The fourth Yi Shu married the fifth.
1, Yi Shu married on 4th and 5th: You are all cows. According to the eight-character marriage custom in ancient China, you can get married.
2. Yi Shu No.4 marries No.5: Explanation of No.4 in Yi Shu Culture 1, No.4 can give others a sense of security, but he has no sense of security and gives people a sense of security. He looks sedate, but he is actually a child.
4% people are workaholics, and their lives are terrible. They have been working for half their lives. They are honest, punctual and trustworthy, and they are never late. They got married just to complete the task.
4% people like to use tables and facts, and the answer will be given after a large number of cases.
4% people like words and have a concept of words.
4% people like evidence, and only when they see real things such as marriage certificate and passbook can they feel safe and practical. They are people who believe what they see.
4% people don't like job-hopping and divorce, and 4% people always want a divorce. What should I do if I find someone inferior to him?
4% of people are good money keepers. If they have private money, they will be divided into several piles, usually rich. If you work hard, you will really be short of money.
4% people like to keep things and don't like to throw anything away. 4% people don't throw things. 3, 5% people often throw things, only throwing other people's things.
4% people like the feeling of sweating, like green, like the breath of life.
4% people are most energetic when they escape from danger.
Nine-type personality female No.8 is suitable for marriage No.4 and is not easy to accept new things.
4 children are extremely diligent, not necessarily the best, but at least the upper middle class. Four percent of the children do their homework carefully, and five percent don't do it until they arrive.
3. Marry No.4 and No.5 in Yi Shu: No.8, a female with nine personality types, is suitable for marrying and being together with No.8.
Number eight likes an independent and strong partner. They like to associate with them in a way of struggle and adventure.
No.8 has a strong desire to pursue life. Staying up late, partying and drinking are their daily routine. Everything is too much, too noisy, too much. They always want more good things.
Number eight doesn't like the doctrine of the mean. They often have everything or nothing. Sometimes all work and no leisure, and sometimes nothing but play. Such a lifestyle will increase the burden on partners and make it difficult for them to balance in different aspects of life.
One minute he made strict rules, and the other he broke them. This is how No.8 showed his strength. They will make rules first, and if they are bored, they will break them.
Number eight wants to gain control, so they really want to predict their partner's intentions.
They are afraid of being controlled, and this emotion is transformed into a kind of control over "territory", including schedule, personal belongings and personal space.
No.8 can't stand ambiguity or lack of information, and your slight neglect of them may also be understood as betrayal. They may think that their partners have neglected their choices or excluded them from the decision-making process.
When tenderness surges, No.8 will deny his feelings by shrinking, complaining about boredom, or blaming himself for past mistakes.
Eight don't want to be hurt by others. If their feelings are hurt, they will start to retaliate. The idea of revenge will contain inner fragility.
No.8 partners will find that No.8 is the one who can turn the tide in a difficult situation; In times of danger, they are strong supporters.
-This article is taken from helen palmer's Nine Personalities in Workplace and Love.
Intimate relationship
Eight attaches great importance to personal freedom, and they hate the feeling of being controlled. They are restricted by too many rules, bound by too many dogmatic bureaucrats and blocked by too many stubborn drivers. From the driving, we can see the inherent contradiction of No.8. When they are full of energy, they hope to sweep other vehicles and gallop freely on the road. But in fact, they can only be tied to their seats by seat belts and trapped in the vast traffic.
A lot of control on the 8 th is actually to preempt others and ensure that they are not controlled by others. They are afraid of being used by powerful people, so they don't want to be ignored or give in. In interpersonal relationships, what they value most is independence. As long as No.8 is willing, they can work hard, provided that no one asks them to do so. Once someone asks them to do this, or on the condition of love, on the 8 th, they will flatly refuse. In their view, rules are meant to be broken. Even if these rules are in their own interests, they can't abide by them because they can't stand the feeling of being controlled.
No.8 thought that dependence would make them weak, so he refused to admit his inner feelings. They mistakenly think that gentleness means dependence, compromise means weakness, and acceptance means fear. Soft emotions are dangerous, because in front of others, people will be caught off guard, easily out of control and manipulated.
Number 8 is straightforward. They will tell you what they want and invite you to share what they like with them. Happy 8 likes parties very much. They don't care about time. They are energetic when chatting, and the party time often drags on for a long time. They naively think that others are as energetic as themselves and like to pursue as much as themselves.
"This looks great. Let's try it. "
"It feels good. Let's do it again. "
This good appetite for satisfaction will bring an illusion of controlling everything. When number eight is pursuing something beautiful, he will feel that he can go forward and forget other things.
Eight judges and acts according to their own interests, and they often don't consider the consequences. They respond according to their own needs.
"Everyone acts according to his own interests, doesn't he?"
"People should take care of themselves."
You have to question No.8 directly, because they rarely ask themselves what their motives are. When they focus on personal goals, they may not care about your feelings. If they are not careful, they will become selfish people, because their thoughts are always focused on their own goals and it is difficult to notice other people's reactions.
Boring number eight will be a problem. On boring nights, they are restless, have no interest in cooperation, and will not be bought by others, becoming obedient. Get ready for your partner. They may start to be unusually silent, and then suddenly burst out and embarrass you in public. On the 8th, he patted his partner on the shoulder, yawned lazily, pointed to his watch and said loudly, "Can't we go yet?" The way to solve contradictions is independence. No.8 is not with you, but you can leave the door open. If they want to join, they will come in by themselves. You just have to do your own thing.
To get along with number eight, you must learn to deal with conflicts. They will certainly test each other's bottom line and confirm that it is safe to hand over control to each other. Sometimes they get angry because of a small matter, just because conflict is a way to verify power. Fighting will bring people closer together. Are you fair? Is it honest? Will you collapse or stick to yourself? These questions are very interesting for people like No.8 who are afraid of emotional dependence. The tough No.8 has no experience in gentleness. Like personality number two, number eight in love is particularly resistant to rejection. People who can help No.8 learn to be gentle need to be frank, be able to stick to their own views in arguments, not manipulate others behind their backs, not control information, and not take good behavior as a condition of love.
-This article is taken from helen palmer's Nine Personalities in Workplace and Love.
The above is related to the marriage of superiors, and it is about the sharing of marriage with superiors. I saw the marriage on the 4 th and 5 th, I hope this will help everyone!