First of all, this kind of thing has nothing to do with "face" Whether at school or at work, others have to see whether the "face" looks good or not. Customers can praise you for your diligence, which means that you are at least passable in appearance. If you look too bad in front of the audience, even if you do well, people will not praise you.
Personally, I think you may be too clever.
Good people are deceived, and good horses are ridden. Understand this truth.
No matter at school or at work, people who are angry with you have only two kinds of mentality.
First, you are wrong. We won't argue with him about it. After all, we made the mistake first.
Second, if you are upset, find a soft eggplant to pinch. If so, don't spoil him. It doesn't need much. You can spoil his shortcomings once, and he will be angry with you next time.
At school, the teacher is angry with you, so let it be. After all, we are still in control. Besides, how can he lose his temper with you? Looking back, how big can it be?
If it's really our fault, then admit it. If not, then you must talk to him. If you don't treat students as people, then students are not people? Did the students take it out on you?
Of course, don't confront him, because everyone wants to save face. Besides, you have to point to others if you want to graduate.
As for work, you must be more careful.
The boss scolded you again, which is our fault. I think if it weren't for ... asking him to give us an explanation, I wouldn't sell it to you if I worked for you. Isn't it great to be a boss? You think you are an old landlord in the old society. I won't help you if it's a big deal. Don't you like to scold? Scold it. Anyway, we are not afraid of not finding a job. It's hard to say whether we can recruit employees.
Head waiter?
Hey, hey, what's a foreman?
Lead and guide the staff to work. It's called the foreman.
To put it bluntly, the person who leads a group of people is called the foreman.
Foremen always start from the bottom, it's no big deal. They just entered the business a little earlier, worked longer hours, had more opportunities, had more experience and earned a little more money than the grassroots.
If the foreman is angry with us, he will resolutely fight back.
As a part-time job, I respect that you are at least a "senior" and give you some face. If you can be a foreman, why not be a manager?
If it is for family reasons, it may be a little, because family circumstances will affect the family's mentality and temperament.
But the most important thing is to see yourself.
Having said so much, there is only one meaning. Stand up straight and be a man. Be soft when it should be soft and hard when it should be hard.
Next time, if someone says your face is not pleasing to the eye, just tell him, "It's okay, it's okay, I'm more psychologically balanced when I look at your flat brain ~ ~"