89 is a snake, 92 is a monkey. Why do they always quarrel after marriage? Isn't it eight words?

Two people think for each other, and both learn to make some compromises for each other when they encounter something. They understand that compromise is not to admit defeat, but to make compromises for their families, so they will not quarrel all the time. Eight characters and so on are nothing more than psychological comfort. How many characters are divorced? Isn't it important for two people to get along not for a while but for a long time and learn to look at things from another angle?