First of all, judge whether the wife is having an affair from the following points:
1, the concept of time is easy to understand. My wife who used to come home on time suddenly became very late or left home too early. She also likes to ask you about your schedule, how to travel, work overtime and go home. This seems to be concerned about your going out, afraid of your accident and worrying about you. In fact, sometimes it's just that you're afraid to find out your secret and be prepared. Not only that, you can forget some love birthdays and wedding anniversaries when you were young, but the concept of time that you remember clearly in your mind begins to shrink, which means that your wife's feelings have problems.
2. Emotional impermanence When a person is doing something that even he feels disgraceful and loses to others, his psychology is often timid. He always tries his best to cover up the truth, hide traces, and try to minimize things so as not to expose his failure and arouse the vigilance and suspicion of onlookers. By the same token, a wife who has changed her mind and found another lover, no matter how she disguises or creates false appearances to confuse your judgment, as long as she observes carefully, it is not difficult to find the clues of her change of heart, because at this time, she will suddenly become more moody, critical and heartless than before.
3, habit change According to common sense, most of our sudden changes in some habits and routines are for a reason. For example, a person who is not very enthusiastic about the work of the unit suddenly claims that he is very busy at work recently, needs to work overtime, and wants to go out on a business trip. This is incredible. For example, a wife who is very enthusiastic about housework suddenly becomes negligent in housework, often goes out in a hurry, and says she won't go home for dinner tonight. It's as strange as always being a close friend, and suddenly it becomes close. These two people either have ulterior motives, or they have hidden dangers and changed their faces to show their tails.
4. Increase activities This is actually one of the most important details in habit change. Women's strategies are often simple. It is generally impossible for you to marry a woman with calculating strategy like bond girl, so once an unsociable lover begins to go out in various occasions, we can't say that the wife's personality has changed from introversion to extroversion in morning runs and bar parties, but we can attribute the reason to an excuse. A woman who always said she didn't like oranges, one day,
5, high phone bills, American federal agents can find out your specific address according to when you call, and can also infer whether it is an affair according to the frequency of your wife's call. Telephone is a common way of communication and dating in life. However, the phone number of an affair is often abnormal, just like Yan Shouyi's lie in Xiaogang Feng's movie Cell Phone, and women are no exception. When lying, you can ensure that your face is not red, your neck is not thick, you are out of breath, and you are as realistic as nothing. Of course, I'm not here to ask you to doubt your lover for no reason, but to find it in time and save it.
6. the cost has soared. I wonder if your family's income is open? It would be much easier if your salary income was reimbursed once a month and there were large expenditures recorded at any time. After a woman has an affair, her expenses increase, and most of the money is spent on buying a series of private cosmetics to ensure that her youth is invincible and attract men. Sometimes, she will deliberately express her true feelings to the man she likes, such as suits. Men spend money on mistresses, and so do women, so she secretly saves money and hides all the extra income from her husband to meet her own needs.
7, dull eyes Only in menopause, women will forget to buy milk powder for their children today and put the clothes to be washed in the washing machine tomorrow. When they are free, they will be in a daze with no light in their eyes and look trance. Looking at the mountains seems to be full of worries, but she will not take the initiative to tell me what is wrong, but silently ponder. At this time, if you ask her if she is sick or not, she won't pretend not to know that you are calling her and talking to her, but she will turn her head and keep smiling at you with a different expression: honey, I'm fine, go to sleep first, hmm.
8. Amnesia has been said countless times in previous articles. Women in love tend to have much smaller hearts than men. Men are often careless, but women can remember interesting things about your love period. And every time I talk to you, I always say, you see, we were often chased at that time. If I let you walk half a step at night, I may marry that man, or you are lucky. But if you ask your wife now, if she used to talk to you often, I dare say she is getting impatient. You find it as if da ji were possessed by a fox.
Second, judge whether the husband is having an affair from the following points:
① Forty-two changes.
1, he started exercising, especially jogging (he may have gone to another woman's house).
2. He stopped having sex with you often, or began to try new methods.
He began to pay attention to diet or lose weight.
4. He started to buy new clothes; From boxers to crotch guards, I don't even like it; The material of clothes changed from cotton to silk.
He gets nervous when the phone rings. When answering the phone, he will try to speak in a low voice.
He often makes excuses to work overtime, especially on weekends.
7. He began to look for reasons to stay out of it.
8. He is on a business trip and doesn't tell you the itinerary, flight and hotel information. When you ask him where he is going and when he will come back, he will yell at you, and he will say, you can't contact him at all.
9. He will go out alone on weekends for some bad reasons.
10, when you ask him when to go home, or where to go, he will be very unhappy and angry.
He began to hide credit card receipts and phone bills.
12, he started to have his own private telephone.
13. As soon as he got home, he went to take a shower or brush his teeth.
14. He kept his travel and the people he met secret. When you show some interest in his private affairs, even if it is only normal interest, he will think it is an invasion of his privacy.
15, he stopped explaining where he was going.
16, he no longer takes you to work-related social activities. Even if he takes you, his colleagues will regard you with special respect.
17, he will send you flowers and jewels, but he has never done this before. These are gifts representing guilt.
18, he is absent-minded and unpredictable. Living with him is like riding a roller coaster. You never know when he will lose his temper with you for no reason.
19, he began to criticize your appearance.
20. He started reading books about sex.
2 1. After the phone rings, you pick up the phone, but the other party doesn't talk for a long time.
22. You will receive strange phone calls, such as "I think you should know your husband".
He used to wear a wedding ring, but now he doesn't.
When you go out with him, he becomes more fond of teasing women than usual. He began to pay attention to other women.
25. He started washing clothes.
He is very careful about his wallet and briefcase.
27. He no longer asks you to accompany him on business trips.
28. He started talking in his sleep, usually sleeping less than before.
29. He began to make positive comments on a specific woman.
30. He began to put condoms in his travel bag.
3 1, when you ask him, he becomes completely unwilling to talk.
He becomes stupefied when you want to hug him.
He is no longer enthusiastic about you.
34. When he was sleeping at night, he was so far away from you that he almost fell out of bed.
35. He started sleeping in separate rooms with you, saying it was because he was "afraid that you wouldn't sleep well because of the noise".
36. His temper became very anxious and irritable.
37. He becomes indifferent to people and is often absent-minded.
He told you that he needed to have his own privacy and let you leave him for a while.
39. He is indifferent to you and completely ignores you.
He became more difficult to communicate than usual.
4 1, he often makes people feel cold and distant.
Even on Saturday and Sunday, he stays in the office.
(2) What are the consequences of a man's derailment?
1, is it a phone call with more information than before? Do you often carry your back when you make phone calls or send and receive messages? I often say that I have to work overtime or socialize, don't go home for dinner, and come back late?
2. Did you pay more attention to your image and start dressing up? Or did you start exercising?
3. Did the expenditure suddenly and inexplicably increase?
4. Being nice to you suddenly, paying attention to you often and buying you gifts? As the saying goes, nothing is courted, either rape or theft. Maybe because I feel guilty about you and want to make it up to you.
5. Do you take a shower or wash as soon as you get home? Do you want to do your own laundry? You can secretly check his clothes and smell anything that doesn't belong to you and him.
(3) Now you suspect that a woman's sixth sense is sometimes as clever as a ghost.
There is no specific way for men to cheat. But once a man has an affair, he can still see something.
For example, I don't go home often. Going home is also surfing the internet, or keeping your mobile phone. Both computers and mobile phones have passwords. Going home became a big temper. He used to love eating, but now he doesn't like eating, and he is picky about food. Doing housework is the same, no matter how clean you are, he will talk about things. It has become beautiful, and the style of wearing clothes is very different from before. Love to find fault with you, saying that this is not done well and that is not done well. Have no common language and don't want to talk to each other.
(4) The following points are the signs of derailment that you can refer to.
1, men spend money after cheating.
It is a sign that men become diligent and some become lazy after cheating.
3. A man's cheating phone call must be made behind someone's back, especially his wife and children. They keep texting and setting passwords, and only they can see them.
4. Men are absent-minded after cheating, always absent-minded and forgetful. One is whether he wants to continue, and the other is whether to stop.
Lack of energy is a sign of cheating men. He has to take care of his children, his wife and outsiders. Of course he doesn't have enough energy. Distraction is very tiring.
6. In order to attract mistresses, derailed men pay great attention to dressing up.
7. The derailed man's concept of time has changed greatly, and there is no time law. In fact, he needs time to date. Normal commuting time is occupied by traffic jams, parties and meetings.
8. Men who cheat usually have sex at home. No passion, just an obligation, a dispensable thing.
I hope the landlord can get along with the other half for a hundred years ~ ~
I hope the landlord will adopt it. Thank you. It's not easy to fight unarmed.