How to choose a husband for a woman with a good eye? As the saying goes, a good marriage is not as good as a good career. Choosing the other half will really have a great impact on your life. When choosing the other half, be sure to polish your eyes. Let's see how a woman with a good eye chooses her husband.
How does a woman with a good eye choose her husband 1 1? They will choose the man they love, but they will not only consider love.
Women with good eyes believe in love, and they will choose to spend the rest of their lives with the people they love, instead of just choosing an excellent person to marry.
They are wise, and they deeply understand that this life is very long. If they don't have love as the basis, life is estimated to be dull and lifeless.
In the TV series Youth, Rei Lin is a woman with great vision. She has her own views on love. She thinks that only when a man enters her heart can two people develop. But she will have other measures to decide whether to be together or not.
This is also the reason why she refused her first love and finally chose Beckham. Beckham fell in love with her and met her requirements.
A woman with a good eye will not give in to things. They believe in love, but don't just think about it.
2. Pay attention to men's personality and choose men with good personality.
Character is the foundation of a person's life. A person with good character can't do anything that hurts others.
A woman with a good eye will also pay attention to the other person's personality when choosing the other half.
If the other person's character is really not so good, then even if she likes the other person, she will choose to give up and stop interacting with the other person.
Because a person's character is the bottom line for a person to do things, in addition to the risk of being hurt, there may be contradictions and conflicts because of different principles of doing things.
The Lin Shengbin incident caused an uproar. While the public felt sorry for Zhu Xiaozhen, they also felt that if Zhu Xiaozhen had carefully studied Lin Shengbin's character, maybe today's ending would be different.
A woman with a good eye will choose to be with a man with good conduct and stay away from a man with bad conduct.
3, will choose a man with the same three views.
Love determines whether two people can be together, but whether the three views are consistent or not determines how far they can go.
A woman with a good eye has a long-term vision and will consider the future of two people, so she pays great attention to whether her three views fit.
Although love really has great power and can knock down many difficulties, there are still some objective problems that love can't overcome.
(1) Are the three views consistent?
In the early days of love, nothing is a problem, and the man can tolerate all the problems of the woman. However, with the fading of passion and the full display of the three views, people with different views can't adapt to it to a great extent.
People with different views are like people from two worlds, who can't speak together.
The beautiful scenery I think is nothing but simple, boring, time-consuming and laborious in your eyes. You are full of joy about something, but I don't understand it at all.
People with different views get along for a long time, which is a kind of consumption. The original feelings will also be consumed, leaving only a chicken feather.
Whether the three views are consistent is really important. A discerning woman often chooses a man who gets along with her.
(2) Know a man's family background.
Being born in a family can know a person's true face, and being born in a family has an important influence on a person.
A woman with a good eye will consider a man's family background, because love is a matter for two people and marriage is a matter for two families.
If the other person's family background is far from his own, there may be many hardships in the future.
A woman with a good eye will weigh the influence of family background.
In fact, the consistency of "three views" and "family background" means that a suitable marriage is often more satisfactory.
4, will choose a man with potential.
A woman with a good eye is not afraid of hardship, and she will also choose a man with potential when choosing a man. This potential is not that the other person has money, but that the other person can let her see the hope of the future.
Women with good eyes don't like lazy and greedy men, but appreciate men who are practical and willing to learn.
They want to grow up with the other half, so they will choose to be with potential men and move towards a better life together.
A woman with a good eye often chooses the other half in this way, considering feelings, personality, world outlook and strength.
A woman with a good eye and a sharp eye can choose a man. Their ability stems from their wisdom and cautious attitude towards marriage.
They believe in love, and they don't just think about love. They have demands on their other half and themselves.
They strive to make themselves excellent and beautiful, just to have his matching strength and ability when he appears.
They know that I must be a hibiscus beside you, standing with you in the image of a tree.
How does a woman with a good eye choose a husband? 2 1. Fall in love with a bad guy and be a bandit.
A bad man can still make a woman love, which naturally shows that this woman is also a fellow villager. A woman who falls in love with a bad man may have changed her outlook on honor and disgrace without much formal education. She thinks that bad people are like heroes in her mind, so it is natural to marry such a man and try to be a "bandit girl". This kind of woman's prestige is doomed to be unlucky.
2, especially love to pretend to be foreign, specializing in stinky bags.
Women have vanity, especially those who are poor but restless. Many times, it is because they want to compare with the same type of women and prove that they are better than others. The so-called "love to pretend to be foreign" often pursues the false, big and empty appearance without looking at the internal quality. This kind of woman, like Pan Jinlian, only looks at height, no matter whether the man is a hero or a "bear". This kind of woman can easily find a man who is idle, lazy or called a "loser".
3. Shuai Shuai is not afraid of becoming a public hazard.
A handsome man is naturally liked by women and looks cool, but this handsome or handsome man is likely to be liked by many women. This kind of man is also the most qualified to be a flower picker, and sometimes he is a "public hazard". But some women love this, don't care about eternity, just care about having it once. What can we do? Of course, this does not mean that all handsome men and handsome men are not good men.
4, romance is not important, honest and steady.
Traditional women may think that living a good life is the most important thing. It doesn't matter whether choosing a man is romantic or not. The most important thing is honesty and stability. Of course, women in the stage of food and clothing are most likely to have this idea. But some women have been married for a long time and entered a well-off society, only to find that they are not as romantic as they are. Sometimes I may feel that this kind of romance is still necessary, and life is just for enjoyment. In this way, there will be confusion and even the desire to cheat.
5. Family business comes first, regardless of age.
A man with a family business is naturally a blue chip, but the more blue chip, the more likely it is to contain many failures. For example, men are rich, that is, most people who can create this inheritance are young. Some people are probably old enough to be their own fathers. But women who don't cross the line naturally have a certain attitude and ability. Pick this kind of man, at least you can look good and gain both fame and fortune. But whether "sex" is good or not, only you know.
6, look at people and see the roots, exercise after marriage.
Some women can see clearly the qualities of men from phenomena and have their own opinions. Although this man has many bad places in others' eyes, or has low status, no money, and maybe some bad habits that ordinary people don't like, women do stick to their choices because they have captured some valuable qualities of men. This kind of woman has the ability of "panning for gold", which is naturally extraordinary. At the beginning, it was difficult to be understood and even laughed at when it was "elutriation". When "gold" begins to shine, it will make people envy.
7, talented and humorous, talent is hard to find.
There are certainly men who are really talented and have a sense of humor in life, but there are certainly not many. There are many men who only have a sense of humor, and the humor without talent is sometimes funny, but it is more like the humor of a truly gifted poor man. It's hard to find such a man. If you find such a man, you are doomed to be lonely all your life, with surprises from time to time. Of course, you can enjoy loving life and loving life.
8, passionate business, ambition is like a hidden dragon.
There are also some women who love ambitious men, or men who are passionate, devoted and ambitious in their careers. Of course, such a man may have a low starting point and may have to experience many failures and setbacks. However, when a woman falls in love with such a man, she will fall in love with "potential stocks". If they do well, they will naturally get rich. But to marry this type of man, you need to share joys and sorrows, and the man's career is unsuccessful.
9, comprehensive quality is good, understanding is the most important.
Such a woman must be more intellectual, because she can not only estimate macroscopically, but also inspect microscopically. Perhaps, this kind of woman also has emotional times, but she will use reason to guide. This kind of woman can often live a happy life, which makes people admire. Ordinary intellectual women often have the happiness predicted by the "four-leaf clover", and everything seems to be perfect. The quality of nature itself is decisive, and then the opportunity is good.