Based on your description, there is no doubt that you like this girl very much. However, whether this woman is pretending to be reserved or not interested in you at all, in short, she has not given you a clear opportunity now. So, the question now is, how can you break this relationship quickly and effectively? Deadlock, start your romantic journey to pursue this woman. In this regard, as a person who has been through this, I will give you some suggestions based on my own experience and experience for your reference.
1. Pretend to be mysterious. Women are often emotional. Whenever a woman becomes curious about a man, that is the beginning of her falling in love. Therefore, how to successfully arouse women's curiosity about themselves is a question that every man, including you and me, should think about and explore. However, in my opinion, the most attractive quality that can arouse women's curiosity is mystery. Yes, it is your unique mysterious temperament. As long as you understand this, it doesn't matter whether you are born with such a temperament or not, because you can acquire it, which means you can completely pretend to be mysterious. How to carry out the so-called pretending to be mysterious? Specifically, there are many, many methods. According to your own personality, hobbies and other conditions, you can find the most suitable and fastest method of pretending to be mysterious. For example, if you are familiar with your birth date, zodiac sign, and zodiac sign, Is there some interest and research into divination? Or, do you always quietly recite an ancient poem that few people know on a specific occasion? Wait, wait, etc., in short, you just want to make others, especially the woman you like, feel that you are always so special, always so almost neurotic and incomprehensible (note, this is the point) , the purpose is to make you feel as close to nerves as possible, and you must control the degree and don’t really say or do things that make you feel that you are really crazy.) In this way, she will be curious about you! My heart suddenly arose...
2. Play hard to get. Men and women in love are often like this. If you take a step forward, she will take a step back. But on the contrary, if you take the initiative to take a step back, she will probably take a step toward you more eagerly. Therefore, after successfully arousing the curiosity of the other party, she will often take the initiative to approach you, observe you, and understand you. At this time, it is very important whether you can finally capture her heart and truly start your love journey. It depends on your performance now. So how to behave? At this time, don't be anxious or rush for success. You must be calm in front of her, looming, and distant from her. In this way, while further strengthening your sense of mystery in her mind, She will be even more eager to get close to and understand you. Under such circumstances, even if there are loopholes in your subsequent deliberate displays, even if they are not very well done, she will often ignore them because she has already preconceived ideas. Thinking that you are a unique and extraordinary man, you will often unconsciously magnify your advantages and ignore your shortcomings. Okay, then let’s focus on what strengths you should show off.
3. Show generosity. Yes, the first thing you need to show is your generosity, because women are naturally dependent, so a man who is very generous in his dealings with others can often impress them the most. Therefore, whether you get along with her or with others within the scope of her sight and understanding, you must be magnanimous. The so-called magnanimity, in a nutshell, means that you must be able to laugh everything off. In short, never be stingy, never angry, never care (of course you can keep your anger, stinginess, curses and insults in your heart or recite them silently in your heart or yell at the wall when you get home! Hahaha~~), in short, it is to make people I think you are very knowledgeable, well-educated and well-educated.
4. Pay attention to details. Of course, it is said that details determine success or failure, especially in front of a careful woman, the necessary details are also very important. Specifically, you need to infinitely magnify some trivial things that no one cares about at ordinary times but are related to her, and then show them in an understatement, pretending to be indifferent or even unworthy of mentioning to let her know, that way The effect will be very touching and even shocking to her soul. Hahaha, is it too abstract? Well, let’s illustrate with an example. For example, suppose that one day, everyone is learning to drive together, and it rains heavily. Because she did not bring an umbrella, she is soaked all over and is very embarrassed. A few days after the incident, the weather was fine. In front of her, you opened your bag and prepared to take out something. She accidentally brought out an umbrella and was discovered by her. She was curious and asked you why you brought an umbrella on such a sunny day. You said softly: : Because I don’t want to see you get caught in the rain again, I always carry an umbrella with me. Wait, wait, wait, there are many more detailed settings like this, no need to apply them mechanically, the most important thing is to make her feel that you care about her unintentionally, she is very attentive and careful, and she is very low-key and is not prepared to make any noise at all, let alone prepare for it. Take credit.
5. Romantic expression. In addition to making her feel that you are generous, attentive and attentive, in view of women's natural desire for romantic love, you must also express romance in a timely manner.
For example, on a rainy evening, you sit by the window in a coffee shop, accompanied by the glow of the setting sun. You and she are sitting opposite each other, staring at each other. At this time, you suddenly and slowly lean forward and hold her hand. , looking into her eyes, after five seconds of quiet silence, you said softly to her: There is something I have always wanted to say to you... Your parents must be thieves, right? Because, they stole all the stars in the sky and put them into your eyes... (Or, this sentence can also be changed to: Today, you must be very tired, right? Because, last night, you were in my mind I ran all night...).
In this way, my sister must have been moved to tears and cried with joy after a brief period of confusion and surprise! In short, through some similar settings of romantic expressions, let the other person feel a dreamlike feeling of being loved, loved and given unlimited attention. In this way, the other person's whole heart will be completely designated to belong to you. ... :)
Okay, that’s all, I hope it can be of some help to you! If you still have any questions, you can come up at any time and continue to ask. Many enthusiastic friends, including me, will do their best to help you! Goodbye~~ Best wishes!