A while ago, my little girl told me seriously that she didn’t like her nickname and wanted to change it. OK, what do you want your name to be? After much deliberation, she finally chose "Beibei".
Name, whether it is big or small, it all depends on how you look at it. If you think it is just a code name, just an identification of a person, then it has nothing to do with A, B, C, D, one, two, three, four. Different, it doesn’t matter! But if you take "people are just like their names" seriously, then you have to compete with the name!
Names, like anything, have their own popularity and universality in form. In terms of the number of characters alone, the most primitive one is three characters. Single surnames are more common, and names are two characters. Later, two characters became more popular. The one-character surname is a one-character surname, plus a one-character given name, and after a while, the three-character one becomes more popular. There are very few people with a single surname starting with four characters. Just like pants, sometimes they are narrow at the top and have wide flared legs at the bottom, sometimes they are wide and narrow at the bottom, sometimes they are narrow and tight at the top and bottom, and sometimes they are wide legged at the top and bottom. Several elements are arranged and combined to create a fashion vane.
The name has certain contemporary significance in terms of content. For example, for men, there are average, Jianguo, National Day, Peace, Satisfaction, Jiangjun, etc. For women, there are brand new, Ruyi, Zhaodi, Panpan, Taijianer, Hongmei, Dongmei, Zhenzhen, Xia, Ling, Rui, etc. .
Some names also have special meanings. Some are chosen based on the birth date and the five elements; some are chosen based on the hope placed on the family; some are chosen based on classical classics.
Whether it is a name that is marked by the times, a name that complements the heaven and earth, a name that carries the expectations of the predecessors, or a name that is full of wisdom, it was all in line with the times at the time!
The name is obviously yours, but others use it more often. It's obviously yours, others make the decision.
Once a name is chosen and entered into the household registration book, this name will follow you for a lifetime. If you want to change your name, the procedure is cumbersome and almost impossible.
When you grew up, were you dissatisfied with your name?
I remember when I was a child, I was probably in the second grade of elementary school. Girls' gangs have become very obvious. I once changed my name to use the word "gang leader". Isn't this very similar to the eldest brother, second brother and younger brother of a gang who are allied with blood and obey the boss's orders? It was really funny when I think about it, but the name was later eliminated!
My daughter told me today that she has told her children to call her "Beibei". I applied on the spot to call her "Beibei", and she was very happy. This is just a nickname, as long as she is cute and happy, I will call her "Beibei" from now on.
As your experience, knowledge, cultivation, preferences change, and your heart follows you, you may feel that there are some names that are more suitable for you. Thank you for the development of this era. With QQ, Weibo, WeChat, and nicknames, you can express your ideals and ambitions, be ordinary, solemn, low-key luxury, poetic, passionate, lonely, unrecognized for talents, grateful to the world, but do good deeds, Rejecting others thousands of miles away, etc., there are only nicknames that you can't think of, there are no nicknames that cannot be picked out, it can be said that they are all kinds of, but they are all unique and they are chosen by themselves! And it can be changed at any time, completely free without any reason! All good!
There is one adult in our community. Her name on WeChat, the name she introduces herself to, and the names she calls each other among colleagues are all different from the name on her ID card, because She doesn't like the name "Xuemei" on her ID card. I changed a "Yi Dan" myself, it's quite interesting!
Another friend of mine had a series of bad things happen to him and went to see a fortune teller. It turned out that the problem was with his name. If the name has the word "you" in the middle, then this name can only be widely publicized by her. We try our best to erase the name that has been used to call her for nearly ten years.
The names on the ID cards of these two friends cannot be changed as before.