Some people say that a happy marriage is created and established by both men and women, and has nothing to do with fortune-telling marriage. If that's the case, as the old saying goes, only Yuanyang is admired, so I wonder, which couple in this world don't want to hold their children's hands and grow old together? Some people say that marriage is destiny takes a hand, who to marry, who to marry, how many times to get married in one's life, and how many times to get divorced are all destiny takes a hand and cannot be changed. These two views are only half right. From the perspective of numerology, whether a marriage is happy or not is directly related to the matching degree of the eight characters between men and women. In numerology, Foucault's female life is eight characters with wounded officials to see officials. Strong officials rob the weak, weak officials kill the prosperous, and officials and stars merge or rush. Wives and men are robbed of their wealth, weak in health and prosperous in wealth, robbed of their wealth and merged or destroyed their wealth stars. There are many peach blossoms outside the eight-character wall for men and women, which is the main factor leading to unsatisfactory marriage. It can be seen how important it is for both husband and wife to match marriage according to numerology and marriage law!
Marriage is an ancient custom. In ancient times, both men and women needed to exchange Geng posts before marriage to see if the eight characters were consistent, and then put forward reasonable suggestions on the inconsistencies. Eight-character marriage should be carried out from the following aspects.
1, both men and women are not suitable for punishing each other, because the year is the root, the month is the seedling, the day is the flower, and the time is the fruit. Nianzhu is the soul and foundation of a person, so it is not suitable for both sides to punish each other when they meet Nianzhu, and it is easy to have great disasters after marriage.
It is inappropriate for men and women to punish each other, because the day is a flower, not a husband-and-wife palace. It is inappropriate for husband and wife to punish each other, and the relationship between husband and wife is not easy to be harmonious after marriage.
Neither male nor female should be punished for the four-poster zodiac, because the year is the parents' palace, the month is the brothers and sisters' palace, the day is the husband and wife's palace, and the time is the children's palace. The four pillars interact with each other, which is not good for both parents, six parents, family and children.
4. If the male life is full of yang, it must match the female life, the male life matches the female life, and the female life is the same, so as to coordinate yin and yang.
5. Neither men's nor women's palaces should be punished, because the Palace of Life is the destination of human life. "Three Life Club" said: God has no temple and no home, people have no house and no home, and the hall of life has no owner. The palace of life is like a person's residence, which shows its importance. If the two houses compete with each other, the family foundation and emotional foundation after marriage will be unstable, which will easily lead to a sense of crisis and lack of security.
6. It is inappropriate for men and women to be punished for loving God in the eight characters, because loving God is a medicine to cure an eight-character character. If the love of God is restrained by the other party, it will be difficult for the husband and wife to unite as one after marriage, which will easily lead to contradictions and opinions. One goes east, one goes west, one goes to Beijing and one goes to Tianjin. So it's easy to part ways.
7. The three-dimensional palace for men and women should be combined, which is also called divination marriage or three-dimensional marriage for men and women. The eight directions of Eight Diagrams, namely, Gan, Kun, Kan, Li, Zhen, Gen, Xun and Jiao, are used to express the three-dimensional marriage of men and women, and then their respective houses are matched, and the matching results are blessing, anger, heavenly doctor, returning to the soul and wandering.
Marriage needs to be combined with the whole process of marriage, combined with the comprehensive analysis of the lifelong Universiade of both parties and give reasonable suggestions that are beneficial to the marriage of both parties. You can't combine or not combine from only one aspect.