You are both born in the furnace, and the five elements are the same; the ninth house is in the middle, which is normal.
On the whole, your marriage is acceptable and a moderate marriage. Congratulations.
Your Italian month is the seventh day of the first lunar month.
The auspicious dates for weddings in 2013 on the lunar calendar are as follows:
The fifth day of the first lunar month (for snakes); the tenth of the second lunar month (for dragons) and the thirteenth (for sheep); and the second day of March Ten (for Sheep); April 10 (for Rabbit), Eleventh (for Dragon), Twenty-one (for Tiger), Twenty-two (for Rabbit); May (none); June 11 (for Rabbit), The 21st (for the Ox); the 14th of July (for the Rat); the 10th of August (for the Ox) and the 21st (for the Rat); the 16th of September (for the Ox) and the 26th (for the Pig); the 6th of October (contrast monkey), the eighth day (contrast dog), the nineteenth day (contrast chicken), the twenty-first day (contrast pig); the twenty-sixth day of the winter month (contrast dog), the twenty-seventh day (contrast pig); the sixth day of the twelfth lunar month (contrast sheep), The eighth day of the lunar month (chicken).
These are the best auspicious days for marriage. Apart from this, there is nothing better.