Eight-character characteristics of unsuitable marriage in male sexual life
The following men are married and have poor adaptability, so they need to overcome the influence of their unfavorable personality development:
1, the sun is weak, the eight characters are in the middle, and people are mixed.
The man's real wealth represents the Japanese master's own wife, which is a lasting, just and legal fate between husband and wife; Partial wealth in the eight characters, if there is no positive wealth in the eight characters, can only be regarded as his wife. It is a non-lasting, temporary and illegitimate heterosexual love relationship, which belongs to partial wife, marriage failure, second marriage and extramarital affairs.
The combination of eight characters and positive wealth shows that there are many women around you, and the opposite sex is very good. There are many people who have different kinds of opposite sex fate with themselves in life, and there are many opportunities. Originally, if there is a lot of money in the eight characters, you need to restrain the wealth star, not rob the money. However, due to the weakness of the Japanese Lord, it is often weaker than robbery, or the damage in the eight characters is more serious than robbery, so the Japanese Lord is often weak-willed and lacks opinions. After marriage, it is often easy to get involved in grass, empathize with others, and cause marriage change. Not only did it cause deep harm to the other party, but it would also hurt you deeply.
This kind of people, as long as they are not cowardly and greedy, like to steal the star. After marriage, because of the strength of a star with deep pockets, it is easy to be dragged down by marriage.
Therefore, if such people want to improve their fate, they must first enhance their abilities from their personalities, especially their willpower and resistance; Or through learning, strengthen their moral defense and emotional training ability, so that life can be smooth sailing. Because a person's willpower represents the strength of robbery, but also represents self-abundance, and learning knowledge is a process to help me, representing the power of printing stars. In addition, of course, it can also be solved by the method of five elements or geomantic omen, but the correct solution, that is, the source of lasting power, is still the above two categories.
2, the Japanese are rich and powerful, robbed a lot, and four pillars have no money.
In the eight characters, robbery is the "enemy" of the fortune star. Therefore, in the eight characters, the men who rob Duowang are generally very heavy. This is especially true of Wang Er's people. In marriage, you often can't respect your wife's opinion, and you won't love and care for your wife. When you are in a bad mood, you will add this kind of mind. If there is no money in the column, the wife can't suffer, but she is also afraid of being favored by the fortune star during the trip. If she sees it, she will lose her money, her family and be easily hurt by wealth, eroticism and women.
If there is an official star in the eight characters and the fortune star is XiShen, these influences will not be great. However, if the official star declines, it will be difficult to change the situation of broken wives, so the official star should welcome the good luck in the New Year. There is no official star, in fact, wealth star is a taboo. After marriage, it is because there is another rich star, either because his wife is ill or because his wife is related to other people or things like his wife.
Therefore, this kind of person needs to match the marriage with the woman who is injured in the eight characters. Although my married life will not be smooth sailing, I can argue all my life. To completely improve the fortune of marriage or one's own life, we should mainly start with the improvement of personality. The main methods are: first, let yourself concentrate on a career and personal hobbies and distract yourself from too much energy. Second, you can't let yourself stay, and find more hardships and tiredness that others don't want to do or others can't do. Third, it is suitable for working under strict bosses and superiors. Fourth, strengthen personal cultivation and strive for self-discipline and control.
3. People with four pillars of pure yin and pure yang
Pure yin and pure yang are the imbalance of yin and yang, which need to be complementary, interactive and mutually rooted; Mutual harmony. Solitary yin and yang are often difficult to survive. People who are pure yin and pure yang in the eight characters are often stubborn and have the determination and will to surrender to fate, but they are often extreme, stubborn and looking for trouble. People with high positions and high patterns are also easy to become great men and figures. People who are low, low, or old-fashioned, often have behaviors that ordinary people can't understand and do things you can't think of. Therefore, the ancients thought it belonged to "the life of hating Tao". I'm afraid there are some reasons: first, such people are often difficult to get along with others and will still be guaranteed to live a life of hatred and morality; Second, being close to Buddhism and Taoism may cultivate a person's temperament and there will be no big trouble; Third, such people often have strong willpower and strong anti-attack ability, and are suitable for academic and monastic work.
However, this kind of people, marriage is often not smooth, even if married, the other party is often vulnerable. It's hard for me to have smooth sailing. Of course, women's pure yin and men's pure yang are relatively better, because they meet the requirements of men and women's yin and yang, but their personality is extreme and difficult to neutralize, which often lays a curse for future marriage.
If these people focus on their careers and studies, they will usually succeed. In marriage, it is relatively better to delegate power and let the other party have the final say. At the same time, I also pay attention to listening to other people's opinions. If I communicate with my relatives and friends, my life will be smooth.