In school, the most important task for students is to study. It is very simple. In society, we face influences from all aspects and deal with various problems. If you need help in school, you should go to your teacher; if you need help in society, you can rely on yourself. People grow step by step, and have different experiences at different stages. Some people have more complicated experiences and will change more; some people have simpler experiences and will change less. This society is still this big society, and what you come into contact with is your small society. In the circle you come into contact with, there are many people and many things that make you feel very different. This shows that the problem exposed is that you are you. If you can't change society, then change yourself and adapt to your small society.
Society is the sea, and the school is a shelter from the wind. The difference lies in the sense of environmental security. School is a world full of sunshine and flowers. You are also a young boy in your prime. You will know how to cherish this good opportunity to go to school and enter the society to display your youth. When you suddenly think of your alma mater at some point, you will feel that that time is gone and everything has become a happy memory. Most of the friends I dated during my student days were those with whom I had strong emotional ties. But in society, people do not necessarily interact with each other because of feelings. Exchange of interests is more common.
Live in a small circle for a long time and have little contact with the outside world. Suddenly walking out of school, it is easy to feel strange and the contrast is strong. You must adapt quickly and integrate into society. Only by integrating can it be possible to transform society.
All ideal things are considered from the good side, but unrealistic aspects are not taken into account. Idealization must be compared with reality, find out the actual problems and solve them, and find a solution. Only in this way can the actual society and the imagined society gradually get closer, so that many shortcomings of the real society can be effectively improved, and we can be good at discovering problems and handling problems, so that the actual society and the imagined society can be brought closer. society is more perfect!