You are too gullible.
Pay attention to cash on hand and delivery on hand. Why did you pay the bride price first, not hundreds of thousands, but hundreds of thousands? This is not a small number.
You are so stupid.
It is no accident that his fiancee's deviant behavior can be caught red-handed. If you don't know her, why are you in such a hurry to give hundreds of thousands of bride price? To buy a valuable item, you must first understand it. At most, a deposit is required, and payment can only be made when the goods arrive. Sometimes you have to withhold some funds as quality assurance. Why are you in such a hurry? You paid the full amount without asking, but it turned out to be second-hand. You are so stupid.
Return the bride price. exactly
The hard facts are already in front of us. Of course, it is also supported by law to dissolve the marriage relationship and get back all the bride price. At the beginning, I gave hundreds of thousands for the purpose of getting married. It is impossible to get married now, and it is the woman's unilateral fault, so all the bride price should be taken back.
Words between the lines
It's incredible. But think about it carefully, for many older men, getting married now has reached the point where they are hungry for food. On the contrary, some women act recklessly to the point of lawlessness. It's not a slip of the tongue that the man paid hundreds of thousands of bride price. It may be that the whole family helped or even borrowed money to support him, while the woman was hanging out with other men with hundreds of thousands of bride price, which was really a shameful scandal.
Originally, the bride price was only for you two to get married. If you don't get married now, the bride price will not exist. The bride price is equivalent to the deposit. If you don't want his girl for no reason, you will be in trouble, which is equivalent to compensating them for mental damage. Now, you don't want their girl, the reason is just and reasonable, and he still insists on your bride price for no reason or excuse.
The bride price is illegal and not protected by law, which is equivalent to extortion. Now, she made a mistake first and had a betrayal scandal, which is absolutely intolerable. It is not you who broke the contract, but she. She doesn't deserve to marry you. It was her who was wrong. Her family should return the bride price. If their family doesn't give it, it's immoral to forget the benefits for shame. If that's the case, you'll have to go to court. If they go to court, they will not only have to return the bride price, but also have a hard time, which will not do them any good.
If they are smart, they should meet your reasonable and legal requirements. In marriage and love, women's status is getting higher and higher, but don't forget the word "self-respect".