Baoyu likes the meekness of xiren, so xiren becomes Baoyu's pillow, but Qingwen has culture and can communicate with Baoyu spiritually. They have a common language, so Baoyu prefers Qingwen.
Qingwen is a very important person in his life and Baoyu loves her. Baoyu left Qingwen a steamed stuffed bun with bean curd skin. She is probably the only person in the whole Ehong Garden who has this honor.
Baoyu went to Qingwen's house after Qingwen was driven out. Baoyu sought medical advice to make up for Qingwen in autumn. So Baoyu's love for Qingwen is different.
Jia Baoyu's personality characteristics:
Jia Baoyu's main character is rebellious, which is manifested in his dislike of reading, unwillingness to take the road of imperial examination, pursuit of freedom and equality, contempt for fame and fortune, opposition to official career economy and so on. His behavior is "remote and perverse" and he is a rebel in feudal society. And "That is the slander of the world" is a tribute to his arrogant and stubborn rebellious character.
Jia Baoyu is approachable, gentle and smooth, treats others equally, and has the spiritual quality of equality and freedom. In the traditional feudal society, Jia Baoyu was a rebellious and unruly person. He despises worldly fame and wealth and hates stereotyped writing. At the same time, Baoyu is also fragile and kind. He respects and sympathizes with women and yearns for beautiful things.