What you said, that should be the relationship between land acquisition and unitary gold, in which there is a relationship of "mutual harm". Well, a little. It's not good to call it "crossing each other"
However, you can't just look at "I am a dog and my wife is a chicken" according to the oriental horoscope. According to the zodiac, we definitely don't deserve it. Why should we spend all our money? We are poor all our lives. " This is groundless.
It should be, the relationship between the two, "good is rewarded with good, evil with evil", or, more good is rewarded with less harm.
For the vast sea of people, this kind of "harm" need not be so concerned. This marriage is slightly above average. Don't divorce.
Furthermore, it depends on four pillars and eight characters, time and space, feng shui decoration and so on. These will affect the relationship between husband and wife. The ability to make decisions is very small, and one tenth of them have no right to make decisions. Don't be afraid.