Will you get married if you are lucky?

Many people come to ask: is it necessary to get married if you are lucky? Will you meet the man who entered the marriage? The answer is of course no. Just like a top school, no matter how good a teacher is, there is no guarantee that all students will not fail. At school, we all know that we should study hard and prepare for the exam. People who believe in destiny too much often have bad feelings and marriages. There is no essential difference between people who dream of a perfect partner falling from the sky when they get married and those who don't study for exams but want to get the first place. .

If the environment is wrong at this time, the circle is wrong, and the people who appear have their own problems, they will get married and "not married." Going out to get married, the expectation of marriage is projected outward. If you can meet someone who meets your needs, you will enter the relationship and even go to the end. A recent consulting case left a deep impression on me. The client is a rich girl with a well-off family and inherited the family business. Mercury, the main star of husband and wife, moved into the relocation palace and connected with the career palace. The other half will be a person with the same background of studying abroad or high education and professional skills, who can encourage her to explore the spiritual world and realize her self-worth. Her family has been introducing a rich boy to clients, who grew up under the control and shadow of her parents. But I never felt anything. There is a simple reason. The circle is wrong, the industry is wrong, the type is wrong, and there is no attraction. The same is true at the end of 100. What the client wants is the courage to get rid of the family control and the opportunity to realize self-worth. He needs such a person to guide himself to become more independent and dare to break through. Everyone's requirements for marriage and partners are different, and it is often the ability that we lack most and need most, which guides a brand-new growth direction. The direction is wrong, and everything we do is useless.

. The relationship between people is mostly based on the common career direction (No.6 Hospital, 10), the common circle of friends (No.7 Hospital, 1 1), the common living and cultural environment (No.3 Hospital, No.4 Hospital) and the common idea (1 No.9 Hospital). The above-mentioned houses cover almost all social sources: colleagues, friends, classmates, neighbors, netizens, good friends, collaborators and people your parents know ... The probability of being liked by new people is infinitely close to zero.

If you want a sweet love, get close to those people and things that can bring a sweet and relaxed feeling. If you want a partner that you admire, you have to get close to better circles and explore a wider world. In a person's life, there are only a few good peach blossoms, and the time for marriage is even rarer. Because the circle is closed, the mentality is difficult, and the direction is wrong, it is a pity to miss a good opportunity. Good love is like a good career. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. Take a step forward and believe that the person you love is waiting for you in the life you want.