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There is a saying circulating on the Internet: Scientific research proves that the more men love doing housework, the higher their IQ. ?
At first glance, it seems ridiculous! If you think about it carefully, it makes sense!
I don’t know if you have noticed that in a family, as long as the man loves to do housework, there is basically nothing There will be quarrels.
For example, my friend Asen has been in love with his wife for five years and been married for two years. He can count the number of fights he has had on ten fingers.
Someone specifically went to ask for advice on how the couple should get along. Before Asen opened his mouth, his wife laughed:
I wanted to quarrel with him, but what did he do? Everything was neatly tidied up, but I really couldn’t find the reason.
As soon as the two began to fall in love, Asen took on the housework within his ability, especially with good cooking skills, making all three meals delicious and delicious.
I went to his house for dinner several times, and the scene was simply amazing:
A 1.8-meter-tall man wearing an apron was busy in front of the gas stove. Drenched in sweat, the little woman beside me helped wash and chop vegetables.
The two chatted all the time, and occasionally burst into laughter.
You're cooking and I'm making trouble, isn't this what love is ideally like? To be honest, I can't imagine what such a couple would quarrel over.
What is a man who fills his home with warmth and makes his wife laugh, if not he has a high IQ?
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Men who love doing housework more , the higher the IQ, this sentence may seem simple, but it actually contains many profound meanings.
A man who loves to do housework must know how to share it.
In fact, no one really loves to do housework. Everyone will feel tired when they have to do laundry and cooking when they get home from get off work.
But because of this, we cannot push all the heavy housework on to my wife.
She is your lover, not your nanny. Only by understanding this can both parties truly talk about their relationship on an equal footing.
A man who is willing to do housework must love you.
Anyone who has entered into a married life understands that chores around the house are trivial and trivial, and both men and women have ten thousand times when they want to give up.
Only those who love you can be consistent and resist the urge to give up in front of dirty clothes countless times.
A man who loves to do housework must be well versed in the philosophy of getting along.
The moments when two people get together and argue over principled errors are, after all, rare. Most of the quarrels come from these trivial matters:
Who will wash the dishes,
Who will cook,
Who will take care of the children
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Imagine that your wife is worrying about a pile of dirty clothes. You rush up to hold the laundry basket in your arms and shout: ?I will do it!?
Handsome or not? Handsome!
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Of course, there are many men in the world who don’t do housework. Not only do they not do it themselves, they also think it’s silly for others to do housework.
For example, another friend of mine often laughs at Asen: "It's really embarrassing for us men to be bored in the kitchen every day." ?
He feels that housework is a woman's business, and men should be the hands-off shopkeepers, lying on the sofa and acting like uncles.
In fact, this is exactly what he did. He didn’t even hold the soy sauce bottle up when it fell over, and he threw all the washing and cooking to his wife.
But, is he living a happy life? Not necessarily.
Every time we get together, he complains to us. His wife is always nagging, complaining that he doesn’t do housework, and showing off her face to him all day long. I don’t understand where her anger comes from.
To be honest, everyone lives under the same roof, eats, drinks and sleeps together, one always lies on the sofa watching TV, and the other is always immersed in housework. It is strange that such a family can be harmonious!
You look down on others doing housework while complaining that your family is unhappy. With all due respect, my friend, you are asking for it.
Every adult must understand: no kind of happiness will fall from the sky, and no one will live happily for a lifetime with a good pair of horoscopes.
Every aspect of married life requires painstaking management. It is really stupid to complain endlessly while being a hands-off shopkeeper. With all due respect, this is really stupid.
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Many men never understand how easy-to-coax a woman is.
Just like Asen's wife, she understands Asen's intentions better than anyone else, and she sees everything her husband has done for the family.
He cooked for her, and of course she would prepare several exquisite snacks and make a cup of hot tea for her husband every sunny afternoon.
Just last year, Asen’s mother broke her leg and was hospitalized for more than half a month. My wife brought tea and water, helped with scrubbing, and took good care of her.
Everyone said that Asen married a good wife, but she herself said: "If he treats me well, I will naturally treat him well."
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If he is good to me, I will naturally be good to him. Isn’t such a simple sentence the essence of how husband and wife get along?
A man who knows how to get along with husband and wife well What is a man who is a wise man if he doesn’t have a high IQ?
As for those men who complain about their wives’ bad tempers and bad looks all day long, why not start trying in the kitchen today?
I can guarantee that given time, you will find that the way your wife looks at you is as gentle as the moonlight tonight!