"Which family does Sun Zhuo choose?" This proposition is a false proposition. Sun Zhuo can't choose any family. It can even be said that Sun Zhuo has no family and will not accept refutation (don't argue with me, you won, you are right). Fortunately, Sun Zhuoman is 18 years old. He goes back to study hard and can take care of both parents in the future. As he said, this is the best.
Because there is no home, at least in my opinion. If the adoptive parents are caught, they may bear criminal responsibility. How do you get along with your adoptive parents? His adoptive parents have raised him for so long that he can't have no feelings. But with or without criminal responsibility, the relationship can't be the same as before, at least it will be awkward to get along with. What about your real parents? I can imagine how much a parent loves and expects his children after searching for them for so many years. But don't forget that your biological parents have a sister and a brother. ...
I mean, if Sun Zhuo stays here, do you want to live a normal life? My biological parents get along very casually with my sister and brother. What is this family's love and empathy for Sun Zhuo? Caution, flattery and strangeness. No matter how much you love, you will be embarrassed and unfamiliar if you don't live together for many years. Do you think it will have an impact when Sun Zhuo feels like an outsider in his life?
Life is concrete and subtle, not as macro and abstract as most netizens think. After the reunion, there are daily necessities, vinegar and tea in life. ...
My biological parents love Sun Zhuo very much. After years of hardships, Sun Haiyang, a faithful wife, finally never gave up looking for children in 14, so she exhausted her fortune and traveled all over China. Finally, on February 6th 14, I successfully found my kidnapped son Sun Zhuo.
During this period, the house in my hometown was sold, and "Looking for You" was printed and distributed in hundreds of thousands of copies. The steamed stuffed bun shop was changed into a house for finding children, and together with the parents who also lost their children, they embarked on a long road to finding children. This journey is 14. During this period, just like the movie Dear, Sun Haiyang watched his brother Peng Gaofeng find his son and witnessed the return of Peng Wenle. He cried bitterly: Why not find my son? When can I find my Zhuo Zhuo!
In Dear, Han Dezhong also asked the same question: I have done so much, but I found you, but I can't find you! But Sun Haiyang didn't give up. He told reporters: I must find him, I will find him. I want to write down the miracle of finding my own child, Peng Like Gao Feng!
14 Every day is long and painful. Sun Haiyang didn't want to throw away the children's picture books that Sun Zhuo had read and the toy motorcycles that he had ridden. If he despairs, he will give birth to infinite hope.
For children, there is only one floor left in the four-story building in Sun Haiyang, which is enough for them to live by themselves; His wife was tortured by thoughts and was as thin as 45 kilograms; The 70-year-old mother stubbornly went out again and again, and went to many places in the country alone with photos of her grandson. She couldn't bear to eat steamed bread or stay in a hotel, so she slept on the road. Sometimes she stares at the kindergarten all day, imagining that one of them is her Zhuo Zhuo.
From the age of 33 to 47, from full head to early hair, the suffering of 14 finally arrived on the day of 65438+February 6. When the reunion was over, Sun Haiyang and his wife stared at the boy coming towards them with red eyes, the boy in black with a height of 1.7 meters, which was the Zhuo Zhuo they longed for.
Is this really a happy ending? On July 1 1, Guo, the prototype of the movie "Lonely Lost", finally hugged his son again after looking for him for 24 years. However, when he grew up and worked, his son, who had his own family, finally made a choice, returned to his adoptive parents, and often went back to Guo for filial piety during holidays.
Although Guo is heartbroken, he can only accept and respect his son's decision and treat his adoptive parents as relatives in the future. Faced with the doubts and accusations of netizens, he chose to protect his children as much as possible and sent a video to tell netizens: I hope not to care too much in the future. Look for anything, not Guo!
Sun Haiyang's son Sun Zhuo and his adoptive parents live a happy life. His two sisters take care of him and his parents love him. He is still in high school. It was a critical moment in his life, and he made the same choice: anyway, my parents raised me for more than ten years, and now he has a home, where my parents are and where they are!
There are not a few children found after being abducted who choose to stay at their adoptive parents' home. Former company executive Shen and his one-year-old son were forcibly taken away from the rented house. They have been looking for their son 15 years, and their family is heavily in debt. They found Shen Cong to take home, but after several running-ins, they were difficult to get along with.
Of the nine children trafficked with Shen Cong, seven were found, and only two children chose to go back to their parents. One of them, Ms. Xia, lost her child, and she and her lover searched all over the country. Finally, her lover was so depressed that she chose to jump on the train home and died. After finding my son, I don't want to go back to that lonely lady Xia. Not only didn't answer the phone, but finally even the contact information was hacked.
So where there is a happy ending, from being abducted, no matter how the child chooses, the end of one tragedy means the beginning of another tragedy. I only hope to start from the source, there is no buying and selling, and there is no trafficking in the world; Parents and children are not separated. You have been looking for them for many years, but the last child you found is not your child!
To sum up my personal opinion, Sun Zhuo thanked his adoptive parents for "recognizing the thief as the father"? Will break your real parents' hearts? I don't think so.
First of all, Sun Zhuo never knew about it. As he said, he never thought that he had been kidnapped before he knew about it. His adoptive parents raised him, no matter what they raised, they had feelings for a long time, let alone a living person. Sun Zhuo never thought he was not his own, which just proves that his adoptive parents are very kind to him (please ignore the question of whether the adoptive parents prefer sons to daughters for the time being). Then, may you not be grateful to those who have been kind to you for more than ten years?
Second, Sun Zhuo's biological parents expressed their understanding of their children's thoughts, and their children were treated well and respected their decisions. Both biological parents think it is a good thing for their children to be grateful. Why should others judge them at will? Here, I also want to ask some friends to understand that the heart of distinguishing right from wrong and gratitude are two different things.
Third, and most importantly, Sun Zhuo's gratitude to his adoptive parents does not mean that they agree that their adoptive parents are right. People who do wrong naturally have punishment waiting for them, and the law has its own judgment. Business is the same crime, that's for sure, this is the iron law. From the perspective of human relations, adoptive parents should die many years after losing their children, and dying 10 thousand times is not worth cherishing. But from Sun Zhuo's point of view, it is very complicated, with love and hate.
To sum up, I want to say that when Sun Zhuo chooses both sides, neither side chooses. This is the best decision, because he has no choice but to study first and then take care of both sides. I also ask netizens to be merciful and understand that 18-year-old child is a living person, not a broken doll, and can go wherever he wants. People are human because they have complex emotions and different social ties. Instead of judging others' choices right or wrong, it is better to embrace the relatives around you and cherish the present.