There are two ways of life for people. The first way is to live like grass. Although you are alive, you are still growing every year, but after all, you are a grass. You absorb the sunshine, but you don't grow up. People can step on you, but people won't feel pain because of your pain. People won't pity you because you were stepped on, because people didn't see you, so each of us. Even though we are nothing now, as long as you plant the seeds of trees, even if you are stepped in the middle of the soil, you can still absorb the nutrients of the soil and grow up by yourself. Maybe you won't grow up in two or three years, but in eight, ten or twenty years, you will certainly grow into a towering tree. When you grow into a towering tree, people will be able to see you and come near you in distant places, and you will give people a green and cool look. Looking back, you are still a beautiful scenery line on the horizon, a tree, a beautiful scenery when you are alive, a pillar when you are dead, and useful when you are alive and dead. This is the standard for each of our students to be a man and grow up.
the spirit of water
I have an analogy. Every river has its own different life curve, and every river has its own dream, that is, to run to the sea. When we are in trouble, whether we rush over or bypass it, as long as we can cross it, I hope everyone can make their lives flow to their dreams, like the Yangtze River and the Yellow River, to the end of their dreams and enter the wide ocean. But it doesn't mean that you can flow if you want to. In fact, there must be a spirit in it. This is the spirit of water. Sometimes our life will be sediment. Although you follow the water all the time, because of your personality defects, you may slowly settle down like sediment in the face of difficult legs or timidity. Once you settle down, you may not have to work hard for progress, but you will never see the sun. The sediment above will keep you down, and finally you will be dark, so I would suggest that no matter what your life is like now, you must have the spirit of water, even if you are polluted, you can wash yourself, continue your strength like water, and constantly break through obstacles. When you find that the time is not right, accumulate your thickness, and when the time comes, you will be able to rush into the sea to achieve your life.
Self-discipline is the key to success
I learned to ski five years ago, and I fell as soon as I started on the ski slope. Later, I found that I had to learn to stop. There are two ways to stop skiing, the eight-character stop method for beginners, but when the ski slope reaches a certain level, this eight-character stop method doesn't work. I must use two skis to stop sideways, so I spent a whole week practicing it specially. I went directly to the advanced track with my skis on my back. I have a friend who thinks that if you can go up, I can go up. This ski track has a hillside on one side and a cliff on the other. As a result, his feet were torn off and his ligaments were completely broken. Whenever there is a huge temptation in front of you, if you feel that you can't stop, don't chase it, because you must be the one who stumbles after it.
Three quarters of happiness and happiness in life
Once when I was walking to the edge of the Yellow River, I poured a bottle of water. As we all know, the water in the Yellow River was very muddy. Later, I put it on the side of the road. It took about an hour. I was very surprised to find that three quarters of the water in the bottle had become very clear, and only one quarter was sediment. If we compare the clear water part of the bottle to If you compare the muddy sediment to our pain, you will understand that when you shake it, your life will be full of turbidity, that is, pain and trouble. But when you calm down, although the total weight of sediment has not decreased at all, it will settle in your heart, because your heart is quiet, so it will never be stirred up again, so three quarters of your life must be happiness and happiness.
The thickness of the background determines the height of your future life
Nowadays, college students have relatively little humanistic knowledge. Nowadays, college students are too eager for quick success. They only read Poor Dad and Rich Dad, and they all want to get rich quickly. There is a saying that "the thickness of the background determines the height of your future life" and this thickness is definitely not enough for reading Poor Dad and Rich Dad. You should read Rousseau's History of Western Philosophy. Books such as Zhu Guangqian's History of Western Aesthetics, and even reciting Tang poetry and Song poetry are good for improving the thickness of your life. On the surface, reading these books may have nothing to do with what you will do in the future, but she laid the foundation for you, laid the foundation for your thickness, and laid the foundation for how much room you can play later.