his own son can be abandoned. How can such a person be trusted? This is against humanity.
When a subordinate pays the price he should pay for surpassing his subordinates, there must be a purpose in it. Yi Ya saw that Qi Huangong was seriously ill, and slowly lost power and influence, and finally won the son, forcing the prince to rush to the Song Dynasty. Qi was in civil strife, trapped and finally starved to death.
Conclusion: Therefore, to know people is not to listen to their words, but to observe their actions and actions towards others, from which we can see how they are and how their hearts are.
I'm Zhi, also called Bei Xuan. Thank you for reading. The above contents are for reference only, but it needs to be emphasized again that the so-called art of looking at people is no longer looking at people, but whether your heart is aboveboard or not.