Whether a person can succeed or not is inseparable from talent, effort and opportunity.
For an individual, what he can control is the second factor, effort.
Efforts include two aspects, one is the accumulation of ability, and the other is the adjustment of emotional intelligence.
Ability is the foundation of your success and the inner foundation. Emotional intelligence can make your vision higher, your fortune more prosperous, and you can influence external conditions.
Both ability and emotional intelligence are indispensable.
There is a saying, which I think is very good, "Personality determines fate, attitude determines height", mainly about the role of emotional intelligence.
I believe that there must be great people in the world who can see their destiny clearly and foresee the future.
If you find this master and ask him to save your life, if he really sees his destiny and tells you his life, and you adjust your behavior accordingly, then fate is not allowed, then "fate can't be called fate", then he and you are going against the sky.
If he tells you that you have made adjustments, that's what he is destined to tell you. After you adjust, you will meet fate.
So, whether he saved your life or not, it must be fate. In other words, if we don't find him, fate won't happen. If you find him, he will save your life. If you do, fate will happen.
He saved your life, fate told him; He didn't save your life. Fate told him.
In this world, you must have heard a lot of life-saving stories, so have you noticed such a similarity: "These experts come to tell their own stories, and they all take the initiative to tell people fortune-telling.
In other words, fate told these experts. You can tell this mortal that he must obey our rules. "
My point of view came out: "There must be a master who can see his destiny clearly, but there must be no master who can change his life, because he can't, and everything he does is destiny takes a hand." He just implemented, not planned. "
If this master really exists, it must be rare, maybe there are only a few in the world. Then how do you know he is superior? If you know that he is superior, how can you ensure that you can meet him? Even if you know, how can you be sure that he will tell you? Don't forget, if you have this master in your life, he will take the initiative to find you. If you don't have him in your life, you will find him in vain. He won't say anything. Even if you do, you will definitely go to fate.
So, my friend, you should be content with the dawn. For talent, effort and opportunity, what you can grasp is the second one-effort.
Strive to improve ability and emotional intelligence.