Mo Yan wrote in Late Mature Man.
"People with good nature are late ripening and are being ripened. When others are smart, they are stupid, and they are stupid. When others weigh the pros and cons, they mean it. When others have racked their brains, they will be enlightened. "
When I was young, I always envied those who were sophisticated, smooth and precocious. Later, with experience, I gradually found that precocious people are actually very tired, and it is a kind of mental fatigue.
Xu Sanduo in Soldier Assault is a typical fool who knows nothing about the world. But his nature is pure and his heart is very pure.
Later, Gao Lianchang commented on Xu Sanduo like this.
"There is a person in our team. Everything he does is like catching the last one and saving lives. I despise anything he has done before. After a while, I'll look at him again. Boy, he is already a towering tree I look up to. "
How many smart people are defeated by too many opportunities.
Peter drucker, a management scientist, once said. "People who have many opportunities often wander between opportunities. They always want everything, and in the end they often get nothing. "
When I was young, the saddest people were those who had too many opportunities. Excellent college graduates? A beautiful girl in love? There is a word called "older women". In fact, when they were young, they had too many opportunities to choose, and in the end they all looked at flowers.
They always wander among good men and never take the initiative to think about what they need and what kind of boys are suitable for them.
On the contrary, those stupid and naive people don't have so many opportunities. Every time the opportunity comes, they will regard it as a treasure, and because they are not smart enough, they often will not change it easily.
The word "stupid" in Shuo Wen Jie Zi is explained in this way.
In spring, two bugs wander around there, which means stupidity. To put it bluntly, irresponsible behavior is a sign of lack of wisdom. Many times in life, you need to do one thing wholeheartedly. Five years, ten years, even a lifetime.
Warren Buffett has always been called the stock god. People 1 1 started to contact the stock market, and now they are almost 90 years old and still investing. Grandpa Buffett has done something for nearly 80 years.
So I personally think that in this era, what you need is to be single-minded, not to change, to learn from those who are not very smart, and to live foolishly and naively.
Luo Zhenyu, a logical thinker, once had an eight-character mantra called "Don't ask right and wrong, work hard."
Many smart people, after entering the society, begin to fall into the dispute between right and wrong, especially in the office of the company, there are often all kinds of infighting. If you are not careful, you will be involved.
But sometimes, have you ever thought that this kind of struggle is interesting? Even if you win, you may lose your life.
A wise man, when he is just taken advantage of by others, thinks about holding grudges, fighting back and so on. His thoughts began to be occupied by other thoughts. The smarter you are at this time, the harder it is to get out.
A silly person, bullied and taken advantage of by others, may not pay attention to himself, and his mood fluctuates little, and soon forgets that most of his energy will still be used in the right direction.
There is a Japanese writer named Junichi Watanabe who wrote a book called Insensitive on 20 13. Is a person, when being abused and bullied, completely don't care, just do your own thing.
We say that people who are insensitive tend to live easier. Life will be smoother. Even the body will be better. Chinese medicine believes that emotion is a person's biggest pathogen, and a good mood can make him healthy.
A German philosopher once said. "The pyramids were built by a group of happy people. Instead of what we imagined, a group of miserable slaves were whipped and built day and night. "
His reason is simple, because the pyramid is so perfect that no embroidery needle can be inserted between each brick. Such a project can only be completed by happy people.
I still agree with him. Watching a person unhappy, miserable and stressed every day, he will not comfort himself. Such people often can't achieve great things.
People who can really do great things are in some very happy and comfortable emotions.
But smart people and happy people are few. Oh, they are too smart, see through things, often lack motivation and are generally pessimistic.
Why do we always say "fools are in a good mood"? Because they see very little and turn a deaf ear to the intrigue between people, they are always in a good mood
Therefore, there is nothing wrong with a silly and naive person living happily, and this happy mood makes it easier for them to make achievements. Because people have no other ideas.
It is said in "Augmented Xianwen". "A fool is blessed by a fool, and heaven hurts a fool."
Fools are always easy to suffer, but this may be the reason why they suffer too much. I found that there is something called the fool's folly, and it really exists. This is not superstition, but a kind of "cause and effect".
Because you have suffered too much, you gradually play the role of a vulnerable group in the crowd, so everyone is still willing to help you, and it is active.
China people pay attention to "big trees attract the wind" and "big trees attract the wind". For strong people, we will choose to suppress, while for weak groups, we like to support.
For example, "robbing the rich to help the poor" and "weeding out the strong and helping the weak". These idioms are enough for us to see the concern of China culture for the disadvantaged groups.
Therefore, truly wise people like to make themselves vulnerable groups.
Careful observation, those stupid and naive people, often late bloomers.
Laozi has a very important thought in Tao Te Ching. This is also a movement against Tao.
This is just one thing. You can't just watch. Constantly changing. If you look at bad things now, you will be lucky in a few years.
I am Arvin, and I will continue to share more life puzzles with you.