I am a tall boy and I can’t stand my parents. So I was forced to marry someone very early on by my parents, but I didn’t change my name, so it had an impact.
My surname is Zeng, so I gave it to someone surnamed Yan, because the four families of Confucius, Mencius, Zeng and Yan belong to the same family. Then my mother asked me to be the adopted daughter of a Feng Shui master, so I have three parents and two mothers.
You can find an elder who can check and balance your horoscope to live with you. You can change your name or not, but it is best Change the title to your biological parents, uncle and aunt.
I became an adoptive father because I didn’t want to change my title. That master’s horoscope is a great check and balance for me